I'm sleeping with a married man, and there's a problem he never keeps his word with me.?

Jennifer C

Okay, let me get this straight. He is married and having an affair, therefore he is not keeping his word with his wife to love her, honor her and be faithful. Please explain to me why he would be more likely to keep his word with you? If he cheats on her, he will cheat on you. If he lies to her, he will lie to you. You are not more special than she is. You will not magically change him.

baseballdad69

PLEASE get a life!!!! He is happy with you because he is getting his r*cks off and not having to deal with day to day sh*t at home. You are his escape from reality and no more. Find someone you can have a real relationship with.

M M

He doesn't keep his word because he already has a family and can't get away from them as often as he wants. Not sure what you expected dating a married man? If I were you I'd stop seeing him until he was divorced.

sexy

He is not going to leave his wife for u. He is telling u what u want to hear. Your are the other woman, and that wrong. You need to be number one. You have to let him go when u r ready. There is somebody out there for u and he is not married. How would u feel if you got married and your husband was cheating on you with another person?

missingora

Why would you expect him to keep his word to you when he doesn't keep his vows to his wife? You should leave him alone!! He's cheating on his wife, lying to you, and probably has other women as well. Of course you know what to do! Have respect for yourself and get away from him for good!!

Daniel C

He's a married man and he's having an affair. Think about this one girl - he's a liar from the get-go. You can't trust a thing he says. Of course he breaks his word with you - he's in this only for himself and doesn't really care if he hurts you.

You break it off, that's what you do.

punxsutawney phil

You knew right from the start that he doesn't keep his word with his wife. So why are you surprised you are being treated the same? Your plan to be in a stable relationship is flawed.

white_*****

Honey please leave him. He is playing games. He is using you. In other words he wants his cake and eat it too. If he was really that unhappy with his wife then he would leave her for you, without any hesitation. Do yourself a favour and leave him. Because if he game a dam about you then he would only be with you regardless if had kids or a wife. He would leave it all for you. Honey, you deserve so much better! And believe me it is out there! Go get it!

Just Somebody

What did his wife ever do to you to make you want to hurt her so badly?

Momof2inLa

Grow up, get your mind straight and find somebody who will love you for you, not for a piece of azz!!!

acatisacomintogetcha

He's a liar to you and his wife. Leave him. Respect yourself.

H P

I am sorry to say this, but he is only happy cause he is getting some without having to worry on paying for it.

lets use common sense here, if he was really that miserable with his wife, he would had left her and go straight to your arms to be "happy"

Cuthbert

You're sleeping with a married man and you're surprised that he won't keep his word to you? Why? Every time he is with you he is betraying the one person he swore in front of God and his family and friends that he would be faithful to until death. Why should he keep his word with you when he won't keep the most solemn vow he has ever taken in his life?

The bigger question is, why are you surprised he never keeps his word with you? Oh - and watch out for the future - if he cheats WITH you, sooner or later he will cheat ON you.

Linda M

This is a lose-lose situation for you. If you get the man, you get a man who has cheated on his wife. How can you trust him to be faithful to you? He will string you along with promises and never come through. If you lose the man, you really win. There is someone out there just for you and not someone who is just using you for whatever.

CopyChief

Um, leave him alone. He never keeps his word with YOU? Ya think? Um, just by being with you, he's breaking his word to his wife.

Kat

if he cant commit to you then move on.. don't waste years and then it still not happen. good luck

Belen

You should leave him right now for the reasons you mentioned here. First, he is a married man. Second, he never kept his promises to you.

Sweet Suzy 777!

Why would you expect a man that is cheating on his wife to keep his word with anyone? He has broken his marriage vows, he has not honored his word, it is worthless. Why would you be interested in his wife's seconds any way? You are letting him have his cake and eat it too. You are committing adultery. Stop this now and run far away from this lying cheating adulterer.

$Ke-Ke$

well i think that some married men only have extra girls on the side because they get tired of their wifes and they tryin find something new.

getmymackon

Oh please surely by now you can see right through him? You are the bit on the side and forever will be, all hell will break loose when his wife finds out and he will be on his knees grovelling for her to take him back.

Move on honey not worth the grief.

ncgirl

He never keeps his word to you because he is MARRIED!!!! to someone else. So, YES!!!!!!!!!!! you should leave him alone. He does not love you. He only tells you what you want to hear so you'll keep on sleeping with him. My best guess is that he isn't unhappy with his wife. If he was really that miserable, he'd have divorced her to be with you already. That's never going to happen. You'll never be anything more to him than an easy lay!!

j.c lavender

If a married man can cheat on his wife with you, he will do the same thing to you and cheat on you with someone else or go back to his wife!
Do not get involved with a married person, even if you feel you are in love with him. You will not be able to have him 100%, you are sharing him with someone else. Don't you want someone devoted to you 100%? You can find someone else who is not married because there are plenty of men out there.

seekinganswers36

Run, like hell and develop some self respect.

sarah.

that's not the only problem.

ut303

I know this is hard for you but you've gotten yourself into a jam. Your in love with someone who is already committed to someone else. The truth is this man is married and he may be unhappy but he has not made any plans to leave his significant other. You have brought him some temporary satisfaction but that is all you have done. It sounds to me that you would benefit from ending this relationship as soon as possible and expend your energy into raising your standards!

Michelle M

Unfortunately for you he'll never leave his wife. It's fortunate for him that you live so far away and he can get away with having you and his wife. He might be happier with you but it doesn't seem that he's unhappy enough to leave her for you. I would move on if I were you and find someone who is fully committed to you just like you deserve. Good luck!

BigKev 2 (level 5)

You've explained a situation here many married men would be happy with.

A girl who dotes on him; has an affair with him knowing he is married; lives 5 hours away...........

What more could a man wish for??

Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess)

Can't imagine why you'd be surprised that he's not keeping his word to you - you already know he's lying to his wife, why should you be any different?

He can TELL you he's leaving all he wants. But actions speak louder than words, and if he's not leaving, it doesn't matter what lies he's telling you.

i have been cheating to my wife as well. recently she found out about me having an affair. i started having session with psychologist, and found out that i can leave my wife and will turn away from lover. additionally, i found out that i love risk and will risk everything for the specific moment, such as having an affairs with some one else. my wife and i separated for a couple of months, for that period of time i did not want to see neither my wife nor my lover. go figure right? recently we decided to live together with my wife, and after a week o so, i started to think about my lover. so, as i said already i have psychic issues, i love risk and will be risking all the time.

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