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Austin G
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Print out a banner saying, "My new husband f*cked the maid of honor last night!" Print out enough copies so that you have one for each guest at the wedding. Tape one copy to the bottom of each chair. When the vows are complete, and you are at the wedding reception, make an announcement to everyone that you wanted to give each guest a thank you gift for coming to the wedding. Then say, "Will everyone please take the envelope from under your seats and accept this as a thank you from me and (whatever his name is)." Watch him look like the BIGGEST LOSER ever! Then leave and get an annulment!
Oh yeah, hopefully HIS parents are paying for the event! Good luck!!
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LB
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Why would you go through with the wedding at this point? Cut your losses and walk away. From both of them. |
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Onetoplay
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You should let her have him and sooner or later he will cheat on her just as he cheated on you. |
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sunshinecee
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Get some answers but call off the wedding |
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Jordan M
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if this is real - do not get married. you will be marrying a cheater. and by marrying him, you will be sending the message that you are cool with what he did.
if this is not real, then try to come up with better stories. |
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tinaturner
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let him know that you know.If he is cheating now he is still gonna cheat on you thru out the marriage.Confront the girl too because she was wrong. |
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Pogue Mahone
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Here is what you do. Go though with the wedding. And when you have to say " i do". Rat him out in front of everyone. Then walk out on him. He is no good. |
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Amanda
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Do not get married...
Find a better guy...and dump your b.i.tch so-called friend.
Life's too short to deal with that shi.t!!! |
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Tired and Cranky
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I personally would not marry this guy.... this would be a horrible way to start off a marriage and if he can do this to you right before you get married what makes you think that he wouldn't do it after the wedding. As for the maid of honor ... kick her butt and ship her out the door! |
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boomerdude
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Julia, Julia, Julia
Think about this (I know you already are)---if he's cheating now, isn't he likely to do it over and over? Do you think for a minute he values his relationship with you if he's already screwing around?
It's really crappy to find out this kind of stuff anytime, but just before you're married???
My opinion is to confront...and dump.
Good luck. |
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Johnni
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DO NOT MARRY HIM! If he is cheating now, he will continue to do so. Save yourself the trouble and find respectable man. |
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Hokie_Pokey
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Dump him and the best friend.
Neither is worthy of your friendship and love. |
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ladygirl
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no wedding. No anything but you walking away from that stupidity!
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
He's not worth your time. |
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nonameblonde
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Julia...Do not marry him, honey. You will be glad that you did down the road. Do not do this. Hell, leave his sorry @ss at the alter. Then I'd send someone with a note to make a formal announcement that you will not be attending and he can now have the maid of honor as they both were together the day before. Think of the satisfaction you'd get? But in any event, don't marry him, honey. He's not good enough for you. You will find your real prince charming one day. I'm sorry you're going thru this. |
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*Two Hearts*
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IF HE IS CHEATING ON YOU ALREADY DON'T DO IT!!! CAll this wedding off and do yourself a favor honey!! I am so sorry.. What a terrible thing to find out the day before your wedding.. I am sorry! God bless you. |
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shortmama7j
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I'm so sorry, I know that has to be hard but i'm afraid if you give in and marry him you will be setting yourself up for a lot of heartache. I would run the other way and fast. It is best that you found out before you got married, because the old adage Once a cheater always a cheater. They are not worthy of your love and friendship nobody deserves that. |
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PROUD Mommy Of 2!!
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call off the wedding IMMEDIATELY and confront him about it! DO NOT get married tomorrow!!! if u must, let everyone know why. DO NOT let him get away with this or he will only do it again.. that is a promise!! and as for the "best friend" lose her! |
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♥Carla J♥
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why would you want to still get married to a man that is a total DOG, i mean this is all a sign, if tomorrow's supposed to be your wedding day and he ran off with your maid of honour, then you need to count your blessings that you didn't go through with that marriage to end up in divorce which would've hurt you ten times more, BTW i am so sorry for what he did to you, don't let him off the hook though, make him pay for it, and for the huge bill of the wedding too, make him atleast pay you half back, also deal with that hoochie mama of a maid of honour, Wow what a friend huh!!! |
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kryptonnite2000
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I think this is really something you should hold off on. If I am correct about how the maid of honor works. She was your best friend. I would confront them both and call off the wedding until you get a clear head to decide if you really want to get into a long term marriage with this man. As for your maid of honor dismiss her out of your life. You'll never be able to trust her again. If you and the groom can get pass this then it's a good thing. I just think right now you have to much on your plate and need to step back and look at the big picture. Will you ever be able to trust him again? Will him and her stop fooling around if you do decide to go on with the wedding? There's alot you need to talk to those two about. And how long has this being going on? |
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whitetiger731421
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Oh I would definitely confront him and her on this. You were spose to marry the dood. What kind of trust can you have in your marriage if he cheats with your best friend. And your best friend is not such a good friend after all. I would have it out with the both of them. |
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Ice Queen
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if they were doing the hibity dibity, then dump him and your friend or you can do better and have the wedding and tell him at the alter of his affair with the friend and walk off and leave him standing there embarrassed |
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tangerine
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You should dump him! Seriously! I know it's easier said than done, but do you honestly think that he will be faithful to you after the wedding if he can't be faithful to you before the wedding? And dump the "friend", too! |
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Mandy C
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if this is serious yes I would confront her of course!!! and the wedding would be called off with out a doubt. You can not go on with a wedding with someone that cheated on you with your maid of honor. You need to tell him you know and you are not stupid about what is going on if he does it now he will do it when your married. Dont waste your time because you will be divorced within a year! You better let him know you know dont act dumb and act like you have no idea let him know he is fooling no one. If you married him that will be a wate of money time and hurt! i would confront him you need to do that for yourself. And tell your friend you are done with her and never want to talk to her again she is jelaous of you and wants to take things away from you to make you upset. Dont waste your time. Good luck and sorry for what happened
omg to the person named dad! that is such a great idea that would be awesome to do!!!!! |
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Ron Akia
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Sometimes a guy just has to have one last fling before he marries. I'm not trying to make an excuse for him or saying that he's right. But that's just one of those things that does happen.
I would definately talk to him and let him know that you're aware of it and don't hesitate informing him that should it ever happen again it'll be one short marriage. Then kind of make a judgement based on his response.
Don't let a lot of the replies that I think you're going to get on here scare you. Should some of them find themselves in the same situation a lot of them would not do as they'll tell you to do.
Good luck. |
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*USMCwife*
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Confront them both-publicly. Bunch of skum. You deserve better. |
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theefovalways
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Are you really this uncreative? |
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Cham
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call it off while your getting married and explain to everyone what happen...i would not sleep with him and I would tell her to head out and not come back
sorry:( |
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