I'm still in love with an old girlfriend?

ETxYellowRose

You need to forget about your ex and start thinking about your family.
She also has a husband and a family of her own.
Do you really want to cause her alot of unnecessary pain by stirring up **** between her and her husband?

If you were still in love with your ex then you had no business marrying your present wife. You have cheated her out of true love and commitment.

and you need to remember............EX'S ARE EX'S FOR A REASON..........stop and think about your past relationship and why yall split up in the first place.

Monte

I think you are "in love" with the idea of being in love with this girl cause she is out of your reach and we all like to want for things we know we can't have, relax this "thing" will pass it may take a while but it will pass meanwhile think about the things that are in your reach and enjoy the fact that you have ready access to the things in your life that you have. Good Luck!!

moreblondforyou

Well, for starters, don't kill yourself over it. Second, if you look her up and she wants to get back together, is this worth risking what you have now? Thirdly, if you leave your wife now, and she would have to leave her husband, you guys get back together, then break up (again, because I am wondering why you brole up the first time) but if you do all this and then you guys ultimately break up, now you have NOBODY, because your current wife left you and your ex dumped you. Sadly, this is something you should have resolved BEFORE you got married.

colorist

No, you should call her, you will likely find that if you see her again she is not what you have in your mind to be her. She will most prabably be less than pretty and you will find the will to get over it quickly. Best wishes

Lady D

Sounds like you had your chance but it didn't work out. What in the world makes you think it would work now? Don't screw up everyones life and especially the children. If you need to, get help from a professional. Get up off of you pity potty and be sure to flush!! Sounds like you have a nice wife....

olitorago

You have to decide one thing only, What's more important for yourself? Yourself? or the others? From there I think it's obvious

Mercedes_82

Yep...better dead then STUPID!!!

cowboy

yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lhee

nope, you will still break your wife's heart if you do that. why not try to forget your ex. i think you are not really trying hard that's why she is still on your mind. or maybe if you don't have kids yet its time to have them. children bring joy to a marriage. you and your ex are not meant for each other, she has her own family now and she might even be happy. why don't you do the same. save your marriage and build your own family. it's not the end of the world. behind the clouds the sun still shines....

Mariam

Hey I am the most open minded person here, but in all honesty, you have to move on you are now married and she is married with children so you have to keep in mind if anything happens between the two of you that would hurt the children involved, but hey maybe you can send her a Christmas card, birthday card, etc.. for the next 18 years....who....knows right...... your wife deserves your love now.....100% of it.... sorry.... I know that is not what you wanted to hear....

chona a

There's always a way of letting go of your feelings if you really want...remember that you both are married...so better be a good husband and father to your children, if any, than having her in your mind...

robert d

No bullet!!! That's the easy way out and the only one that would suffer is your wife. Do you think she deserves that forget the past and just love your wife shes there shes real and deserves your true love don't let her down you will be a better man for it.

RRR

think in every positive thing in Ur life , the good things of Ur wife ,the bad things of Ur ex girlfriend , think about the time that u had fight with Ur ex girl thing about Ur life with Ur faithfully wife, be a man, ask God for help.
note: i was like U and i am good naw.

SNOWMAN

Grow up, you have a family already so does she. Concentrate on you honey, take care of your woman. Be a MAN, not a sissy.

kimgirlscout

Everybody goes through this at this point in the marriage. It's normal to think of an old flame. But remember how you and your wife felt when you 1st got together and married and try to recapture it. Don't call your old girlfriend if only for her kids sake - please.

Angela C

i would suggest being friends if possible. i am very good friends with my ex who im still very much in love with. its so hard now because you are in the "what would have been" phase. you both have other loves now and need to accept that. oh and no bullets!

June H

FORGET ABOUT HER !!! Remember your vows to your true wife. Marriage can't be enter in lightly because god takes vows VERY SERIOUSLY so we should also. Eventually you need to face the hard fact you're both married and move on with your lifetime right wife who God gave you to have for your WHOLE lifetime. You are looking for a way out from your marriage & your lifetime commitment to your true wife. Don't be a coward & a quiter by jumping off the ship. It seens the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence .......... THAT IS ONE BIG FAT LIE ............... the real truth is the other side of the fence is ALWAYS brown !!! Spend your whole life with your ordained wife. BE THANKFUL FOR WHAT GOD HAS GIVING YOU .... YOUR ORDAINED LIFETIME WIFE !!!

ladylove

I know what you mean.....my friend and i lot contact about 8years ago when i told him i was getting married....he was hurt...i recently ran into this person about a year ago and had i long conversation about our past, present,......well that part we r not sure about...my marriage is not the best and thats what makes it easy to talk to him about a possible future....follow ur heart in this...because this is ur future and ur life and nobody else....look at everything....talk to her ..she might be happy where shes at and might not look at things loke you....unlike me and my friend we still love one another....

unknown

Sometimes we think that we are in love,but it can be just attachment.
It is opposite because u can't forget her and she is in your head,but maybe not in your heart!
Man,she is married and has 2 children and many problems at home with hers husband,that's why she has just no time for nostalgia about u..
It is disgusting too,but u must find new girlfriend and have a new live!
p.s just keep on funkin!Good luck!

cheetah7

Maybe what you need is some kind of closure. Perhaps you might want to see her for one last time (as friends). I don't see anything wrong with this unless you have an affair with her. Eventually you need to face the fact that you're both married and move on with your life with your wife.

cascadingrainbows

whatever you plan to do---just don't!

Don't you dare crush her family because you intend to destroy your own because that's just mean & selfishly egoistic.It's not fair to anyone & it's simply unacceptable.
Loving someone doesn't mean blocking everybodys happiness...live & let live.

SAB

forget and spend ur life with ur wife

springo88

get over it and remember why you married your wife, Think of all the lives you will ruin if you start chasing her. Let things be, we all have regrets and we can't always have what we want .

NoMaD!

Move on!
-NmD!

Khapera

Leave Her otherwise it would be a cheating upon your wife

cristanine

Remember the Alamo.

Have you ever seen the movie "The Graduate"? Dustin Hoffman starred in it and when he knew that Elaine was the onoy girl for him he raced to the alter where she was getting married and ran off with her and that was the end of the movie. Your girl friend got married already so its a little late for that.
I will say this, why if you feel that strongly about her did you ever get married is beyond me. You don't wait till the last minute and decide "Oh, I changed my mind IU want my ex". it doean;t work that way. Your gonna struggle with it now!

addybme

No you should not put a bullet in your head, there will always be that one person out there in your past that you loved in a different way that you ever loved anyone, and you will never forget there image. With time it will fade away. If it was meant to be you would still be together. But now you have a wife, who loves you very much. She is married with two children, and chances are what made her so beautiful is from the glow of love and children and family, from the life she is living now. Just let it go, and get on with your life, if you keep dwelling on the past then you will have no future, or alive.

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