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nastaany1
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I think its great if you either of you have no problem with each others age. As long as you really love each other there will be no big problems. |
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mackey208
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my husband is 47 and I am 41, my sister is 42 and her husband is 38, my brother is 38 and his wife is 46. What do you think? |
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~Niecee~ ☻ ☻ ♂
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as long as ur both cool w/ it its all good :-) Go 4 it!! |
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john_0502000
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Dr. Phil said after 25 women are capable to adjust with any age of spouse. I don't know about your boyfriend behavior after 5 years. |
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kajalb
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9 years difference in age can effect your life later if you are getting marry to him otherwise for timebeing friendship it is not so bad. take some time to think about . boys are generally not mature inough at this age, as my age is 30 now i am not in favour of your relationship but it is your life you can take any step on it, go ahead or come back . best of luck. |
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sweet serinity
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true, if you love each other age is not an issue. i have been with guys a lot younger than me, but i have found that in the long run they are not mature enough to have a stable relationship with. they are still young and have not experienced what you have yet and are still hanging on to thier teenage years in thier early twenties. so have fun with your guy, but don't expect to have a real serious relationship. |
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luv him
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Age is only what you make out of it. If it doesn't bother you or him, in which it shouldn't, then let the number thing go. Age is what it is, a number. |
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Aliyu Y
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i don't think so,most especially if he is good at bed |
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rascal
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Theres nothing wrong with it. If you love him and care about him that is all that matters. Screw what other people think! |
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sscott12414
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So what about the age. When it comes down to it the age doesn't matter. It is the love that you have for each other. I know cause my husband is 10 years older then me. We have been married six years. |
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Annie R
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What is the problem/question? |
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Nevaeh
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8 yrs difference is pretty bad, but you can't help who you fall in love with and their age. Age ain't nothing but a number, so go for it your fine. I know people who have 13 years difference. lol |
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Aktero
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I say,just keep it up.It's a power of love |
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T.G.
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If you guys love each other and are good to one another, why do you care what we all think? There's nothing wrong with finding love as long as its mutual and legal. Good for you!! |
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Sandy F
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Age makes no difference .. he knows how old you are and he likes being wth you. you say you both love each other so what are you worried about.? don't worry about what other people say just go and live your life and the two of you be happy..and him being mature is a really good thing..just be happy. |
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sadai
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i am 17 and i am good what do u think about staying with me for a night |
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john d
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its fine my wife is 4 yrs older then me we love each other more then anything ..besides out 5 yo daughter lo9l go for it make you love and your life count :) |
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intentionalmasterpiece
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No it sounds fine to me. If he is mature and so are you, your ages shouldn't be a determining factor. As long as he treats you well and you enjoy each other and treat each other with respect, it's all good. It's only 8 yrs. and 8 yrs between consenting adults should not be a problem. Good luck and YOU GO GIRL! |
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snow l
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it is ok
U think twice to get equal to maturity |
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bigmommanova
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LET ME TELL YOU AGE MEANS NOTHING, MY MOM IS 11 YEARS OLDER THAN HER HUSBAND AND YET SHE HAS NEVER BEEN HAPPIER! THEY HAVE BEEN HAPPILY MARRIED FOR 15 YEARS AND HE LOVES MY MOM LIKE NOTHING I'VE EVER SEEN. NUMBER'S DONT KNOW LOVE WE KNOW LOVE AND DONT LET ANY ONE OR ANY THING (EVEN AGE) COME BETWEEN YOU. IF HE LOVES YOU WHO CARES! DONT WORRY ABOUT IT RELAX AND ENJOY ALL LIFE HAS TO OFFER YOU GUYS ! I HOPE YOU DONT LET THIS GET IN THE WAY OF WHAT COULD BE THE MOST WONDERFUL THING IN YOUR LIFE. FOLLOW YOUR HEART NOT SOCIETY THEY COULD CARE LESS BUT OBVIOUSLY HE DOES, GO FOR IT BE HAPPY!! |
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Dr Dee
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No, it doesn't matter. |
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dsd
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If you love and understand each other then I say go for it. Forget what people say, they can be cruel sometimes. As long as you both are comfortable with the age difference it doesn't matter what people think. Your relationship is 'you' and 'your man', the both of you decide get to decide on what you want it to be. In fact, I'm going to wish you both the best of luck! You go girl! |
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MaryBeth
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Age is only a number.My brother's wife is 7 years older than him,and they've been happily married many years!
Best wishes. |
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Chloe
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The 8 yrs isn't really the problem. The problem is that he really hasn't reached maturity in a sense. Until you are on your own for a while, such as being 25 or so - there are a lot of things you don't learn. You may end up being more of a mom to him than you want. I'm not being rude, I'm living it. My husband was 23, I was 27. I took care of things because I knew how. So, there are many things that he never learned because he didn't have to. Bill paying, etc. 25 years later it is still the same and now it drives me crazy. I thought he would learn as we went along but he didn't have to so he didn't. Give him time to learn things on his own before marriage. |
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klcurrie77
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If you love him, age doesn't matter. |
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a_bug
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IM 21 MY FIANCE IS 36 AND WE COULDN'T BE ANY BETTER HAVE FUN GIRL ENJOY !! |
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dccuttie75
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Girl go for it!I don't see a problem with it at all!If you're happy and he's happy then do the dang thing!It's so important theses days to be happy. |
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Mache
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Hope not. Thats the difference in me and my hubbys age. Been married 35 years. I was 18, he was 26 when we married. An older, mature guy is good for a marriage. Helps you get settled easier. Good luck. m. |
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T Time
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Sorry, I read that wrong.
No, it's not so bad, but remember he is way young.
Give him space and time. |
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middle child
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It's not a bad thing! But look at what you did at age 21? I just think the 21 yr. old has some catching up to do. It might be fine now but in the long run I think you are both at two different levels of maturity right now. You're probably established in your career and he might not be. |
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