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michael_trussell
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No you aren't crazy. Want my number? lol |
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hogsnotbubbles
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He's wanting you to do it, so he doesn't have to cary the guilt of him doing it any longer. |
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weddrev
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He won't be your husband, he'll be your pimp. |
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Someone who cares
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Sounds like you need some marriage counseling. |
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Truth Teller
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Is he incapable of performing or something?
what is the reasoning for him giving you permission to cheat?
Sounds like he is doing a little somethin somethin on the side as well (if he is physically able)
He is giving you permission so he can justify doing it himself.
I think the two of you need to get divorced. What kind of relationship is this? |
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Lew
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Yes, you and your husband should be the only parnters. Other coming in will destroy your marriage. |
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Larry
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Sounds to me like that marriage is pretty much over. |
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law woman
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he wants you to be with someone else so he doesn't have to feel guilty about being with someone else. Get out now! |
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Ben Aqui
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This can only end in tears. |
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postal_marg
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You sure the hell are, what are you thinking about and he's even more nuts to tell you that its ok |
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daljack -a girl
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It sounds like both of you should have just continued dating.
Being married is a committment to each other because you love and respect each other.
Otherwise...what's the point. |
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cinsingl83
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Sounds like you have a very dysfunctional marriage. Get some counseling. |
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Leroy
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Think of that opportunity as opening "Pandora's Box" because that is exactly what you'd be doing. You can never predict what's going to come out of it. In the long run, probably nothing that makes it worth it. |
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livlovelaugh
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I think your husband is going along with this because he thinks it might give him comfort if you cheat. But honestly I don't think there are any success stories when it comes to cheating. If you are finding yourself attracted to other men, explore this with your husband, what exactly is missing from your marriage? Or what are you unhappy about? It sounds like maybe you two need to take your relationship up a notch by trying new things in the bed room. Spice it up!!! |
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?Jessica?
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Let's say you start to do that... sure it's fun for the time being, but when will it stop? When will "fun" turn into jealousy? Infidelity? The best way is not to start. You two will put your marriage to the path of divorce.
Good luck. |
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Butterfly Girl
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Is he looking for an excuse to cheat too? i mean if you do it, then he will be able to? |
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T.T.
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that is crazy, once you are married it is supposed to be you and him........ unless you are doing some kinkyness together girl do not sleep with anyone else unless you want him doing the same and if that is the case you shouldn't have gotten married. |
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stacy
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You are bonkers and so is he. why get married in the first place. if he knows it's not cheating anyways. |
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Terrell
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Only do that if you really for the gates of hell to open up. I can tell you once you open that door it willbe a neverending linen of women he will be screwing around with. Women are usually selective in this regard but I can asure you what you thought would be a few her and there will turn into a damn circus. |
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Sounds like neither one of you's should be married.One of the biggest parts of marriage is trust.You's don't even want or care about trust.There is nothing wrong with being attracted to others but just remember why you got married in the first place.If your husband thinks it is ok chances are he's already done it with someone else and does not care a bout you anyway.You can be as attracted as you want ,but,for a good solid marriage to last forever leave the rest alone!!!!!!! |
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Jacuzzi Lover
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I don't get it. Do you think that maybe he is cheating and that is why he says it is okay? |
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Ozgur Alaz
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That's normal
You are very attractive woman |
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Hopeful
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Think about it for a min. Maybe he is already doing it to you, therefore, by telling you to go ahead, but tell him, is making him feel better, hoping that you will and he will be all set. |
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Adli
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totally yes.. |
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smoovstella319
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whoa....not good! you both need counseling..and how weird of him to say that. he must already be cheating too....you are both headed for disaster :( |
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Deniece Lei A
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I think if you really love your husband and doesn't want to cheat ,then don't cheat . Crushes is harmless if you don't take it to the next level . As for your husband i think he said ok because he don't want to be the guilty one if he cheat . I think you guys should have a marriage counselling arrange if you want your relationship to last .. good luck !!! |
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doclakewrite
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Why did you get married then??????
A commitment is a commitment.
End the marriage if it is not what you want, first then seek out something else... |
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cleancutspike
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You are crazy hot. If my wife looked like you I'd be hiding her from other men, not shopping her around. |
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Celeste P
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It's better to be upfront if the two of you can be.
Swinging isn't for everyone, in fact it's only for a mature few.
Be carefull the waters you tread, if you do decide to do this be upfront and honest and keep the lines of communication open on all fronts except for friends and family! They will not understand and your business will become everyone business. |
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