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reddyme04
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if you are so sure, why do you need him to admit it? do some investigating and get proof that will bring you to 100%. |
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*Cara*
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Sounds like you have some major trust issues. Break up with him. How can you be with someone you can't trust? I know I couldn't. |
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Violet Pearl
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If you're 95% sure he's cheating, what else do you need to know? Break if off and move on. You're the one who needs to have some pride. |
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Simply Lovely
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If he tells you the truth, then he is a liar and a cheat. I would find a new boyfriend. |
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It's Her Again!!
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Either get proof or leave him alone about it. If he isn't cheating now, he will be from all the drama. If he is, then prove it and get on with your life. |
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islecya
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If you are so sure,then dump his a**. He's playin ya. |
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Freedle S
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I don't know how he can only cheat 95% for sure. Either he did or he didn't and you aren't sure. If you want to break up over that, go ahead. To me, you sound paranoid.
fs |
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HooliganGrrl
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Heat up a wire coat hanger and tie him up with duct tape. He'll talk, I guarantee you. |
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mrsbates
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Your first reaction is usually the right one. people that we love that betray us in that way, can be tricky, due to the fact that our heart sometimes clouds our judgement. you have to use your head on this one girl. If you know that he is cheating against all odds, you need to drop it. Even if he were to lie, you know your instincts. go with them. |
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LAL
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If you truly believe he is cheating then why are you still there.
Why would he break up the relationship if he can have you both? I think you're trying to give him too much credit for why he's not telling you. He just isn't telling you because half of his girlfriends would be gone and he would have to find another one. Pride has nothing to do with it. Men are physically based and women are emotionally based. |
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Tim L
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THE REASON YOU KNOW ALL THE SIGHNS IS PROBALLY BECAUSE YOUR THE ONE WHO IS DOING THE CHEATING>>>MAYBE INSSTEAD OF LOOKING FOR A PERMISSION STATEMENT TO CHEAT>>SO YOU WANT FEEL GUITLY FOR YOUR ACTIONS OF BEING THE ONE WHO BETRAYED THE LOVE YALL ONCE SHARED>...SINCE YOU CHOOSE TO NOT TRUST HIS WORD THAN YOU GOT TO MAKE THE CHOICE >>EITHER FORGIVE YOURSELF FOR WHAT YOUVE DONE OR LEAVE HIM>>>AND BE TRUE TO YOUR SELF>> YOU GOT TO CHOOSE BETWEEN WHAT YOU CALL PRIDE OR WHAT IS RIGHT>>>BEFORE THE GUILT DESTROYES EVERYTHING HE LOVES ABOUT YOU>> |
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kendi_luv
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my dad has been a cheater eversince my parents met. my mom is filing for a divorce. my dad kept on denying things but he's obvious. my brother found love letters for a girl from my dad, text messages and even pictures of my dad with the girl. and he denies everything! when he's home, it feels like he's not there. he's constantly on his celfone texting the girl and thats all he does.
if you're sure that he is cheating on you, it's not worth staying with him. move on and take care of yourself. if you love yourself, then do the right thing. you have to show him that you CAN live without him. be strong, you have friends and family that are there to help and support you no matter what. take care! |
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Mrs.Russell
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tell him if he won't come clean about it that you'll leave him. |
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Katie
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Just end it. You don't need proof if you are that sure. Plus you obviously don't trust him. |
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iyamacog
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95% is damn good odds in my book. If he's already cheating, what on earth makes you think he'd be honest enough to tell you? HELLO.......One who is cheating will NEVER admit the fact. Since he doesnt respect you, why would you want him around? Please show him the door. |
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Dr Philys
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If you know for a fact he is, then let him go, you don't want to waste your time on someone who is just giong to play you the whole time you are together. Maybe he isn't cheating either but he will if you keep throwing accusations at him. Guys' pride is something else and it definitely has a factor in something. There is something you provide for him that makes him stay around so try to figure out what that is. I don't know what to say. You just really need to let him know that you are concerned. Maybe break up with him to test his commitment to you. |
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Julia
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If you really know that this is true what will change about it if he admits the truth to you? Will you leave him or will you stay anyway and think you can change him from never repeating it again? Honesty has nothing to do about his pride it is about the truth of his character. When a man chooses to withold important information from you it is the same as lying and as long as he chooses to hide behind that there is no hope for him to ever be right to you. He will always know his truth even if you really don't and he will never be comfortable or right to look you in the eye without guilt eating him up inside. He will always be looking over his shoulder because he is not the only one that knows about it and will fear that it will come out someday and distroy him. When a man confesses that he didn't tell you the truth because he did not want to hurt you that is not reality he choose not to tell you because he was protecting himself and not you. When it comes to your health you have every right for him to come forward and tell you because you need to be checked for any stds because some can lay dormant for years. If you cannot trust him to protect you and keep you safe and if he cannot do that you every right to know and leave this relationship for someone else who will respect you. Cheating is always a choice and never a mistake because if they can think to do it they can think to walk away. There is no excuse that is ever excusable for cheating because if you really love someone they could not have it in them to do it. They did it because they wanted to and that's the bottom line. Never allow someone to emotionally and physically abuse your life because it isn't worth it sweetie. |
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Mary B
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If you are that sure that he is cheating than what are you waiting for-kick him to the curb. What good will it do if he confesses to you- that won't change the facts. If he is cheating he is a coward & thinks he is clever enough to get away with it. His pride has nothing to do with it- he knows he is in the wrong but, some guys have a problem fessing up because they don't want to deal with all the flac they will get for cheating. My ex is seeing a married woman & he still plays head games with me, telling me he loves me, etc. but, when I ask him if he is still seeing her (I know & everyone else knows he is) he still denies it & we are not even together. If your bf was truely not cheating he would do everything in his powers to prove to you that he is not. I don't know what more to say to you other than you need to decide what you want to do about it- leave him or put up with it which wouldn't be very healthy for you. How could you go on day after day being with someone knowing he is loving up on someone else, also. You deserve better than that! Be strong & tell him to hit the road!! Take care. |
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jerica s
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first try to ask him and see how he reacts ....you have been with him for two years so i am guessing that you know how he acts or what he does when he lies...or set him up with a lady friend that you know you can trust and tell her to come on to him and see if he takes the bate.....just tell him how your feeling and if he starts to ask you alot of ?'s about how you fill ask him why he so insecure |
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Feythe
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If you don't trust and respect your boyfriend, your relationship will not work.
95% is not 100%. If you have not witnessed him cheating, or if he has not told you he's cheating, then you just "think" he's cheating. Why?
Have you considered the possibility that you might just be insecure and you're running around pressuring an innocent man to confess to something he hasn't done?
Are you really sure he's cheating?
Try this instead, start assuming the best about him, in every situation. You might be surprised how things look different then. |
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mick
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If you're so sure, I don't know why you don't just leave him. If there's no trust, what's the point?
Sometimes guys just act like @$$holes until we break up with them. It's pathetic and cowardly, but they sure hate being the "bad guy." |
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texas y'all!
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If you are 95% sure, why would you even want to drag the answer out of him? Leave his butt! |
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Just me
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If he isnt going to come clean with you,then best thing to do is break up and go your own way.if he wont tell you,then mybe he will never tell you. |
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everlastingbutterflies
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LOL.. sounds like something that should be on Jerry Springer or Maury Povich! |
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Latoya H
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act like you dont give a damn like him but be pro at this you dont have to cheat because he is just act the way he do if he come home at 2a.m. you come home at 3 a.m. you have too play it with him it sad that you have to do it but to let these men know the same way i got you i can get someone else to but better |
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in need of help....
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if ur feeling it ....he probably done it! sorry to say it but he probably WON'T EVER fess up! [its a man thing] but remember that we a woman were born with a special "gut" that gives us a heads up! |
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PlainPinkTee13
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It's none of those things, he's just worried he'll lose you. He didn't think about the consequences when he started cheating on you and now he's been caught out he'll say "I'm sorry, I love you" but he's not, he's just sorry he got caught that's all. Don't give him a second chance if he has because once a cheat always a cheat I'm afraid. =] x |
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sweet28
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if you cant trust him , you don't need him !!! |
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Candy
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You need to be 100% that he is cheating. And if you feel that sure about him being unfaithful to you then why are you wasting your time with him. The guy is telling you that he didn't but you call him a liar by saying that you are sure that he did. What kind of relationship is this. What happened to honesty and trust? I think that if this guy cheated on you then you deserve much better. And you need to have someone who treats you with respect. |
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Emilie
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Maybe you should follow him or hire Cheaters to catch him in the act then he cant deny it. |
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BOMCHICKA WAH WAH
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if you know the girl.... confront her!
and bring her to your bf and have her tell him in front of you that he cheated! |
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