I'm 25 and my g/f wants me neutered?

angel eyes

i wouldnt get that, best is for her to get merina, it's 5 yrs and whenever you guys decided to have kids the doctor can remove it, it's easy and no hassle for 5 yrs. you are still young, what if you two break up and the woman you're going to be with forever wants kids? once you do that you wont be able to fix it...that's what i think

Girliegirl

If she doesn't want them, tell her to get a tubal ligation. Then she is sterile instead of you...

Racer

Do NOT do it until you are 100% certain that you do not want children. If she doesn't want kids, tell her to get her tubes tied.

I love Patrick

um... she is your gf not your wife. dude i wouldnt do it. you said she was forever? not you!!! maybe you will find someone else in your future who will... and then what... well good luck .... i wouldnt do it.

tell the b*tch to tie her effing tubes.

Esther

Don't do it. If you're not 100% sure don't do it.

You could always try abstinence:)

Bill C

No doctor in his right mind would do this. In fact, why don't you and your gf see a Dr about this? They can advise you better.

bronzebabekentucky

tell her to go get her tubes tied...

~Kay~

Even if you did want to get a vasectomy, rarely do doctors ever give them to men your age, especially ones that aren't married. This is for many reasons, even one you mentioned. If you're not 100% positive you don't want kids then tell her this. If she's not happy with that then that's her problem. If she does not want kids she has to take the responsibility of preventing pregnancy. I'm not saying she isn't but it seems to me she's pushing it on you, which is such a lousy idea for a man of 25. There are definitely other options. She can get an IUD, an IUC, the shot. There are many options. All of which should be discussed with a doctor who will be able to recommend what's best for the both of you. But in all honesty, I don't know of any doctor that would do a vesectomy on a 25-year-old unmarried man.

Sunny

The Mirena IUD might be a good method for her.As for you getting a vasectomy, the fact that you are young and don't have any children would make most doctors deny you that surgery. My 25 yr old brother with TWO kids had to fight to be allowed that surgery.

Ashlee M

She might want to talk to her doctor about getting an IUD. Its good for 5 years and as effective as a tubal, but completely reversible.

Personally I'd almost never recommend somebody getting a vasectomy or a tubal until they were much older, had several children and were married, even then, I don't think I'd do either. You never know what may happen in the future.

>>>>>>

Get a different girlfriend. There are just far too many out there to need to put up with this type of crap.

brazenbeauty

Wait until its something you want... in my opinion thats selfish of her to ask you to do that, its kinda controlling. your body is your temple do what YOU think is right. If you want kids then DONT do it!

~*yay!*~

haha that is horrible and unfair! run! run fast away from her! if she is like this and you are that young and not even married, why are you still with her? tell her to get her tubes tied!

Corine

There are other birth control options out there. If she doesn't ever want to have kids than she can have a tubal ligation. You are not married, if you are not sure that don't do it!

Samworld

It's your body, not hers. If she is so sure that she does not want children, sterilizing herself should be no real problem.

EDIT: About the IUD's, I've heard men say that they get poked by the tiny wires, or fibers that are used to remove it. Don't know, never had one myself, so my husband doesn't know either, but we've heard stories from people we know who do use them.

Jessica S

25 is way to young to be deciding that already, a lot can happen in your life still that may change your mind. First of all she is not your wife, so what she wants you to do in that area doesn't matter. Tell her to get a IUD put in at the gyno, why should you have to suffer because of her decisions? You will regret this and it will be a big waste of time and money in the long run`

ASab

If your not 100% - don't do it. She can get other types of birth control besides the pill. There are several options that last up to 5 years. stick with those until your 100% sure.

bink

dont do something your not 100% sure about. because what if for some reason you guys dont get married and then you find someone else who does want to have kids. then your screwed i would go with nyour instincts.

Mr.NastytheLickmaster

AT 25 YRS YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW IF YOU WANT TO BE WITH HER FOREVER SO AX THE GIRLFRIEND AND GET A NEW ONE ANY WOMAN WHO SUGGEST THAT UYOU STOP YOUR SEEDS FROM MATURING AND SHE NOT TAKE THE SAME OPTIONS IS CRAZY!

concernone

If you're not 100% sure then don't let her pressure you into something that you may regret in the long run. If she does not want kids then there are ways that she can prevent it such as having her tubes tied or injections.

superman71ca

I would ask her to have her tubes tied. There are also a lot of other products out there besides the pill. I believe there is even a patch now.

MILDRED IS YOUR FRIEND

KJ jr

hey Esther, are you like from the 1920's?
lol.

keep using the darn condoms.

cfb193

First of all, I doubt the doctor would do it, With no children they would tell you to come back in about 10 years.

Talithea H

There is foam the IUD the depo shot there are so many things that she can do as for you there are not that many .

Shelby;

get her spayed then,

little mama

Don't do it. You aren't even married to her and who knows if she's the one you'll stay with. If she doesn't want kids there are options for her. I recently had a procedure called Essure done. It's similar to getting your tubes tied but there is no cutting and very little down time. It was outpatient and I was home by 5 oclock. My husband was able to be back at work the next day and I was able to take the kids to school the next morning and take care of all the household stuff. I don't think anyone should have to have something like that done b/c someone else wants then to. And for all you know you guys could break up and in a few years you see her with a brand new baby while you can't have any and want to. Don't do it!!!

Jill

DO NOT DO IT!!! First of all, you aren't married and you never know...things might change down the road. What if you were to break up and find the love of your life years down the road and you two wants kids. Then all that will be ruined because you had a selfish girlfriend. If she wants a permanent fix...she should be the one to do it. She could get her tubes tied. Or tell her to talk with her OB but other possiblities instead of the pill. If the pill is causing problems, its most likely because of the hormones and there are many other options out there.

billgoats79

dont do it. At 25 the doctors probably wont do it no matter what. They have a formula that relates to how old you have to be before you decide that and it depends on how many kids you have. I think with zero children you have to be almost 40.

Jack Herring

You are young, and not even married yet. Looking at the statistics on divorce rates, I believe the chances of you having other relationships in the future are pretty good.

I would not even consider it. Even though some say a vasectomy is reversible, I would wait until later after after fathering children and I was sure my family was large enough.

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