I'm scared of succeeding so my ex fiance would know that I suffered, what would you call this ?
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I'm scared of succeeding so my ex fiance would know that I suffered, what would you call this ?
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Alright, let me elaborate as this might seem extremely weird, it's actually in some way a bit psychological with complexes, I don't have any tho. The truth is I have broken up with my fiance, during the relation I lost chunks of money because of what I had to go through with her that I couldn't even enjoy and have pleasure succeeding in my work, so eventually the opposite would happen and I would end up loosing money, often 500 bucks every few days and when I used to make money I was scared she would think it was easy to do that, now that I'm after the break up, I could say I'm broke and I really mean it, I had a high rate of success again in my work but I ended up loosing it all, it's just like that, after the loss I would say to myself that this happened because I was scared she would think I'm doing ok after not being anymore with her and that my life is going on normally and when I make money, I can't have the enjoyment of that as I'm supposed to. I don't want to suffer and not be able to love lest she would think she did me nothing wrong and that I'm living my life normally but at the same time I need to make it clear that I had to suffer, that I'm suffering, before I reach a particular success and that this success could also have been not accomplished, I have already had very tough days, talk to me people ! It's funny that I could help out anyone on all basis of life and tell people what they should do but when it comes to myself, I'm having such a umm should I call it complex ?
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Ashybugs Mommy
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I'm not sure exactly what you call that. But you're A** Backwards with this! You need to be succeeding so you can show her that your life isnt pure SH** without her. You need to show her she doesnt have that control over you.
I would think about seeing a therapist. I'm not sure any of us on here can REALLY help you solve this problem. We can give you advice all day. But you are ruining your life just to show someone you needed them in it. Good luck! I really hope you consider counceling. |
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