I've been married for 3months and have just found out my husband is a multiple cheater!!!!?

amrosemary43

I too went through your situation. Believe us that tell you, he'll do it again. To the guy that said all men are cheaters , give me a break, even you know better. After 5 weeks my husband (got serviced ) and even after I produced evidence he denied it. Only after a year he came clean. I took him back out of pity to only have him cheat again, not once but numerous times. It's not our fault, it's their low self esteem that can't be satisfied. Get out while your STD free and the mistrust doesn't grow into a cancer that eats you alive. Love turns to hate quickly.

so you have good & experienced driver .

you can do anything of course you can find the new one ,but what is surity he will not be , or he will not become in future

louise e

I understand that this is really upseting, but trust me forget about him an look to the future.

Well if he is cheating on you then by all means you should leave him. I hate to say it but there is no love for you only lust when he wants to be with you!
Get out before kids come into the situation that will only make things worse.
Sorry to hear about this, try to be strong!

Lady in Red

I don't know where you live, but where I live, you have 6 months after you marry to try to get an annulment. You have to show that your spouse has exhibited some form of behavior (adultery, alcoholism, drug abuse, physical abuse, gambling addiction, etc.) that you weren't aware of until after you married. It has to be a behavior that, if you had known about it prior to marrying, you would not have married the person. I would ask an attorney about the laws concerning annulment in your state as soon as possible.

just_trump_my_ace

married three months and he is already cheating?

This is one case where I say just get out now. Honestly, he was probably cheating b4 you were married to him if you have only been married for three months.

Count your loses and run girl.

Natalie B

It depends if he's cheated with you at all.
I'd recommend couple's counselling as a step for you both to try and deal with it.

J Mc

dump him

Chianti Man

Move on..... a leopard will not change his spots... Sorry..... but you deserve better.... X

San

if youve only been married for three months and he's already cheated a lot, then imagine how much he'll have time for if you're together any longer. if you stay with him, you'll be wasting your life. as much as it hurts, you are very lucky to have found out so early in the marriage, because you can get a divorce and put an end to all this. i hope you find someone new and caring and flaunt your happiness in your ex-husbands presence. good luck!!!!

Try n Smile

As this cheating is not only the once I would leave him. You may love him but he is a pratt! you deserve better. If it was just the once he had cheated i would say that there may be a way around it, but if its a lot more than once, he will never change. Find a guy who respects you and will treat you the way you deserve. Good luck hun.

Dazza

leave. he won't change.

Heather C

You may be able to get an annulment, but if not, get a divorce. That's the ONLY logical solution.

Dr. Lifemaker

Make the most of it by diversifying and having threesomes.

Don't get even get real.

free_angel

Divorce him and chalk this marriage up to making a mistake in marrying him.

alphacenturi

He's cheated in the last 3 months since you've been married or before?

If he's done this since you have been married then you need evidence, you can't walk away from him unless you know 1 million % that he has done it.
You can't belive anyone, his friends, your friends, etc because this is too important to go on what your being told, you need evidence that it has happened and then make your decision.

You might want to hire a private investigator for a few days or look at surveilance equipment such as a audio recorder for the phone, they're surprisingly cheap.

How can you throw away your marriage on something that maybe wrong?

What you have that evidence, that only you can make the decision but if it's only taken him such a short time to stray then you can be sure it'll happen again pretty soon.

If you find no evidence, the big question then is, will you ever trust him again anyway?

Lace

dont be another weak woman, kick his a&* to the curb,

Jim G

find some proof of it first, then confront him

jude

u heard about it but u chose to deny it, and act as if it wasn't really there, we often fail to see the truth, as we are so much in love with that person we think if we marry them that it will stop. if there is to be any type of reconciliation or forgiveness, he has to admit that he did it, in denying this he is saying it never happened in the first place. he lies so he won't have to be confronted, and so he won't have to do anything about it, meaning he has to intention of changing, and u are in for a hard painful time with this man. sometimes its best to cut your losses, and move on, rather than go through years of wondering when he will do it again, personally i would rather suffer once, and give up the person i love than risk the chance of being hurt over and over again. some things can't be changed, especially if he refuses to own it, and repent, he wants to sweep it under the rug, as if it never occur ed at all.

The Alchemist

You mean after you have kicked him in the ****. Go to a solicitor and file for divorce on the grounds of adultery and sue the ****** for everything he has.

NoAnswers

Quietly make copies of all the bank records and morgage papers. Quietly contact an attorney to prepare for your divorce. Get your plan together and make sure it is solid and that you are ready to go forward. Now make an appointment with a therapist. Go see her yourself. After a few sessions get your husband to go with you. The therapist will help you work out the details. If he doesn't go, or if he goes but you still have doubt and have lost all of your trust, than go with plan b that is already in place. Always have options.

freerange00720002000

after only 13 weeks of marriage your husband is already cheating,you need to sit him down and tell him what its doing to you,you also need to stand firm and either leave or get him into some sort of help as this is not right and its certainly not fair

m c

If he cheated before he married you, forget it. If he is cheating on you, leave his butt before you bring children into the world. Cheaters are not worth the trouble and feeling bad over. It will only get worse.

lookinforanswers

You married him after hearing these rumors and not checking into it for yourself? Sorry hunny, if that's the case - don't you think you made your bed?

sanober h

confront him!

one_faithful_mo

Do the divorce by the 11th months so you can claim more of his money as longer together more % of his wealth.

grayness18

kick his ****

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