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evahis01
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Cut all communication with this woman, she is not worth losing your family, remember fantsy is always better than reality |
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northfacedgirl
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what if your wife were typing this about another man? how would that make you feel?
it's natural to be tempted, but you only want her because "you can't have her"
typical..... |
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dior.junkie
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No, especially if you have been to her house, mingled with her husband, and so forth. You shouldn't betray him like that. Not to mention your wife. You must practice self control. You took those vows, and you must respect them. Not only will your wife feel stupid for you getting over on her, so will the guy. It's people like this that makes it so hard to trust anyone. |
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CW
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You are a SICK MAN! "of course we should always keep it a secret..." i'm sorry, but you are an idiot! What about honesty in marriage? What about trust, what about LOYALTY? Have some self control and keep your hands to yourself. You have a wife who loves you very much. If you love her you will forget about this other woman- tell your wife your mistake. Don't try to hide it from her. You are every wife's worst nightmare. Shame on you. |
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freeman3905@sbcglobal.net
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man o man well i Guss you don't see any thing wrong with that. so then i can have your wife for the week end. just to do it to it |
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mumma_of_4
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How would you feel if you found out that your wife was screwing this womans husband?, If you want to start a relationship with this other woman end it with your wife, if you loved her you would respect her enough to leave her before you started an affair, or even better respect your wife enough to love her and stop all contact with this other woman...this is not right your wife would be heart broken if she found out you were even thinking about it, and the other woman is married and you are mates with her husband....Jeez mate....Ignore her flirting, tell your mate that his wife is flirting with you and you want it to stop...have the balls not to cheat on your wife, you will be better off in thew long run |
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Wayne
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Don't Be Stupid. Leave the othe woman alone. Tell your wife the truth!!! |
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boohoohoo
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Two choices here:
1/ Divorce your wife.
2/ Grow up and honour the promises you made to your wife. |
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TOTALLY COOKED
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Guess what would happen if I caught you with my woman?? 8o) If you dont respect the life choices of others....your very life should be forfeit!! (my opinion) |
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carmelite
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avoid this married woman , will ruin life |
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Jaebaby
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YES! This is definitely bad. If you're planning on cheating on your wife, then leave your wife before things get worse. Honestly, I hate it when people do these to their loved ones. Think about it before you do anything stupid. |
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amlei25
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It seems like you're seeking a reason to do it. If you want to do it and are going to do it, you should be ready to accept the consequences. Those consequences include your wife finding out and divorcing you, her husband finding out and divorcing her, and pretty much ruining all your lives in the process. If these consequences aren't acceptable, don't do it. If you can live with the scenario I've just given you, go for it. |
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Mansoor S
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KINDLY DO NOT BETRAY YOUR WIFE |
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♥Jess♥
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if u have no problems in your marriage you will soon if you don't leave this woman alone.
you can also cause problems for yourself at work if your co-worker ever found out.
not to mention you might get your butt kicked..
hmmm my advice .. stop seeing the woman.. at all ignore her when she is at a social gathering..
it can only lead to trouble.
in the eyes of the greater being that you believe in WEDDING VOWES are a binding contract.
cheaters are doomed to what ever eternal damnation your religion has to offer you. |
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piinkpanther1
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Yes, its wrong. Its wrong on a whole bunch of levels. You must not be very happy in your marriage, or you wouldn't be doing it. But, you are a man and some men can never be faithful no matter how great they have it. You either need to end it or ask your wife for a divorce and tell her why. If you are man enough to cheat, then be man enough to come clean. You have every intention of starting a relationship with this woman and you know it. So your " am afraid very soon I will be involved in a long term affair", says it all. You have already thought it through. So stop making excuses for yourself. YOU DON'T SHARE WHEN YOU'RE MARRIED. You made a committment to your wife. You actually are pathetic.Sharing temporarily? How could you be such a slime ball and go over to your collegue's house, knowing you and his wife are having an affair? I really wish I knew who you are, because I would tell your wife and your "collegue" exactly what you and his wife are doing. And believe me, sooner or later they will both find out. I hope to God you don't have any kids with her. What a great father you are huh? |
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pez388
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Well dear sir I wouldnt do anything with the other...you know why?? Hmm...Im pretty sure when you get married its only suppose to be with your wife...besides what happens if your caught doesnt look good in the divorce court. |
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chandaorisa
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To be quiet honest, you have a happy marriage because in your question you said you are only attracted and also you got to physically touched each other. So to me please get out of this affair before its too late. Because it's all lust you and the woman are doing. And lust always leads to either hurt or sadness but above all you will end up hurting your wife's feelings and her trust and I'm pretty sure in your heart she doesn't deserves any of this. And the other woman she should do the same thing. Please be brave and respect your wife. |
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emma l
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MY advice is simple:DON'T GET INVOLVED IN OTHER MAN 'S WIFE. |
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sweetvani23564
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FOOL i hate people like you... if you know that you will betray your wife and you cannot respect your wife's feelings then why the hell did you marry her. what will happen to you if you found out that your wife is betraying you????? forget the other lady because it is only your wife who will stand by your side during your bad times and not that woman. |
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jaikarannath
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Leave her |
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orderly logic
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"What is the harm in sharing a person? "
WHAT is the harm in not acting on your impulses?
Why do so many Answers users feel the need to *share* their sordid c__p with others? |
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Leila G
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Do you have to ask whether this is right or wrong? Of course it's wrong. I don't know why you can't see the harm in getting involved with a married woman, especially since you're married yourself. You claim your marriage and family life is okay. Are you so bored of it being okay that you're willing to cause problems in it? And contrary to what you think, you can't keep it a secret forever. Sooner or later, signs of your affair will eventually surface. For the sake of your family, I hope you do the right thing and stay away from this woman. |
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Reneejah
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I am so impressed that in that lengthy explanation of your plight you took into deep consideration the ripple effect if you shouldnt be that great at keeping "the secret." All those people, the spouses, kids, family members getting to hurt...ponder that.
Since you're asking "what to do now" (although it sounds as though this train is careening out of control already) hopefully you will be able to snap out of your selfish stupor long enough to get a grip and KNOCK IT OFF. |
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RedRabbit
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I can see this as ending bad for you. You should have stayed away and now if you try to ignore her, there is a possibility that she will play 'oh he did this to me' or 'He kept telling me he would leave his wife.' You now have put yourself into hot water and the temp is probably going to keep rising. I say if you want to, work out your marriage, find another job and 'accidentally' loose contact with the couple. You could loose EVERYTHING if you keep this going that includes:job, wife, kids, respect, family...should I go on? |
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WILLIAM W
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Hmmm. Only to have such a problem. Can your wife step up to the level of the fantasy? |
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TRUTHSAYER ALA TWAIN & CHURCHILL
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TRANSFER YOU ASSETS SO HER LAWYER WON'T FIND THEM AT THE DIVORCE! |
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shereen
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midde age crisis? teh grass otehr sid eof fence is greener>? whathappend to dont lust ur nighours wife commnad? THSI IS BAD AND WRONG !!!!
tell me what u think fo ur wife getting attracted to anotehr man married or single makes no diffrence!
ur about to get in troubel not just with ur wife with teh otehr woman;s hsuband is that how u wanna spice ur life a lil!
wise up dude!
good luck |
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indian beauty
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having a friendship in positive manner is fine but having an affair is very much wrong. think an decide |
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