I'm cheating on my wife because she's fat. Should I put her on a diet so I can be faithful again?

realst1

I hate to break it to you.

Your wife told me she's eating because you are such a chump in bed. She may have gotten some more junk in her trunk but it's because your junk is subcompact. I guess she'll keep eating because you aren't satisfying her.

Bobbie

You cheating is all on you - none of it is her responsibility. Own up to your own actions first before trying to 'fix' somebody else.

But then, yes, it would be nice of you to help your wife get back into shape.......so that she can leave you for someone who treats her better.

mikemja316

What is wrong with all of you people on here. This is the woman you married. If you are so preoccupied with just looks why did you get married in the first place. Wake up.

Jillywinkles

lol. wow.

Mrs D

Such a stupid fake question

Sumomo

You are a horrible person. No matter what weight someone is, you should NEVER cheat on them. You should love her for her. And if you can't accept her, then you don't deserve her. If you want to keep going out with that other girl, i'd devorce your wife, because you don't deserve her. My friend is bigger then most people, and has a wonderful boyfriend who would love her no matter what size she is.

mrs dalton

YOU'RE UNTHANKFUL STUPID SHALLOW LOSER WHO WILL NEVER GET ANYWHERE IN LIFE!!!! GO GET YR MEDICINE!!!!

SayWhat?

You should tell her what's going on and let HER decide.

LAURA G

My ex cheated on me when i was fat but as soon as we divorced i lost all the weight. Maybe u should stop living a lie with her and let her free.

bananas

ok now what planet are you actaully from?? if you were my husband and admittingto cheating with someone elese on the net then guess what i would only kiss you goodbye

ladyJ

and some men wonder why they are called pigs

The JUDGE

You became the bad guy when you cheated instead of approaching her about her weight. Either offer her your true opinion or divorce the woman. Why make her life worse than it already is by proving that she has no value in her marriage as well as poor health? You think she will be OK with finding out that you are cheating?

Jackson's Mama Llama

that is the cruelest thing I have ever heard. didnt you marry her because of the person she was or did you marry her because you thought she was attractive? I believe in keeping up the appearance, but as years go by your body will change especially if you have children. You should love her no matter what she looks like, I'm sure you're not that impressive yourself.

roo_me94

really? you looked the mirror lately cuz i bet you aint no catch yourself. befor you start laying all on your wife start looking at yourself............hope this helps pull your head out of you ***

Shannwp

wow what an attitude
you cheat b/c you are not happy, she may be gaining weight for the same reasons, you are lucky to have someone who loves you and if you love her, enjoy who she is looks fade with age, fat comes and goes the person with a heart is who she is!

youcandoit

.....I don't even know how to reply to that I don't think I will. I think you just want attention. I hope your playing around if your not you need help]

Kitey

You're meant to love her for who she is, if you don't you need to end it because it's unfair to her. oh and btw you're a pig.

DeeAnna

Your cheating because you're a lousy husband a terrible person who is deceptive and cruel. That you can decide a persons value to you by their size makes you very small.

I hope that the creature you are cheating with is worth your respect, morals, marriage, misery loves company and you've offered yourself to someone who can cheat on you....

Your beautiful wife deserves better than you, I hope she finds a real man that loves her and knows how to take care of a woman and make her feel special.

And when you find yourself sick from an STD or guilt ridden and weak and sick, (it happens) no one will be around to care for you. Your hottie will find herself a new cheap thrill to cheat with.

I hope a squirrel crawls up your leg and bites you.

A good scare is worth more to a man than good advice.

junkman

Sure,,,fat,, good reason to cheat on her. What's next, cheating of wrong color of hair ? why am I wasting my time here,,,,

Oh, you are the mental masochist aren't you!

oXOnyaSayXo

You jack ***! Diets dont work! Just wait 'till she finds out and takes everything you have!

kaneselo

i think your the one with an issue, thats your wife, be more faithful and not judgemtnal on looks.

Countess

Ha Ha. Thanks for the points.

Marilyn C

Dear man,

I think you should have a conversation with your wife. Break off the affair and start with a clean slate.

She has to see the change and want it for herself. So, in order to do this, I recommend that you schedule her for a physical and go with her. Blood work, weight, and a complete health assessment. Let her know know you are doing this because you want to help her get control of her life because YOU love her. Let her know it is because you don't want her to kill herself with food.

Counseling is also recommended because most women eat out of emotional hurt. This is just a symptom of deeper problems. Your cheating on her is only going to add to the problems.

Make a list of all of the reasons you married her. Remember who she is underneath the mask of food and excess weight. The weight is only a symptom.

Be delicate about her emotions, but tell her it is time to talk about these issues with a counselor together. Tell her, YOU will stand by her and support her through this change. This is life-changing event.

As to your behavior....are YOU willing to change and see the woman you have forsaken?

Gardner Wife

Hah thats kind of funny but on the serious note. Although you should love her anyway, She needs to respect your needs while you are respecting hers. Tell her how you feel. If she refuses to change then leave. No need for you to be unhappy. But you are wrong for cheating, she should leave you, but yeah man you deserve to be happy and satisfied too. Maybe you can work out with her, give her some motivation

Leetz

If only it wasn't true. It happened to me as well. We are now going to counseling, but I won't trust him again. "He loves everything about my personality and how nice I am to "His" friends", even though we've been together over 30.

I'm not sure if I want someone who only looks at the body and judges it based on what the girls on Cinemax look like.

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