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I've a same problem .. my hubby is more towards his family n friends.. but he says that iam his 1st priority.?
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I've a same problem .. my hubby is more towards his family n friends.. but he says that iam his 1st priority.?

i've a same problem .. my hubby is more towards his family n friends.. but he says that iam his 1st priority..... instead of thinking abt me n him, he thinks abt making a house and spending money on his brother and sister s.. also on hs cousins.... we r currently in UK . whenever i sk him about his bank balance he never tells me a clear picture , never ask for suggestions either .. iam so frustrated .. we have no savings .. mor over he is not polite to my parents ... i dont knw where my life is heading to .... we r married for more than 3 yrs and we dont have any kid ...... coz offlate i've started thinking that he is not the one whom i should trust further and he lso thinks the same ........ what should i do .. i tried many times to leave him ... but i always failed to do so .. coz somewhere down the line i still have love for him .. pls suggets me what to do ... i cant lead this life ... i feel suffocated. thnks
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thnks for all ur answers .... my hubby is a nice human being but our views are entirely different .. i cant blame him solely for all these things .. but at the end of the day he should also understand ...

when ever i talk abt fuure plans and savings he feels iam a money minded girl ...and he hides things from me ... is there any solution to this problem ?


    




Paul&Fran
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Well it's a no brainer.. Ill be blunt.. Either leave him or quit your whining.. You state your unhappy, hes not going to change. So either move on and look for happiness or stay and be miserable it's as simple as that. I know it's hard you have put three years in to this. But why stick around and waste any more of your life.


Tina T
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are you working? if not get a job, build your own nest egg..this way if you do ever leave you have your own money to fall back on. have you asked him how come he isnt nice to your parents? or that it hurts you they way he is? good luck


Muse to my Ears
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are you against spelling full words? I say you just get to a counselor, he may not trust you. But you really need to talk to him not go behind his back.


walkon100
not a answer well fit to your question due to one fact you marred him


ouragon
I can't really make any sense of your version of English. It's too distracting to read with an ellipses every few words.





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