I Cheated On My Husband With A 17 Year Old?
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I Cheated On My Husband With A 17 Year Old?
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I'm 41. I have a son in high school and his friend is staying with us for a few weeks while his parents are going through a divorce. My husband and I don't have a great relationship (though everyone thinks we do). He's seen my husband fight with me and call me names over different things. My children idolize their father and take after him so they don't really think anything about insulting me or just plain ignoring me. Skip ahead and basically we started sleeping together. We both feel horrible about it. We've slept together a few times but we also just go out and have fun. I feel bad. I just don't know what to do. I know the right thing to do is to stop but honestly, I don't want to. I actually feel happy around him and I haven't in a long time. I know my husband cheats on me and he hasn't bothered to hide it from me in the past 10 years. Please help.
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It's not legally statutory rape because consent where we live is 16. That doesn't mean I think I'm not guilty.
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Otis F
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Please do let us all know when you're going to be on the Jerry Springer Show. |
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Forrest the Hippie.
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1-800-96-JERRY
Jerry Springer can help anyone with these problems. |
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Jery E
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that lucky f*cker. |
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jimbeam958
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Where the hell were these women when I was 17? |
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heyh3y
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I think the best thing to do is break up with your husband. Both of you are not happy with each other. You can't help what you feel. If you want to be with someone else, that's ok.
Go on a helpline, and they will give you advice.
Good luck |
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kelsey ツ
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you need to stop, think about the 17 year old, he's not going to stay with you.. especially since he's about to go to college, he's just a bad rebound. |
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brandnewpunky
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okay, 1. if you want to continue you need to wait til he's 18.
2. get a damn divorce, hun. if neither of you are happy and you're both cheating, just do it. your children will be fine, i promise. |
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Justice
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Wow, this is so easy! Leave your husband and screw the brains out of whoever you wish...as long as they are legal, of course. Your husband should be in jail being made to be some big burly mans *****. I thought you sounded horrible, until you told us about hubby. You're both nuts....but you are just dumb...he's a pedophile and needs to be castrated. |
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Ken
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Do you have to have him home by 11 pm? |
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Lulu 2 dtg2NY
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hes just a kid acting on his hormones and your adult acting on feelings, your gonna crash... |
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massiel248
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do you not watch tv. your going to jail. and ewww how dare you touch a child i hope his mom kicks your ***. |
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whylime819
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you know you can go to jail for that? just thought id let you know |
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NONAME
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You and your husband are a couple of nasty no-good pedophiles who should be locked up away from other peoples children. You make me sick.
I hope the kids mother finds out and beats the crap outta you. Don't make excuses for yourself...it is what it is...disgusting. |
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Dr Lipton MD
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Why don't you come over to my place and we can talk about this...he he |
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kimberlydj20
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your lookin at 5 to 10. |
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lilia
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******** CHILD MOLESTER..... have fun in jaill dumb *** |
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Joy
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Wow, you are in some deep sh!t. You are going to have to be the grown up and call it off. People are going to be really hard on you, the sad part in, most women your age fantasize about the situation that you are in, but they would never admitt it. The only way to escape with in dignity is to get out before people start finding out! |
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Geovana D
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That's statutory rape. Careful! |
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â„¢ Mogul SUpreme â„¢
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Is not this rape?
wow!
You cant blame people for heckling you because if this was a guy who did this to a 17 yr old girl they would have called him faaaaaaaaar worse.
Hopefully you have tough skin
now for my 2 cents
If your husband was a cheater then you should have divorced him
but I bet you was to afraid to live your life alone
You now have to make everything right
If I was you I would confess the cheating to the husband and have counseling for his cheating also and confess it to the 17 yr old's parents......
You have to do damage control now before this gets any bigger....
I feel bad for you.....
Also pray it helps
But I believe you should had divorced your husband when he was blatantly cheating on you
EDIT
I just read that your hubby did it with a 13 yr old!!!!!
*Shakes head*
you really should have divorced him them |
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Polly
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Cheating is one thing... But this KID IS 17 YEARS OLD... You ARE committing statuatory rape. The 16 year old exemption thing only applies if you're 20 years old or less by the way...
At least when your husband cheats, I'll bet he not knocking up someone that still watches Blues Clues and Seseme Street.
In fact, this is probably the song that your husband sings about you...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gjAlecC3zok |
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Jenn L
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Well, you should problably get a divorce and find someone who loves you and doesnt cheat on you. Hes lucky that you didnt leave him a long time ago. I dont think its good to be messign with the sons friend though, it could upset your son, just let that fizzle out, and then find somoene who is perfect for you, and closer to your age as well, because you will have a better chance of having a lasting relationship that way :) Gd luck |
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♥hotchip♥
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i feel for you. that sounds awful, he sounds awful. im not having a go but i just find it hard to believe a 17 & 41 yr old could have in common?! but everyone has seen it before so i don't know why people are so shocked. best of luck to you & i hope you get away from your husband (& kids) soon. |
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o214_valentine
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You could be convicted of statutory rape. End the relationship with the 17 year old now before you dig yourself deeper in the hole. And just because your husband cheats on you doesn't mean that you should do the same, you should've got the divorce papers years ago before he got the upper hand. In the divorce court you will be ridiculed and it will be a miracle if you get away without serving any time because of the whole statutory rape. |
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st pete rn
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As a fellow woman in my 40's, what the h@ll do you find attractive about a 17 year old child!!!! So your husband doesn't appreciate you, and treats you bad, WHY DO YOU THINK THE DIVORCE RATE IS SO HIGH, DUH! You feel smart, powerful and in control next to a 17 year old? Grow the h@ll up!!! Are you that ignorant and boring that you only feel special to children, do adults make you feel inadequate? Your teenage children ignore you and disrespect you, welcome to parenthood! If you get your self esteem and happiness from bedding down some other parent's child, then you have some serious mental, emotional and legal issues ahead of you. If your husband is cheating, take the high road, keep your closet clean and leave the marriage. DON"T get even by degrading yourself, and making yourself even lower than him (unless he is also into pedophilia). |
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so over it
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can't have an "affair" with a 13 year old. The correct term is child molestation. |
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wannaknow
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Biatches like you turn my stomach! Legal or not this is so wrong! If you want to cheat on your husband, at least go find a man and not a boy! You disgust me!! |
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