I'm never getting married? Tell me what I should do!?

I'm 13 and I like white girls and I'm black...see the problem...

Question says it all...
I'll be a virgin forever, playing video games when I get home from work like a little kid...

What now? What do you think about this? Every girl I have asked out has always said no, and I think it's because I'm black. I'm a really nice guy, and I have a nice personality! No one ever says yes! I just wish I could be like the people who do get the girls, I barely hang out with them playing games really. I almost have no life! What should I do???!!!!!
Additional Details
I am a Christian, and I'm a little scared to talk to some girls...I don't know why. Sometimes I get really down when I get near girls and walk all slowly and stuff. They ask what's wrong, and I really have no idea. Somethings with me.
I hang around 6th graders alot and talk about video games. I probably won't ever find a girl who likes Pokemon, Naruto, Naruto Shippuuden, and the Wii. Other than my job that's about all I'll do.

chinadoll

First off, don't doom yourself to failure- you're only 13. Don't stress it. You have a LOT of time. Just enjoy life and being a kid. Join a club or something and find some friends to hang out with. It doesn't take every girl to like you- it just takes one!

joe_fleeman

There are white girls who like black guys.Just get in church live for the LORD and HE will see you get a good wife one day son.

Play nice, children

Maybe when you grow up you'll realize that a person is not a color, and the real beauty is beneath the skin.

princess bri.

Your only 13 you have a long life ahead of you.. now and days there are a lot of iner racial couples my best friends parents are from different races her mom is white and her dad is african american.. so on that note dont give up.

your problems with girl on the other hand you jst need to be more sociable with them dont be scared go talk to them and you will be surprised on your results.

-princess bri :]

Dani

when your 13 girls find it weird to interracial date most of the time, give yourself 6 years... and try again.

Tommy T

I don't see the problem... you're 13...relax

...are you asking out 21 year olds? That might explain some of the rejections.

Ed34

I don't see your problem. The only problem is the one you have with yourself. Stop seeing the color of your skin as a barrier to having the things you want. It isn't. You're 13 for heavens sake and are not the person now you'll be in ten years time. Enjoy your youth (it's very brief), make friends, get a good education, avoid bad people and habits and you'll be fine. Stop worrying about the girl thing and stop trying too hard. These things happen naturally anyway.

The Magic Answer

It has nothing to do with your color...

I know a lot of white girls who like black guys...

And a lot of black guys who like white girls...

And a lot of them who are married to each other...

Maybe if you move to a bigger city or area that's more diverse people will be more open minded.

You'll find your way! Or maybe a lucky girl will find you!

sweetie

First you should probably put down the video games and start to grow up. Join a club or group at school. That way you can meet more girls and not be so weird around them. Then you should realize that it doesn't matter what color your skin is if a girl liked you then she would still go out with you. However, you might just want to start with talking on the phone and stuff like that since you cant drive or make money. This isn't our grandparents time. People don't look at color anymore at least not as much.

billhettel

Dude you're thirteen. Just be patient and i promise you'll be disappointing white girls fathers in no time.

HHH

do u know what i was doing when was 13??? i was playing w/ friends and running the streets and playing video games etc. that was 15 yrs ago and i miss those days of my childhood. when i didnt have to get up and go to work full time to support myself, pay the bills, etc. i miss those days. dont grow up too fast. dont think about marriage little homie. u have plenty of time for that later. love will come when u least expect it from whatever race the girl is. just focus on being a kid. and if u grow up too fast you'll be like me wanting to be young again.

i know how u feel stop trying to search for love it will come to you in time and before u date a girl be good friends with them because what is a wife well shes perrty much a best friend and when that special girl comes along she will see u for who u are not by the color of ur skin

Tracy F

You are 13, you have the rest of your life a head of you to find a girl friend. Just because you like white girls doesn't mean that they don't like you. In today's society there are alot of different races dating/marrying and having kids with there loved one who aren't from the same background. Do what 13 vyear olds do. Get out there and play with other kids, hand out and have fun. Hey you never know. You could end up dating your best friend who could be a white girl. Don't sit inside like a hermit, get out there! In time you will have a girl friend, then once you do, you will experience how much work it is to have a relationship. Good luck and get out there and play with other kids.

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