I am 28 years old,male and still virgin.Would like to get married but I can't find one who is real and genuine

Eduardo

TAKE COURAGE ! THERE IS HOPE.

Try to be yourself in front of girls and don't be afraid of them. They won't bite you. Don't be like "OOh, what am I gonna do?" kind of thing when you are talking to them. Build your confidence by going to the gym, learn some skills, wear presentable clothes, improve your communication skills then I'm sure along the way, you will find yourself having a hard time choosing the best girlfriend.

Try this as well:

1. Start with your interests/sports. Hang out with your friends in those places (say, bowling alleys, swimming pools, etc.)
2. Carry yourself modestly. Don't overdo it.
3. A well behaved men sometimes attract women (i think).
4. Attend parties for singles.
5. Ask for referrals.
6. don't go to the bars (it's risky).
7. If you are good to one girl, this will be passed around in a jiffy. And you will meet more girls...for you to choose from.

ALL THE BEST.

queenie_the_big_pushen_meanie

If it were me I would get out and meet people. U never know where u will meet that someone special. Don't be afraid to take chances in life as you will learn from the lessons that will come out of them.

Sonya H

I don't think that you should go out and look for somebody. Let that person come to you. Give it time. Just ease up on the whole dating and relationship scene, give it time, and watch. The person that you have been looking for your whole life will just show up. You never know, they might be right in front of your face!

adrika k

baby...its nt that u r 28 or 29..nt married..log kya kahenge..its all in urself.u will get ur perfect match when u have to.just wait and hope rthe best.everybdy has everything good in there life by god..so wait r the answer of god..may be this is nt time r y.dont worry dont think u will get right person.cheers

All4Christ

you are not the only one waiting out there. i know hundreds of guys who are waiting til marriage. i waiting til marriege and i was 22 when i got married. it is hard to wait. but just dont slip. once you slipped before marriage you will never stop. i think you will find a great girl at a church. find out what your beliefs are and start going to church. good luck.

babyashlie

go to match.com

John J

find a filipina girl genuine girls with strong moral background

blessed_one_male

in which case, u'll remain an EVERGREEN VIRGIN.... !

NoTSuReANYmoRe

AS MY BROTHER DID- PRAY FOR GOD TO SEND YOU THE RIGHT ONE. HE HAS A GREAT MARRIAGE OF 4 YEARS. HE GOT MARRIED WHEN HE WAS 30.

Baby Gigglez

You need to have patience!!!God will send you the girl of your dreams when he thinks your ready!!!!!!!!!

Good job on stayin a virgin this long!!!!!!!!!!

dalecantila

Don't give up... my boyfriend waited until he was 32, and we are now together and serious. Try to make friends in circles of your interest, and go to places where you think you'll find people similar to you. Good luck!

AAP0305

WOW!! you don't hear that often. I think that it's great you decided to wait until marriage (very few people hold out anymore) and I really hope you find the perfect person. To bad we live in such a corrupted world where you can't trust anybody. So my best advice to you is ask the Lord to guide you, because you know he will not steer you wrong. As long as you put your faith and trust in him, you having nothing to worry about. Hang!! in there buddy and be patient, your true love is waiting for you as well.
Be Blessed!!

kelsey

Wow, stay true to yourself you will find someone. Remember you will not find that special person in a bar. Have friends and family introduce you to someone with similiar interests as you. Also don't be afraid to explore dating sites. They really do work.

xXMichelleXx

Don't go looking for marridge, try just to focus on meeting new people, it will happen when it happens, you can't rush these things.

I wish you the best of luck :-)

dawn_stiney2000

youll fine someone give it time. i wish you a lot of luck.sweetie,

penguin1o1

you should just stop doubting people as much as you did and maybe give a second galnce. you never know maybe beofre you were only looking for the bad things cause you are afraid of love. but now you should let it all come out and you should llook d=for the positive things.

mrs.c

my sister has been abstinent for the last 9 years and she is getting "ancy" too, BUT God is Never late! he's always on time,
pray God's will and timing and start praying for your "future"
wife, God will honor your Obedience , just trust Him
and continue to enjoy your singleness,,i just got married in Oct'05
and believe me you'll look back on your "single" days and
realize what a special time it was,,God is your spouse right now..
remember the "body" of the Church is the "bride" to Christ...

my_lttle_devil

that is a rare qulality to find in a man, good for you for wanting to wiat til you are married, trust me thr right woman is out there for you, just keep searching...good luck

Godisaboveall2002

I think you should ask God this question. Ask Him to bless you with a wife. Don't look on your own, let the King of Kings and Lord of Lord do that. You will not be disappointed. Also ask for patience.

kelly m

Wow, know thats something that you dont hear everyday.
Fair play to you for waiting like that, But all i have to say is although you feel that is time like right aat this moment it is going to take time to beable to find someone as true to you as you may be to them, You dont want to jump into anything and then it end in weeks to come like you said, so all you can do is wait.
Either that or you could join a dating agency or a date line on the net and see if you have any luck doing it through that way.
GOOD LUCK and i hope you find someone as genuine as you seem to be. x x

brainy guy

learn the tricks on how to know whos genuine whos not

Tokoloshimani

You have to lower your standards a little, or be prepared to wait a long time, maybe forever. In todayÂ´s world virgins in their twenties are just about non-existent. You say that you think now is the time. Do you have a girlfriend? Or somebody in mind? If you expect your future spouse to be a virgin too, you'll have to start hanging around convents.

Bob Mukonka

You are the man,thus you will need to decide whom you want to marry.Congratulations for being strong enough to abstain up to 28 years.

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lui

Ask older women in your church to help you identify a fellow virgin for marriage, becuase if you pick on any other girl, they will just find you boring since you are not experienced. It also happened to me since I kept my virginity up to 25 years and men used to leave quitely without telling me a good reason, until my friend told me that I was boring even in bed since I did know what was expected of me. so my dear get the experience and you will find the love of your life.

scarlettboca

There are no guarantees in life. One must take a chance and be able to take that chance with open eyes and heart. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin, I say BRAVO, my friend. If you are looking to get married, try to be friends with a woman first, and get to see her in her natural environment. Figure out what you would like in a woman, is it beauty, brains, intelligence, a sense of humor or compassion? I am sure you have found yourself attracted to someone who had some of these qualities -- now the next step is just to get to know them and be comfortable around them and take your time. It will be worth it. And to add pressure on yourself as to say "what if it doesn't last?" Honey, human beings aren't BUILT to last. We are born, we age, we die. Life is short and precious. Don't you want to spend time getting to know a fellow human being beyond what their favorite color or movie is?

And to the one who posted "what if you marry someone who is bad in bed" -- HOW can a virgin COMPARE if they don't have ANY EXPERIENCE to COMPARE it to?? Use your brain, dingleberry. Not you, original poster.

kathleen a

What about dating around to see whats out there

tool

you jusy got to get out there and try. some will end early but the quicker you get on top of it the quicker you will come to your solution! good luck! dont be scared!

Black

Admire you for being so great. You will find a great person, just wait.

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