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vanessa c
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you are letting this man OWN you,,,and you know better! no man is worth that.
stop the 'impossible' crap |
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Leaving him is a better alternative to taking your life. You need to think of your children. |
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flesh
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Well, don't take your own life. Work through it or get a divorce. Obviously, you need to change something that has to do with your marriage. |
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Kristen
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People that we love can hurt us the most. Life is hard, but choose life. Fight for changes, and for your children. Choose a new life, not death. |
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tashana
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don't give up on yourself or your kids. maybe you guys need some space to figure out what you want to do. don'tlet him or anyone else take your joy from you.
good luck |
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guru
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Never quit. |
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nitrogenguy
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Send your kids away for a while and have a good old full on American bash! Oh and about the suicide -- its a permanent solution to a temporary problem!! ;) |
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~Snizz~
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Sweetie, just hang in there!
Please, do it for your kids.
I don't know what's going on with you and your husband, just think about how much you love your kids!!! |
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CatGirl
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You sound very educated, I would suggest marriage counseling, pronto. |
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Marta G
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Oh my god, please don;t do that, believe it or not, it can be better in an instant. You never know what the next day holds for you, You can walk around the corner tomorrow and meet someone that will change your whole life. I'm not just talking about another man, although you never know, but you certainly don't need a man to make you happy. Can you leave the relationship? Find things you want to do, things you like to do and do them. . If you're not happy why bother staying in the relationship, you definately deserve to be happy. People like your husband are insecure, the only way they know how to feel good about themselves is to try and make everyone else look lower than they. Please use those phone numbers and get out of that relationship. I've been through it, I know, I have a wonderful husband now and he treats me and everyone else around him great. I can tell you one thing, a good way to judge a man's character is by how they treat their mom. If they love her, and they are good to her, chances are good they will also be good to you.
Marta |
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Pepe LePeu
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Rather than '' taking your life'', why not ''end this life'' and start a new one? Lots of people divorce, it seems the end of the world, but its not. Go ahead...GET OUT....run...run far....run fast....you say ''when its good''....it doesnt sound like its been good for a long time. |
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Pink Panther2 U
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So, what it comes down to is simply this: Do you control your life, or do you allow others to control you?
If you take your own life, then the people you allow to control you win, and the rest of us are left without the contributions you would have made.
You all ready know that you should get out of the relationship, all that remains is doing so. We cannot make the choice for you; you must take the 1st step before you can live your life - not someone elses.
Don't rob your children, your parents and us of your presents in this world...please. |
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He is poison for you and poison pollutes the mind. |
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Just here
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Please...Please...Please...before you do anything rash...call someone. The 1 800 numbers for suicide can talk to you and help you find some help. You are just overly emotional right now. Don't choose a permanent solution to a temp problem. It will get better, you just have to find the right solutions |
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Just Tryin' to Help
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Leave him... obviously this man is emotionally abusive, or you wouldn't be in this position. You know how much your kids need you. If you leave them- guess who they would be stuck with? Please take the appropriate steps to get your life back into control. Why would you want to be with a man who 10% of the time brings you almost to suicide? Even 1% is too much. |
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YooH8M3?
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when life throw you a lemon throw it back don't take it, you deserve better. Think not for yourself think about your kid. If this continue then file a divorce and take custody of your kid. Ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Please don't do that, I feel like taking my life away sometimes too but think about how other people feel. I mean when you commit suicide you already sin and life is not something you can take for granted. You are here alive today to make a difference, sure you don't make a difference in all but you make it in most. Remember
" To the world you might be someone, but to someone you might be the world"
I hope you can think this out and keep going, you're not a failure when you fall down; you fail when you don't want to get up.
Good luck and God Bless You. Happy face for you =) |
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bgbelden
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The pain you feel isn't half as bad as not feeling anything ever. Don't die because of someone else. just move on slowly with your life and it will get better, because it can't get worse if your already thinking suicide. You never hurt yourself with suicide you only hurt your kids. |
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john a
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It doesn't have have to do if you're a Phd or if you studied in a law school. You are in a different arena right now and it's a different battleground. Try to take a deepbreath and relax. After that....decide. i don't care whatever you decide coz whatever "we" say, it's really up to you to decide anyways, so whats the use.
Relax, try to be calm...then talk. Think about the kids. You just missed each other. take yourselves a break.
That will do....:-) |
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tkbelove
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stay calm, and don't do anything too hasty! If this man is main thing in your life that's breaking you down, you do NOT deserve to have him in your life! If you commited suicide right now, just think of what life would be like for your children without a mother in their lives.....the pain THEY would go through because of the one quick decision YOU decided to fulfill!!! If I were you, I would STRONGLY recommend that you consider divorcing this man, he is an obstacle in your life that you do not deserve to have in your way! Just remember, we love you, your family loves you, and, most importantly, God loves you! |
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tiny
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That would be insane to commit suicide, show this man you are above anything that he may do to you, be strong for your children,, but above all, be strong for yourself.
Why let anyone control how you view life? and yes, you are letting him take total control of yours, next time he gets under your skin, walk away and think of happier times. Good Luck |
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whyteangel11
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Take back your power! Don't give it to him. If he makes you feel this low, this is an unhealthy relationship, you need to let him go and take back your power. So what if it is so good when its good, you can always find a much healthier relationship where the highs can still be totally high, and the lows will not be this low. Why would you want to be with a man who kicks you when you are down and infront of your children? It can't be as good as you think it is, believe me, you can do sssoooooooo much better! |
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All That
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He can beat you down so easily because he knows what to say to hurt you and you let him win everytime by showing him that you are weak. If a man wants to make you take your life away then you don't need to be with him time for a divorce and you will have a better life. |
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headbang
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Stand up to him. You have the right and power to do so. |
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ginger lily
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Have you considered going to counseling, particularly in anger management? No person is worth suicide, if the worst comes to the worst just seperate.But get help before you make that decision.
Oh, and your children are already involved - speaking from experience - my parents fought terribly - you can't prevent them from knowing something is wrong and it's best not to try to shelter them from life. |
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Doc Ryan
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I believe you all should immediately separate temporary and get counseling and anger management sessions.Don't kill yourself that won't solve anything and it will be far worse. |
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Riya
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At the end of the day when you are in hell, you would not have anytime to regret. So think about it. Your life is more precious than ending for this stupid reason. You are so capable, Look out for a job thatll keep you busy rather than think rubbish. Take care. |
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lucylocket7258
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He breaks you down because you let him. He can't do any of it, if you don't let him. You are educated, you are very intelligent. Why aren't you when it comes to him. And oh NO you are not going to hurt yourself over someone like him. Suicide is not the answer, you said your kids are important., if you are thinking of suicide, you aren't thinking of your children. This man can't do anything that you don't let him do., so stop letting him. You are in control of your life, act like it. . . |
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' Cuppcakess ツ
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dont, think of all the people youll hurt youll hurt people you didnt even think cared only selfish people kill them selfs, i have seen people who have it much whorse just go to sleep when your feeling sad and die another day..... a day that is hope fully not to soon to come. |
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dude_in_disguise2004
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You have to approach the problem from a clear perspective. It is obvious that you have marital problems, to be blunt. Consider seeing a marriage counselor or even getting a divorce. There are many ways to rectify this situation, but you can't think things will get better if you commit suicide. Your death will impact the lives of many others. Think of how your children's childhoods will be like if you kill yourself. Your husband may feel remorse for what he has done, but will it be worth it? It is entirely your choice, but you seem to realize enough about your situation to know what the right choice is. |
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mrpuffandstuff
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Look at your life and see that it doesn't revolve around this man or any man. Focus on your kids and the positive things in your life. You might try to let him know what situation he's putting you in when he starts up in front of your kids. But for him to act like that it doesn't appear that he has any respect for you or your children. Life lets me know just like you find something good and lose it you can find something good again. |
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