I'm pretty sure I caught my hubby looking at some girl getting into her car while we drove past; what do I do?

Bill

get over yourself...he isn't dead so he will look..don't you?

mica

ignore it. just don't put yourself down or feel obligated to one-up the other girl. guys will drool over other chicks, it's human nature. but by stressing, worrying etc you make it clear you feel intimidated and/or lower than said leggy blonde.
don't. it's no good, and if you believe she's better than you, he'll start believing it.

when you pay no attention and make it clear that you, in fact, don't care who he looks at, you might find he wont be able to look away from you. don't let jealousy get to you, you dont have to prove anything to him.
stop convincing yourself youre any lower than other girls. it's hard but you must learn to become unaffected. then you can keep your dignity and his attention. trust me, it works. :)

cdlmeup4

Honestly you can't. I think most guys like to look, and I guess he isn't touching, so looking is better, right? I used to get so upset when my husband did that, also. But I noticed myself sneaking a peek at a cute guy once in awhile, too.

Tonya

he is human you cant. its ok to look at long as he doesnt touch...

tweetypie88888

jesus he only looked i suggest you just forget about it if every woman acted like this when a guy looked at another woman no one would stay married long

kwturbtchn

Honey, he is a man, and the way I figure it is as long as it is just a look who cares, he came home with you didnt he? At least he isnt out sleeping around with all the long legged blondes. You sound very insecure in your relationship.

kaitoudark

okay,don't panic!just keep a close eye on him(inconspicuously)i mean,you may just be overeacting.maybe it's nothing.that's what i would do.c ya,and remember,don't panic.

$&more$baby

Happy Hag

As long as all he does is look, you're okay. If he comes home to you, you're okay. Don't let jealousy ruin what I think is a good relationship. It's not very becoming, and it has driven men away.

THREE RIVERS

Best result, Cry and tell him he hurt your feelings. Most women ignore it , but to get angry will give him an attitude.
Nothing beats crying , trust me

Scalawag-101

If heâ€™s a normal guy you canâ€™t. If all heâ€™s doing is looking why would you care this much?

My opinion: you really donâ€™t have a problem with your husband but I think youâ€™re creating one. You need to look at yourself & ask why is this a problem for you. Do you have a girlfriend, whose advice you trust, that you can talk to?

I hope this helps â€“ good luck.

ladypersephone21

Guys looks. Can't be helped. No reason to get upset or jealous. Now if he asks for her phone number, then you can start worrying... Just remember he chose you!

trishelle

I feel youre just insincere and you are concerned about him looking at another woman, dont let that mess up your weekend. As long as he does'nt pursue. chill out.

qaz

hes a guy and you just have to forget it. It should be fine as long as he doesn't go any farther, no touching, no getting numbers lol. I mean, what can you do? its not like you r going to ivorce him for something so minimal.

megan

That's what guys do.

barkley

please do not let it control your relationship. all people look at other people they find attractive. do not take it personal. try to be the kind of person other guys will do a double take of, then maybe you will understand that you should not be threatened. It is only a compliment. do not hold your husband as if you are the only person in the world for him.

Gyrlie

Just remember that you are the one he was in the car with and you were the one he went home with. It's kinda natural for guys to look... but they really should be considerate of their significant others feelings. I've seen my fiance do it once or twice and I just laugh at him... I actually asked him one time if he wanted me to leave so he could go talk to the chick ... that kinda got his attention and I haven't noticed it since then. If you are comfortable in your relationship and you trust him, than a look here and there isn't gonna hurt... now touching is a different story :) good luck

camellia_

Well....you cannot prevent him from looking. Thats for sure. But you can make him feel REAL bad by looking at other girls when you are around.

Make sure he knows that his tendency is not only bad manner, but also he is being disresprectful to his wife by looking at other girls in her presents.

Celtic Tejas

Darling, you can't Men are very visual. Most do not even realize they are doing it. This is like asking a dog not to bark.
I'm sorry it ruined your time, but IF he is not overtly cheating Cool it & don't make you & him so miserable.

jdclodfelter

He's a man....they all do it, but I bet you take a second look at a guy every once in a while...you're a woman...it's only human nature. My husband does it and I know he loves me and myself, I check guys out , it's only natural..And we've been married for 15 years.

YOGIE

MINE DOES IT, DO NOT LET IT BOTHER YOU, JUST STAY THE SAME.. NO HARM IN LOOKING, IF YOU LET IT GET TO YOU IT WILL CAUSE YOU TO HATE, THAT`S NOT GOOD FOR YOUR HEALTH. I HAVE BEEN THERE. JUST STAY THE WAY YOU ARE IT TAKES TWO, YOU HAVE TO BE STRONG. HONEY KEEP THE FAITH AND PRAY TURN YOUR HEAD TO THE LORD, AND HE WILL GUIDE YOU THROUGH ALL HARD TIME`S, AS LONG AS YOU KEEP LOOKING IN HIS DIRECTION. IF ANY THING GET`S YOUR GOAT, START PRAYING. THE LORD IS EVERYTHING. HE WILL ANSWER YOU. KEEP ON LOOKING AT HIM. yjjones1@yahoo.com

StarShine G

Its what guys do. Let him have his fun , he is looking not touching. he goes home with you and stays home. so what is the problem here.except you are over reacting and you cant stop him...

fabulous_at_any_age

what u NEVER look at guys?? lighten up he'swith u isn't he!?
keep on being jealous ....you will lose him. you know the expression "damned if u do damned if you don't" well he might damn well do it if you keep on like that.

robsnor

You should be glad that he looked. At least now you know he is a man. My wife would think that there is something wrong with me if I do not look.

Trouble

You think you're gonna keep him from checkin' out hot women?? Sorry,not gonna happen! Just let him know you saw him & the least he could've done was hide it a little better. Tell him to make it a little less noticeable from now on.

bluez

For God's sake, he's married, not DEAD! He's allowed to look! Cut him some slack........it's obvious you don't trust him, and honestly, that's your problem.

its a natural human im pulse
doesn't mean he going to jump in bed with her

mark p

men will be men!
when they do stuff like that!
it's nothing!
do not get jealous, mad, angry about it!
he is still with you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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