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Happy-2
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I am shocked by all the people saying you're spoiled. Maybe you are. Whether or not you are spoiled is, however, in my opinion, irrelevant. Besides, are we to assume that when he made you this promise he didn't know you were spoiled? LOL!
What IS relevant: a man should say what he means and mean what he says.
It would be gracious of you to release him from his word, but I agree with you that a man has an obligation to follow through on his promises. |
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momontheedge
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You are spoiled. He's saving for a house (which is for you also). Quit being a brat |
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Serious Shuck
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how much did you spend on him for his last birthday huh? |
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mezwood
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NO your a spoiled brat like he said...He was probably thinking you wanted some bath salts or something not a freaking 1000 dollar night on the town...grow up! |
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Mr Lizard
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Threaten to hold your breath until you turn blue, and he will cave in for you. And enjoy renting for the rest of your life. |
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Marina
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Anything within reasonable means! You know his and yours finances---why would you ask for something extravagant? He probably wasn't counting on having to take a grand vacation, but rather get you something nice or take you out locally to a play and a dinner. That's a little bit over the top for a birthday---besides, you'll have another one next year. |
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KJ
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i have never hit a woman in my life.
that's only because i never met you. |
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Mrs E
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<But if I'm spoiled it's his fault!>
That's an interesting perspective. |
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Ă‘usta
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Daddy's girl.
Remember he is your husband not your daddy! |
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Fancy
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sounds like you're spoiled to me. Get over it. |
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FutureMrsThomas
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Get over yourself. |
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amandafofanda66
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Wow, you do sound spoiled. Pick something more reasonable. |
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faith
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Wow, what a spoiled brat. He is being responsible and is saving for a house!!! Get over yourself! |
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Brown Water Drinker
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Your a sloppy drunk. I think I bought your husband a drink the other night at the bar. He kept mumbling something about, "Why the hell did I marry her." |
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~NIKKI~
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what is more important to your future???
A house ?
or
a Broadway play?
in life sometimes you have to make sacrifices in the present for long term goals of the future. |
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aunt_webby
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but you need to get your priorities right and be reasonable.
you know that getting a house more important than tickets to a play so how about a compromise , say just a romantic candle lit dinner ? |
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Clueless
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I think you had better stop this nonsense before you have more problems than missing a Broadway play |
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persiapretty
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C'mon you know he meant, "you can have whatever you want - within REASON."
What if you asked for a Lamborghini???
Exactly. |
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Princess Belen
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YES hes Right!!! U need to save up to buy a house.... |
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Fannie expecting #2, InLuvWith#1
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You sound a little spoiled! :) no offense intended! It's his fault if you are spoiled? are you suggesting you have no mind and logic for yourself? Wow! You need to get a job, work, and find out the value of money (cause you really don't if you don't know how much what you're asking for costs).
In the mean time, why don't you go to a nice restaurant in a nearby town, and to the movies, and back home for a bath with roses in it and a night of love making? Cause that would be enough to make any of us happy! |
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47
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Can you get any more spoiled? BTW your husband has plenty of reason to want a divorce right now. He just realized (if he hadn't all ready) that his wife is selfish, high strung and incredibly immature. You KNOW that your saving for a house. Why would you even ask for a gift like that? |
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Blessed21
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u should lighten up on your man. he probably thought he could do what u wanted and wasnt expecting something so expensive. dont be so hard. i am sure u knew his finance situation before now. |
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nickeypia18
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I agree but you know your financial situation atthe moment. Why would ask for something so OUTRAGEOUS!!! He shouldn't have said anything if he didn't mean it but your a big girl and should know better, i think you should calm down and think of something else dont argue over this. You do sound spoiled and i think you should get over it and be alittle bit more reasonable. Your acting like a child |
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NEWPORT BEACH GIRL
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you do sound spoiled...you need to read over your own question...my gosh you sound like a lil spoiled brat....you are not a brat are you??? be happy with at least a nice card and a nice dinner and a lil nice present ...i mean geez...he is trying to save for a house you know....something that adults do??? you are acting childish to me...grow up honey.... |
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askjaniceanything
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Okay, first of all, you should be glad that he even said to you that you could have whatever you wanted for your birthday. He could have gotten you a piece of gum. Be grateful for that. Secondly, it's extremely rude that you're angry with him for saying no. If he can't afford it, then he can't afford it. Get over it. Lastly, you are a spoiled brat and if I were a guy and your boyfriend I would definatly dump you. |
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The Voice of Reason
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God help your husband! You are in a different world than most of us... |
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hiyasweething
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oh wow, man, i feel sorry for him. you sound like a b**** ... yea your definately a spoiled brat... uhm hello if he doesnt have the money, you need to look at it like if you didnt have the money and well anyways dont make him feel worse then he already does. its not about the money, its about the thought. you should be happy with if he like gave you a nice homecooked meal and just cuddled and watched a movie. |
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Cortney B
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You are very selfish. You have a terrific husband looking out for your future. I'm sure when he said "anything you want" it was within reason! Saving money to purchasing a house is way more important than spending money to New York to see a play. |
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?Lem?ny?
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I think your spoiled and probably high maintenance. He's trying to save for a house...do you even know how much money that is? If you live with the attitude "we can always get the money back" you'll be in debt for the rest of your lives.
Seriously, be creative...instead of a Broadway show suggest he: rent some movies that are musicals, have a candle lite dinner in, and make it romantic! You'll be happy you did! |
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GracieLee
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You're not going to like my answer....
I think you are being really unreasonable! In this economy where most of us are having trouble just keeping a roof over our heads and food on the table your husband is doing the right thing not to deplete your savings on a one night jaunt to make you feel like a princess!
Why not a nice, practical gift this year like a gift certificate for clothes at your favorite store, or a trip to have your hair and nails done if you want to pamper yourself? |
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kj
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When he said you could have anything you wanted, he probably didn't realize that you were going to want something that will wreck your house fund. It does sound like you are spoiled, but I don't think that's all his fault. I think it's because you are used to getting your own way, and are demanding about it. |
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