I've done something terrible.?

King Rollo

Stop drinking as from now.... Dont tell your husband what you done, but instead make him the happiest man alive. In other words make it up to him big time and never drink again..

If you tell him you run the risk of destroying the marriage and all will be lost.
Forget what has happened and make amends for your actions.

Dont ever drink again as this was the root cause of this problem/scenario...

Catherine E: VT

Don't ever drink again. Get tested for STD's. Get yourself into some counseling.

Gloâ˜…

Stop drinking, and do not blame your behaviors on the alcohol, you did what you did, and those were your intentions before you started drinking. good luck and God bless****

mrfoxhorn

Say nothing about the cheating if you really love him, apologize to him for the argument and go on like nothing happened. Trust me he doesn't want to know you cheated on him.

tamara_cyan

First of all, don't tell him what you did - the cheating part. You'll only make a bad situation worse.
Find a payphone to call him. Break the ice.
Apologize.

stars

Stop drinking

Jessica marie

Um. Dont drink any more.

schming2005

Give a large amount of money to charity. Then at least you will be creating something good out of a bad situation. Karma like.

Angela

drive down to his work and talk to him.

~kash~

If I were you I wouldn't tell him. just apologiese for the argument.. Don't tell him for the sake of your baby (read you're the mother of one). Good Luck.

ANON

If there are no children then pack your bags and leave.

gapeach

I can't see how anyone can blame their cheating on drinking, but you seem really sincere. Tell him and hope he forgives you. It's his decision, not yours.

Thunder Tongue

Do him a faver and find some other fool that would take you !

SmartBlonde

Sign yourself and him up for relationship councelling

http://www.relate.org.uk/

and then get off the drink. I know in Britain it is hard to be a non-drinker, but you are going to have to do it if that is how you behave when you are drunk. You are going to have to stay sober and work very hard to get things back the way they were.

Depending on your husband, you might try going to meet him after work so you can talk in a semi-public place like a restaurant so he can't do anything too awful, or you can leave him a letter in the house explaining and go away for the weekend so that he has time to calm down and decide if he wants you back.

You need to tell him what you need from him and what you are going to do to make the relationship work and what you are never going to do again. Then you need to ask him what he wants and needs from you. Listen to his answers.

Best of luck to you.

Jen

Obviously there was a reason u cheated. What it is, only u know...but if he doesn't knwo what exactly happened last night, keep it that way. You went out for a couple drinks....that's it. Send him an email apologizing. If not, prepare a great dinner and wait til he gets home, and apologize for storming out and get drunk and whatnot. If he does know, just tell him the truth.....I knwo the truth hurts, but it's the best way. Don't give him the line that it was the alcohol or something like that, cuz that's just crap, just be honest. Good luck! I hope everything works out for u!

graham f

if u love him then tell him no matter wot the consequences are and let fate decide wot happens to u

kitten4anutta

dont blame the drink u chose this path, if you loved your husband so much you wouldn't have cheated, so i think you had better tell him the truth and hope that he is the forgiving sort.

and don't envy your situation,
allways be honest and faithful.

Avondrow

In Vino Veritas, love! There must be some problems deep down that you need to identify and work out.

Mrs.â™¥ Krasinski

get help...financially (since the phone bill is not paid) and emotionally....

big bird

jump off a bridge lady!

Macky

This is a very delicate situation. I have to say if you do love him that sort of revenge shouldn't have happened. Now that you admitted that you are in the wrong, it's really up to him if he could trust you again. All you can do is accept the consequences that may happen.

boredatwork

Learn from this mistake so you don't make the same one with your next husband because if your current one is even half way intelligent you two are over.

misydoll

Make him a special dinner of his favorites and apologize.

Nic

Go to his work and talk to him.
Don't drink anyone.
Tell him what happened(not in detail)
You have broken the trust over night it will take a long time to fix it.

rita g

for heavens sake dont tell him you are suffering enough for your stupid mistake.

WendyDarling

Be honest with him. And oh yeah...don't drink anymore.

Mrs. Goddess

Pray for forgiveness and spend the rest of your life trying to make it up to your husband. Also, quit drinking - it obviously doesn't work with your chemistry. Alcohol enhances a mood - good or bad, but YOU are responsible for the behavior. NOT the alcohol. Starting out with "I got so drunk last night..." is an excuse not an explanation. The only person who cares what made you do it is you, however the outcome has the potential to ruin another person's life. Nobody deserves that. Instead of worrying how you feel, work on trying to fix the problem. You should focus more on how your husband would feel about it. He's the "injured party" - not you.

adrian

forget about it and go down the pub start again. you no it makes sense

atlsntis_rising_5_3

Yes you made a big boo boo.but i believe your vowes said better or for worst?maybe this is the worst.Tell him the truth cause nothing is ever complished by a lie.Get some councilling even if it is just for you.No one has the right to judge you cause i think you can do a better job than them.

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