I am a pregnant and want a divorce. What should I do?
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I am a pregnant and want a divorce. What should I do?
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I've been married, for 10 years. Over the last 5 I have been extremely unhappy, and have come to the decision to get a divorce. I began taking steps in that direction, and then found out I am pregnant with our second child. I am happy that my son will have a sibling, but very unhappy with the prospect of possibly having to endure this marriage much longer. What should I do?
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lorisam7879
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Have you considered marital counseling? 10 years and two kids is an awful lot to give up on. I know its a difficult marriage, but why not try to do everything you can to fight for it? Not just for your kids, but for you and your husband.
People often get so busy with their lives, their kids, etc that they ignore their marriage. Its not intentional, it just happens.
I would consider counseling and maybe date nights? Try to get to know each other again.... always make sure you have time for each other no matter how busy you are. |
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kitkat
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Go through with your plans. |
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Kristi S
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do what you think is best for you and your children....if you think that this marriage is best dissolved do it. I am guessing your son is young and your expecting another, make sure you communicate with them as they grow up so they understand why mommy and daddy aren't together. You have to always look at the pro's and con's of each situation and if the con's out weight the pro's then you know what you have to do. Think hard and long on this because it doesn't just effect you. good luck. God bless |
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Jess L
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do wat makes you ha[ppy you want a divorce then do it you will be able to look after the baby as you have looked after your son! if your not happy then dont waste your time leave hunny! theres always some one willing to help you out
best of luck! |
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mebo
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I think you already know what you should do. |
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eddood52
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If you feel that having this child wil do no good in helping resolve the marriage problem in some way, then don't let the pregnancy delay your divorce proceedings. Just make sure if there is a lengthy separation period that the children are receiving child support and he is held to taking care of the bills associated with the pregnancy and delivery if necessary. |
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lar_dawg08
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Wow, you have to be ready for the poorest and hardest of times. Evenwhile waiting for child support and an income to start while you are on your own pregnant with one child is not where any Mother wants to be. Think about why you really want out of this marriage before you put your kids through this. |
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Christina R
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Honey, you already know what you need to do. Your children will be much better off with a single parent who is happy, than with two who are miserable. Do not forget that they learn about relationships from observing ours.
It will not be easy but life is short and you have already wasted the last five years being unhappy. It's time to take your life back. Follow your heart.
Good luck and God bless. |
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cjmessy
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I think you need to take one more shot at your marriage. Give it your best effort, seek counseling, if he won't go, then go alone. A lot of times, if you change and start becoming a better person just for yourself, your spouse will start to change too.
If it still doesn't work, then you can leave with a clear conscience. Knowing that you did everything you could to make it work for your children. |
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