I'm in a predicament...?

Sue C

IF he got caught before, you can just KNOW he w/get caught once again! She surely knows the signs of how he is when he's cheating, & surely she w/recognize these signs again. What ashame tho, & you are so rite in that just having a child w/NOT heal a bad relationship. It only complicates things, BUT it also w/just hurt this child if or when they decide to split up. IF I were her, found out he was again cheating, this would be the very last time he would do it to me ever again. He would be out of there for sure. I agree w/you in that you SHOULD just stay away, as it's only a matter of time before she does find out & you KNOW she will. At least you'll have a clear conscious knowing you had nothing to do w/the bad things that happen to/in their marriage. Time has a way of taking care of ALL things, & you just KNOW in time it will. You DO have the rite idea of just staying out of it tho...Best to her tho...:)

Julie H

Keep your mouth shut. Tell no one. The wife probably knows and you will just embarrass her when you tell her. Also, what usually happens is that she will tell her husband that you told her about the cheating. Guess what? Both your friend and her husband will both be mad at YOU! Act surprised when you find out and never tell anyone you knew anything about it.

Darla

I'm glad you are being thoughtful about this. I went through the same situation only I was so inconsiderate in how I told my friend. We were going out and I just blurted it out. I almost forgot to tell her. Now I know something like this is super important and you should most definitely tell her. No easy way to do it either. Good luck!

Soon To be Daddy to twins

she wont listen to you all you are going to do is ruin a friendship and a marriage let her find out on her own

Ann D

if i were your friend and you saw my husband cheating I would want to know. she can decide what do to after you tell her.

China Doll 3

If you feel you should tell her, tell her but as you said you are not close anymore maybe she won't believe it.

TRIXIE

he who gets involved in the middle ends up on the outs.

Tommy T

What do you possibly have to gain by getting involved?

walkon100

adding problems to problems.how dose this fix them ? the truth well all be seen in time.you can`t hide from it.

E&L

Why would YOU be so upset? His wife is the one who should be upset that her husband, and the father of her child, is selfish and having an affair. It's not any of your business and you should distance yourself from them.

donotbuyakia

It's none of your business. Stay out of it.

Palindromic

Even though it could potentially ruin your friendship, she should know the truth. What she decides to do with the information is up to her. Just make sure that you have facts and aren't going to take it personal if she doesn't react kindly to you.

jumpinjupiter69

Drop an anonymous letter in the mail addressed to her, explaining to her what has happened or what you know.

benthere

shes not gonna listen anyhow and telling her will only ruin a friendship its him i would confront with it not the wife

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