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redpeach_mi
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you really want to hear what other people think of you and your situation. ok...your a home wrecking *****. you know he's married. who cares if he isn't happy. if really really wasn't that happy he would have divorced her. you're just a piece of *** on the side. |
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ronidl76
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Yeah, he's having his cake and eating it too. They never leave their spouses. He's using you. |
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Blade_III
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You got any friends as gullible as you are? |
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janetrmi
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Please leave him. You deserve better than that. If he is treating you this way now, think how he will treat you later down the road. The Bible says you reap what you sow. If you continue your relationship with this man, your life will turn for the worst...guaranteed. |
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jaded
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glad to oblige. lucky you that you were chosen to be the garbage can for this particular piece of trash! yuck!!!!!
i pity his wife!!!! i have an idea, call her and tell her you have been boinking her husband and that he wants to keep seeing you while he tries to work it out with her, that!! will give them something to talk about during their marriage counseling! haha |
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single&happy
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yeah, bad move, you should never date a married man. He dont want you, he is trying to get his mind off of his wife, he loves her not you and just for advice in the future, dont date married men. |
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phorwanted
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Since you answered your own question ...thanks for the 2. |
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Kc
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Good girl.
Leave the sorry user!
You know you're being taken for a ride. |
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nwnativeprincess
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Have some "Self~Respect" and find a single man of your own.
Realize that you deserve better, & aquire some "Self~Esteem", it is a wonderful trait. |
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Shell
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What if the shoe was on the other foot? And, you were the wife and found out that he was cheating on you, how would you feel? |
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scotgirl60
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If you know what to do, then why are you waiting to do it.
He is only interested in you as as side treat for himself.
Is that what you want to be, the other woman? You deserve so much more, but you will only get it if you respect yourself enough to wait for it. He certainly is not respecting you or his wife. But come on, what kind of man did you think he was, if he was so quick to cheat on his wife??
Next time, don't even enter into a relationship with a married man. If a married man wants to date you, then wait until you see his divorce decree before even meeting for coffee. |
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*LDY LEX*
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LEAVE HIM!! she will ALWAYS have him!! trust me!! they will never be "over"..... |
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♂♥♀Lesley♂♥♀
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ooooohhhhhh. redpeach really let u have it.....................
shes right u know? |
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Kitty
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What is your question? If you want a serious relationship, this man is a waste of your time. If you just want to play around - he's the perfect guy; he'll never want commitment from you, so you can have fun with him while seeing other people. It's really about what you want or expect out of the relationship. There's nothing wrong with simply wanting to have fun with no strings attached, but don't expect anything serious to come out of it. You are his distraction; don't let him become anything more than that for you, either. |
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skydivemommy
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Ask him to pay you $250 a pop--at least you'll get something out of it. |
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abc
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that's funny......all married men who "date" (and I use the word loosely) tell the mistress (which you are) that he and his wife aren't getting along............
Don't waste your time, he's not leaving his wife.....you are allowing yourself to be used and wasting your precious time on this earth..... |
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dmc
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Some of them DO leave their wives. My husband did just that to be with me after seeing each other for 2 years. I admit it doesn't happen often, though. I wouldn't count on it. I suggest having a straight talk with him about his intentions and your future. See what he says and go from there. |
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Tray
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The problem is that you wouldn't want this guy anyway because, he's going to do the same thing to you when you get together. Playing is a natural habit for some men (matter of fact for some women too). Don't fall in love with this. It will only hurt more. I think I'm to late in telling you that. |
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granola
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Find your own man. You are a disrespectful *****. He will NEVER leave his wife. He is using you and will continue to do so as long as you let him. I hope one day you are married and find out your husband is having an affair. You'll get yours. |
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normanco55555
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Run and don't look back.
I just found out that my wife of 8 years was involved with a married man right before we began dateing. She has continued a relationship with him until now over the phone and email.
Think about the future consequences. The thought of what she did sickens me. I know my wife loves me and I still love her and we have two chilldren together so I will stick it out.
You never know what the future holds, you may find the man you are really looking for and have to hide this ugly part of your history from him. But what if he finds out?
My life has been in a tailspin since I learned of this because I never for a minute expected it.
Give it a lot of thought. |
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Whitney
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thats the oldest trick in the book, doubt get your feelings hurt, he's not leaving her unless you win the lottery! What are the chance of that? 1 in 100000000000. |
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tayhay
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Leave him and find a single bloke! |
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No one
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This is the typical infidelity male M.O. What he is doing (and look at other women's questions going through the same thing) is stringing you along. He is having his cake (marriage) and eating it too (you). If you want to stay in this meaningless relationship then that is your choice, and I wish you all the luck. Fact of the matter is that he could very well not be having any marital difficulty at all, and that is the story he is selling you for your sympathy, compassion and love. Lets say he is having problems and gets divorced. He comes running to you. Next thing you know you are the wife and you will have to deal with your thoughts on who (if anyone) has taken your place in the relationship. |
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Darling
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He's made you his door mat. It'll never work out if he plans on trying to make it work with his wife. |
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