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Candi Apples
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Yes,I would be honest with your husband.
But be prepared for the fact that he might not be so forgiving. |
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rich_schaeffer
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you're lower than dirt. |
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Shalyn
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Why and how did it happen?Its either something wrong with you or his dad.God Bless..*Sigh |
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suehellen
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this is why men turn to as$holes, because they marry people like you, i hope he finds out and leaves you, you dont deserve him, what a pig |
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grneyes8621
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How can I say this?? EWWWWWW!!!! |
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Raquel
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wow...how did you end up in bed with him? Thats very strange dear. Try not to keep it in the family in the future. Good luck. |
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lvntlc04
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WOW!!!! That's HUGE....I would never tell and I would never sleep with him again. Just brush it under the carpet and move on with life. |
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Chelsea T
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DON'T tell your husband, you'll never live it down or wind up divorced! |
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Person
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uhmmm, first hit yourself in the head for being an idiott........
but yes, even though it might SERIOUSLY hurt ya'lls relationship...tell him.
at least he will know you are honest with him.
it might help out some. |
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BadboY
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Yes, and you can probably expect a divorce if your husband has a back bone!!
Good luck, the father is the one that disgusts me, how could he do that to his f*ckin SON!!! |
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Don't Save Her
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Wow thats crazy. wft wuz u thinking. all u can do iz move on and dont sleep with him again cuz if ur husband finds out it's most likely over. |
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kim h
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I would only tell if you want a divorce. |
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doktrgroove
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YUCKA!!!!!
I don't think I'd ever get over that one. You'd better not EVER let him find out and not EVER let it happen again. |
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GKH
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alrighty then......... |
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lost and confused
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WTF!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Shell
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Lies lead to more lies. It's gonna fall through some time. But when? |
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me
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I probably wouldn't say anything. Make sure this is an isolated incident or this will spell TROUBLE. As long as you know your secret is safe and it won't happen again, just don't say anything.
It will ruin your marriage. |
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Maria
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thats so sick.
yes, tell him so he can be rid of you.
u obviously dont love or respect him so u should quit wasting his time. he deserves better. way better. |
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Lady J
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Is this question real? It sounds like you should go on Jerry Springer and do a full confession on national T.V. |
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Nurse Diesel
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Eew.
No - this is your burden to bear, bear the guilt and shame on your own. Hopefully you are a decent enough person to have plenty of both. If not, well, it's a big club, apparently.
Answer this question before you say anything. How will it benefit your husband to know that?
Obviously, you are not really into looking ahead to the benefit of someone else, but now is a perfectly good time to start. My opinion is you will ruin two families if you say anything, so it would be wisest to shut up and stay away from the FIL.
I know there are a lot of 'honesty is the best policy' fanatics out there that will give me major thumbs down for this, but IF you love your husband, and IF you still have a future together, and IF you have children to raise, it will be easier to do all of those things without this getting out.
You will need the complicity of the FIL - you should also secure his promise that he will never tell anyone, and you should be allowed to have your family in peace. He should never be alone with you again.
This will be difficult, but you got yourselves into this mess, it would be nice if you didn't ruin too many other people's lives in the process. |
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Tammy
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Is your name Nicki cause my scum ball niece-in-law is now living with my brother and this sounds like something that skank would do!!!
If not, don't tell cause my nephew committed suicide cause he had suspicions that his wife was sleeping with his dad. Now she's living with him-4 months later. She moved in 1 month after then suicide.
What you did was low and I'd just walk away. That's the ultimate betrayal and his father should surely burn... |
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Hani
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Your husband don't need to know about this. It is your mother-in-law who needs to know.
So go on, tell her before your her husband does. |
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Tara
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Advice here would be hard to give.
It is hard because when you tell your husband, he will probably walk. And this is soooooooo wrong.
The right thing to do is to tell your husband - and take your medicine.
Do you have any idea what will probably happen?
Your husband will be destroyed. Not only did his wife cheat on him ... but with his DAD !!!! His life will never be the same - nor hold the same meaning again.
Your husband's relationship with his father will probably be gone forever. I cannot imagine a father doing this to his son. Nor a wife, doing it to her husband.
This is a mess. This is the worst.
What you have done will never go away - whether you tell your husband, or not ... it will always linger around.
Your husband should be given the choice to either stay with you .. or leave you.
If you do not have children with him ... then be nice to him and don't have children with him right now ... that would be awful for him.
I am not trying to be mean ... but no one should ever have to endure this in their whole life-time. A horrible thing has been done to your husband ... and it is your decision if you want to hide it under the rug - which would be another thing done against your husband. I just cannot imagine how badly he will take this ... and I don't understand how any father could actually do this to their son.
Wives can come-and-go ... but his Dad will always remain his Dad forevermore ... and their relationship will be marred for the rest of their whole life-time. How awful.
The more I think of it .. the more I am at a loss of what to say .. I am so stunned that anyone would actually do this. |
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STREETROD23T
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i would think your safest bet would be just to let it go ,if you can trust your father in law and you love your husband ,let your father in law know it will not happen again !!!!! if you want to continue then i would say get a divorce |
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vqaf
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just tell him. how could you? its girls like you that gives us a bad name. Shame on you. There is something seriously wrong with you.- Get help maybe you got daddy issues? Good luck!!!
Not only that i think you have got SERIOUS issues- do you not have homework to do or something, do you not have any friends to play with? lol |
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islandgirl1002000
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wholey cr*p what kind of person are you . DO NOT tell your husband but my god .. leave tell him you are wrong for him and leave .. save him some dignity and leave .. tell your father in law to drop dead and he better not hurt his son by telling him ..OMG what a disgusting thing to do |
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maryannmccarthy2003
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Are you crazy or just crazy? OMGosh, his dad? That is a line we NEVER cross but you did so now you have to make the situation right and you know just how to handle this yourself, you don't need advise here. OMGosh, the thought of sleeping with my father in law is just weird and not to mention GROSS, he's my hubbys daddy.
Mary in Beulah, MI. USA |
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badgirlsbadboy
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WOW thats really keeping it in the family.
why would you do that ? your husband's di*k not good any more? |
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Miss Minie
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GROSS!!!! |
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ARN3T4
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its oficial u r the craziest person I have ever met thatsall I have to say |
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