I'm almost positive my wife is cheating on me?

Joe

you sir, are the F UCKING MAN

iyamacog

ALMOST isn't good enough. And you mite not be good enough either.

shadjfl

She's cheating and all you say your going to do will not make it stop. You cant "manhandle" the situation. Using the children against her is just as despicable as her leaving them. However, you can confront her with evidence and then boot her to the curb. Since she likes draining the bank account I would simply change your deposit and account.

When she wants to go out at all hours of the night offer to drive her where she wants to go. Ask her why she needs to leave at such odd hours. Perhaps there is a problem you can help with. Ask to see the phone bills, credit card statements, etc. Tell her you made arrangements for you and her to have a little weekend get away and see what excuses she offers for not doing it. (You will have to actually make arrangements). Put the kids in the other car or get a sitter and follow her to her "night out". If you cant do that have a TRUSTED friend follow her. Ultimately, you have lost trust and or faith in her for whatever reason. You cant force the relationship on her, you cant force her to kiss you or do any other physical act. As angry or hurt as you might be, that just brings you down to her level and someone has to be the adult, it might as well be you.

You can ask her to be honest with you and be prepared for an answer you might not like. Better to know where you stand than guess wrong. Both of you can decide how to proceed from there.

Good Luck!

titania_woodland_fairy_queen

I think your an idiot

im the boss : )

ah...huh? WHAT?

this is a joke right? if she is going to leave you beat her to it, leave her first. dont PHYSICALLY BEAT HER! are you crazy? thats gonna make her hate you even more! just beat her to it, throw her **** outside when she leaves and change the locks lol. take care of your kids and ignore her. as a woman this will bother her TONS and youll have the satisfaction of WINNING.

but, now that you said all that crazy sh!t i dont even feel sorry for you. any man thats abusive is a piece of crap and maybe she deserves better

Esther K.

Are you kidding me? If you didn't have kids I wouldn't have answered this! I don't even like kids, but this certainly isn't their fault - and you shouldn't turn into their problem. What ever she is doing, you don't think the kids will be affected by YOUR actions? Grow up Fool!!!
And I thought my father was an A hole. Yes, it sounds like she might be up to something. Deal with her. Don't take it out on the kids. Who's the adult here? What is wrong with you Man?
If you go through with your plan, no matter how long you feel the kids are on your side, (if they ever are), someday your plan will come back to haunt you. When your kids grow up, they smarten up. They will hate you for this, no matter what Mom did. Be a decent example. Don't do it, don't do it, don't do it.
This question is so disturbing to me. You are reminding me of my 2nd door down neighbor when I was growing up. He murdered his estranged wife (then raped her) and killed her boyfriend. Is this where you are headed? Don't worry, you can start a new family in prison...my neighbor did anyway. Now he's got two dis-functional families.
Jeepers Man, I can understand why you are upset, but please talk this through (in the presence of a mediator), and work it out one way or the other peaceably. There's nothing good about this situation.
Good luck to you, and more importantly, your kids.

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