I am 35 in love with an 18 yr old?

Javier169

esta loca sabes!

Gokiburi

Good God. I hope they give custody to the father so they don't have to be raised by some teenage punk who doesn't love them.

alialoggi

You were about 23 or so when you married, and now you are single (almost) and you are going back to the time when men looked young like this. Its not reality. He is young, he is going to have the issues of a young person and will not want to be the man of the house to a woman with 3 kids. You wont be able to leave the country without leaving your kids behind, and if you do that, its the biggest mistake you'd ever make. If he comes here, then what? You support him until he gets established? Then, he leaves you for an 18 yr. old. This is fun & flirty for you, but its not a realistic relationship. Even if you were a 35 yr. old man dating an 18 yr old girl, I'd give the same advice. You are in different generations, and it would be a parent child relationship, which never works in a relationship. You met him playing X box live. That says it all.

Candycorps

So what your saying is you have 3 children and you feel the need to raise another one. Have fun with that.

No seriously, do you really believe that someone fresh out of highschool is going to be mature enough to handle a divorcee with 3 children. You met him playing video games, that ought to tell you something.

Brenna

you cannot possible think that this is going to work! at 18 or 19 I am sure he will not even be mature enough to follow through with coming to meet you, and if he did it is destined to fail, this is ridiculous, I dont even know what else to say....very sad for your ex and kids

IndyGirl

You are so very very very stupid and your children will never forgive for this or respect you again.
And, you are so DEAD WRONG about being able to control yourself.
How sad for your family.

candye

You divorced your husband for someone you've never met!!?? How silly! Yes, you will regeret it later.

confused

I would say the gap is pretty large. The maturity level of an 18 yr. old even 19 yr.old is much different from yours. I think that you are going to be disappointed. You have expectations whether you admit that or not and I don't think he can live up. But then again you at 35 are chatting with people your playing x-box with maybe I'm wrong. If my child was 18 I would be strongly disagreeing with them dating a 35 yr.old Now if were in his mid 20's even it wouldn't be so bad but 19. What do your kids think about a possible step dad who is only 19 and you haven't even met him yet and you think you feel so strongly.

Sheryl F

Are you crazy , no way is this going to work , it would be like having another child , you would have a parent/ child realationship , hes 18 , he hasnt even lived life yet .
Your 35 , get a grip and be mature and let him go live his lfe with girls his own age .

Sunnydaze9999

You have lost it and Yes you will regret it...This boy is 18 years old and he is just trying to get his groove on. He is not serious about you. He is a kid for god sake. I would never have ruined my family for a kid still yet behind the ears and knows nothing about life. You now have 4 kids ..... You have not even met the guy..Not trying to be mean or anything but I think this is just plain sick!

peking

Sweetheart, you're deluded.

You may be deluded because you're obsessed with a teenager who lives far away from you and are ruining your life and the lives of your family in pursuit of a fantasy.

Or, you may be deluded because you think this tale is a sufficiently plausible story to pass for the truth in a web forum.

Either way, you need some serious help.

â„¢ Mogul SUpreme â„¢

This is nuts! lol
you left your marriage for some kid on xbox live lol
you are just infatuated not in love.......
I had females on my friends list to play against not to love personally like this lol

I only use xbox live or sony online or pc gaming online just for fun and not romance....

Star

I can't believe you left your husband for some KID that likes to play x-box. WOW YOU MUST REALLY BE IMMATURE. Your husband must of left you. I hope your husband got the kids. because you are to immature to raise them. SERIOUSLY. You are CRAZY.

â™¥SEVENâ™¥

You must not be stable? You couldnt be.

You have to be outside of your mind.

Missing some screws?

A kid, playing xbox?

Wow...you are in for a rude awakening. I feel sorry for you. No wait, I feel sorry for your husband and kids. You are the worst type of person. An immature and selfish one.

God bless your pathetic soul.

â™ªMz Anonymous â™ª

LOL. I guess love is blind. but damn, you left your husband for a 18 year old kid who likes to play Xbox? lmao. what can he do for you? he is just starting his life!

ria

18 year old guys are not usully very mature

wisdom

you might having problems in your marriage, you might be in bad marriage to fantasize a someone who more possible wrong for you. It would be nice feelings and very exciting to you as it seems give you energy and liveliness....woman, believe me, you are just bored, and if you leave it and bring back your consciousness now, you still have time. If you forget it now and leave it now, the memory of this will just vanish and won't be remember. It will just takes a month to forget, trust me.

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