I am a married woman, and I have cheated my husband once with my ex, but I felt very bad afterwards ...?

... and I said to my ex not to contact me anymore, and then he quit suddenly yesterday he send me a sms, wishing happy birthday to my one year old baby... and I said to him that I dont want to have conection with him as a lover, couse cheating makes me feel low, we should stay friends good friend, and he said sorry I dont think it s possible couse If we meet then he will not be able to touch me, kiss me, hold around me,... and I said this is my offer take it or leave it... and he said Bye, that was it... I am a kind of hurt ... why did he acked like that can anyone of you guys lett me know....

FAT MAN

it's really simple, it's what you think but like a child that does not get what he wants,he became angry and because he knows you. he could tell that it troubled you. so he took that and hurt your feeling all at the same time, he is being honest about how he feels about you . sorry its true as you like your cake and eating too , so does anyone else that can.(mainly most guys); . advice don't let him think it hurts you. and turn it around on him. being a big baby. with his comments about you, because you told him no! (he does still want you)and he knows it =good luck peace bwit u

Bowen M

You are a cheating low life. Your husband deserves someone better than you - for his sake leave him.

Common_Cents

I feel bad for your husband!

You are kind of hurt? Think about how your husband would feel if he found out and also know that you are hurt because your ex doesnt wanna be friends any more.

To answer your question the ex does not wanna be friends because he wants more than a friendship. He wants a physical relationship which he can not have.

Debbie B

It doesn't matter. Just let him go like a bad habit.

cobalt 22

loyalty is the fabric of a relationship .... once the trust is corrupted the fabric frays and tears. self decipline and restraint help avoid that situation.

dinesh c

your problem is so common in present time. you don't know the paucity of husband wife's relationship.just put yourself in his place and decide for the future course of action don't have any relation with that bugger .he is just using you for his entertainment. and if given chance anyone would do it.

thatartistwin

What the hell kind of a wife and mother are you? NO you do not have the right to remain friends with an ex that you cheated with. How the hell do you think you would like it if your husband cheated then decided to remain "good friends" with the woman he cheated with? You should get a divorce and let your husband find a real woman and be sure to give him full custody of the child so it does not grow up learning anything from you.

Ozgood

At least you had the decency to be disgusted with your own behavior, that's saying something.

WillBe

You are a cheating low life. Your husband deserves someone better than you - for his sake either tell him OR leave him.

will

well here is what that tells me.

there is a 99.999999% chance all he wanted was for you to put out.

there is a 00.000001% chance he was a deranged psychopath that really truly loved you so and did not know how to express his love. then after leaving changed his name and moved to another country.

(it has happened b4)

Sammy

hes got feelins for u still

Jose

what kind of woman are you?

jude

he loves u and can't be just a friend, he wants more from u and doesn't want to have just part of u, he wants all of u.

creeese

It sounds like you never got closure with him. Why did you break up in the first place? If you feel bad you should certainly stop cheating, but if you've fallen out of love with your husband, then you should divorce.

hotbabe

he might still love you maybe you should meet in public go for a coffee or something and ask him how he feels and why he cant just be a great friend and when you no the truth then you can decide what your gunna do bout it x

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