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roxy_gal6920
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why do u want to be with someone who took vows (holy and sacride vows of God)? He has promised to be devoted to one person till death do them part. Obviously, he doesn't care about her (or his family if he has one) if he's going with you. So haven't you wondered if he's not just using you to fill an empty void in his meaningless life? Also, have you not considered his wife's thoughts and emotions on this? Have you ever been betrayed by someone who was suppose to be your one and only FOREVER? I would leave him because for one he is married and for number 2 he's obviously not serios or commited to anything in his life and for reason 3 you don't want to be the other woman because now in some states if a married couple gets divorced and one spouse is having an affair, the person they are commiting adultry with can be SUED!!!!!!! so get out of this relationship before it becomes too serious. and your no more of a homewrecker than him so ignore everyone who says so....remember it takes TWO to tango......and GOOD LUCK! |
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rebecca r
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You can't stop? Of course you can. You just won't. |
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Carrie!
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All I can say is I hope you don't end up marrying him because what comes around goes around. |
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celinuchis90
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If he loves you, he should get a divorce and go after you, if not move on and let him be married. |
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Moxie Crimefighter
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He's cheating to be with you...HELLO! |
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futuractor
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simple just stop dating him |
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homes
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Lace up, your next!
What soever he does to his wife, so he will do unto you.
Smile now, cry later. |
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ben2pep
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LEAVE HIM ALONE AND FIND SOMEONE WHO IS FREE TO RETURN YOUR LOVE... |
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always trying to be helpful
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How would you feel? If you were the wife in this situation? I recommend stop seeing him or he needs to leave his wife. Cheating is just plain wrong. |
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Sydney
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Stop dating the married man-there are plenty of single available men |
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KnowhereMan
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It's BEEN serious...!
Break it off, move on, and find someone unattached... There are plenty of them out there...!
Be the lesser of the two evils and end it IMMEDIATELY...! |
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Rawrrrr
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You know he's married, so do the right thing and leave him alone! If he's that unhappy with his wife then he needs to get a divorce or get into counseling - not find a mistress on the side to have a relationship with.
Do yourself a big favor and end this now before YOU get hurt. You should know that in all reality he isn't going to leave his wife for you and you are going to be the one dealing with emotional issues because he is going to go home to his wife every time. |
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janettetsmith
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Voice of experience: Run as fast as you can in the other direction. Think about it, the way you got him is probably the way you'll lose him. Do you want to always be wondering when you will be dumped for his new 'other woman'. |
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Ciera W
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girl u better stop well u ahead. |
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katie
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stop |
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oneradnursey
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Like they say,,,,,if he'll do it WITH you, he'll do it TO you. How will you ever have any trust in your relationship if he's cheating? This man is getting his cake and eating it too. He has the stability of a marriage and a dumb girl on the side who is willing to put out when he wants it. Hmmm. Think about that for a minute. Do you really want to be that girl? Have some self respect. And some respect for the sanctity of marriage. |
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Country
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What goes around...comes around..if you can't stop it... tell the wife you need to meet with her tell her you are sorry and telling her so she will know and you can put an end to it because you have remorse |
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Oww
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STOP IT THEN!BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE! |
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jeff d
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Depends where you live. Seems you need some diffrent action I could help if you live close. |
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anneboz
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This happened to me....actually he was having numerous on-line affairs which is just as bad. Anyway, having been the woman, the wife, the one at home. I think you need to look at why you're in "lust" with him. Are you afraid of committment? Maybe....after all it's easy to like, love whatever a married man. AND you don't have to deal with all of his bad habits. Be careful. He might not ever leave and you're left being...well, lonely. |
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attorney
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Addictive relationships are very hard to get away from. Only those who have been in them know just how controlling they are. The longer you stay the more afraid you become. The brain washing is tremendous and the guilt is over whelming...
Moreover, you cant kiss in public, cant hold his hands. Why let yourself to live in the dark?
Dump him! You'll live a better life without him. |
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°.DèvïÑÊ.·*·.Dèvï£ .°
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You know..how ironic it is, people here blame u, I do not! U do not know his wife so really who cares! Do what makes U happy. It could work out, but if not, u risk being hurt. I do believe that people cheat on their spouse for a reason. They are not happy either. Just guard ur heart it may get broke! |
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joe
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Keep up the good work baby girl the man probably needs a hot mama. |
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Springtime
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this is too deep a question to answer here. ask yourself why you're doing it...and why he's doing it....and who can it all effect. you're gonna get too many negative answers here. not sure where you can get better. |
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yourexgf
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tell him to call me i like em married too
also Where can I find 39+ yr old professional sugar daddies to pay $50/min for sweet chat with me?
I would like to chat tonight. Im a real woman. Kinda lonely though.
answer me pls and EMAIL ME THRU here to talk guys. Im 21 bi theway |
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M & M
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You guys are probably made for each other because neither of you are any good!! I hope his wife finds out! What goes around comes around and I hope that when you get marry your husband cheats on you. What you are doing is going to come back and bite you in the a$$!!!! |
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ravikumarrathi
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this is very common problem nowadays this depends upon person to person and their environment and it should be datting only not to exeed the limit as such. |
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jolie minouche
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you need to have more respect for yourself by knowing you can be the one in stop being SECOND BEST |
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tabkat73
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you need to leave him alone. He is married!! And he is a pig for cheating on his wife... why would you want to be with a man who is willing to cheat on his wife for you?? What makes you think that he won't do the same to you? If it truly is as serious as you say then he will be divorcing soon to be with you. |
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