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CARLY!
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do what feels right to you, maybe the fact that you are asking this questions suggests that you are not ccomfortable with the age gap. I think if you take an honest look at the situation you will know the answer. Maybe you should give it more time if your are unsure. If you love her and are 100% comfortable yes you should marry , if you have doubts now is the time to address them. |
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fireguy
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age is only a number you can't control... if your happy with her go for it |
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lll_demonic_lll
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love her? marry her.
age is not a problem. if she loves you and you love her, whats the problem?
dont let others judge you. let you be the judge yourself.
other people dont decide whether you are happy or not. its all about yourself. so, its your decision. follow your heart. |
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NewGrandma
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Age shouldn't matter. The only thing is if she wants children, she'll want them soon. Are you ready for that? It's nice to have them early then have time in your 50's to relax when they are off to college.
There should be no reason not to if you really love her.
My only concern, is why you are asking us? I don't think you are sure and if that's the case perhaps you should postpone the wedding till you can fully commit to the relationship. |
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qman
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Depends how many children you want. |
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Alibi
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Well, if you love her and you guys get along well enough with each other then why not?
Age doesn't really matter, within reason, as long as you're both mature adults. |
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Ali
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why not! you should go ahead with the plan as you started this last year. |
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Ollie
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If you love her then yes also it is for you to decide. |
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Essmee4U
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If you love her then age doesn't matter. |
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loudy_foudy
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GO FOR IT!
Congratulations in advance! :) |
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deleriumbliss
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If you feel its right, then YES!
Age is nothing but a number. I know many women and men who are a certain age, and act like they're still a teenager.... |
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dicovi
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If you really love her,age does not matter. |
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ibebarbie
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thats alot of years apart you really havent added anything of why you love her etc. so if your just going by the age thing and your asking us well i think you answered your own question what id like to know is why she wants to be with such young guy? |
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smile
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yes, but remember, before doing so, she is much less fertile than she was at just 35. By 40 she will be only half as fertile. .... You wnat kids? |
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sweetheart
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That is up to you if you are very happy in love with each other then I say go for it. If you are worried about the age difference it doesn't matter just as long as you both are ok with it. It does not matter what other people think. My fiancee and I are 12 years apart. He is 36 and I am 24 and we are very happy in love and we plan on getting married soon. Just follow your heart. |
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SternFan ♥
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What does age have to do with it. Question is are the two of you in love with each other and sure that you want to spend the rest of your lives together? |
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wildwillyinva
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That's up to you.
If both of you get along with each other and don't make the age difference a big deal, then go a head.
On the other hand, if your going out with her because you see her as a mother figure, then you may want to re-think the deal.
Personaly, if I had any advice, I would say don't get married or think of getting married until you turn 27. By then you will have your life in order. |
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*****
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Fourteen years is a generation apart. You will have to decide this on your own, based on what you feel is the right thing to do. Agewise, she would be more like a daughter than a wife. |
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trevino283
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I personally can never see a reason to involve the law in any of my personal business unless necesssary.
In other words marrige is a bad idea period. |
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Brij
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Hi,
Pl. do not look back go ahead with marriage. |
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Voldemort
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If you love her then of course you should marry her. In love age doesn't matter, and neither does religion, colour, race, country etc.
Love is the only thing that matters.
Even if you don't love her, don't break her heart. And why did you get engaged with her in the first palce, if you knew she was older than you? |
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Arvind N
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Ahh yes, I married an 82 year old woman and I have never been happier. I give her and the kids a sponge bath and save on the water bill. We take turns changing every ones diapers.
But it gets bad at bed time. I have to make sure I don't give the kids her pills and read her a bed time story. |
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Surettan S
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Haaaaaaaaa Go ahead man. You will get the love of a wife and care of a mother :P Good luck |
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Tadpoler
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No! You are to young. Wait 2 years and see if your are still together. |
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non o u biznis
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Only you know the answer to this question. You have already proposed, it sounds like. If age was not a concern then, why now? If you are having second thoughts, think about it, but, be honest with your girl.
No matter what, honesty pays off. |
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honeypot
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If you love her YES |
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George Bush
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yes if you love her and if she digs you |
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wimsey
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Yes, if you love her and she loves you. But definitely not if you're having doubts - and you are, or you wouldn't be asking the question, would you? The doubts seem to be focused on her age, and nobody can alter that.
So I'd say no, because you evidently don't love her enough for age to make no difference, and that difference is likely not only to continue but to increase, once you're married.
wimsey |
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Miranda Girl
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Yes |
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NOMAD
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mmmm.. its up to u.... |
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tree dancer
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No, you will regret it esp in ten yrs!!!! |
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