I am divorced and is having an affair with a married, he said he will leave his wife for me should i believe?

kny390

How many ways can it be said that if he cheats on his wife, he will cheat on you. Don't believe a word out of his lying mouth.

kaliprincess82

No Way... Why should he leave his Wife?? He gets all the benifts of being with his family and his wife. Then he gets to call you and have a fantastic time with you. Because you used to be married you should respect the bond more especially if you could imagine how his wife would feel if she found out.

Its probably hard for him to just pick up and leave and I am sure you know that but you deserve more than some guy who smiles and plays with you but then goes home and lays in the bed with someone else. You deserve a man who will lay with you and only you.

And really the truth about guys like that is they are selfish. He wants his way. He wants to have the cake and eat it too. If he did leave his wife for you (which the chances are very slim) would you trust him you met he while he was cheating on his wife. If he doesnt respect that union he probably wont respect anything else..
Good luck..

Mikki

I can't believe you would put yourself in this position. Not only to help to wreck a home (it must have problems already or he would not be cheating....but you don't have to add to the problems) but to now find yourself with a man you obviously have feelings for and don't know if you can trust him. Do you know why you are not sure if you can believe him? Because he is lying already to his wife and you know it. You know what kind of man he is already. Do you really think that you can be the one to get him to stay faithful? He will do to you what he has done to her if everything doesn't go his way. You will always have in the back of your mind that he cheated before with you. There will be no trust in the relationship and that does not make for a good relationship. But then I think you already realize that.
So really what does it matter if you believe him or not. You really need to move on to someone you can trust.
And don't put yourself in this spot again.

Good Luck

shybutreal2003

hell no if he cheats on his wife what makes you think he wont on you.
ya he tells yo u that he will leave cuz he still wants in ur pants btu a married man 95 percent of the time wll never leave his wife

ill take it straight with no ice

your marriage is gone, now you want the responsibility of destroying this marriage. come on. hey here is something to think about, if he is cheating on his wife now and leaves her for you, do you think he will cheat on you.

Doug

O,I don't know so he cheats on his wife what makes you think that he won't cheat on YOU, I probably would not believe him...ddddaaaa

Mel

dont be a homewrecker and leave them alone. you are only setting yourself up with you go with him anyway.

YOU NEED TO LEAVE HIM ALONE AND IF HE EVER LEAVES HIS WIFE THEN MAYBE YOU CAN BE WITH HIM. YOU WOULDN'T WANT THAT TO HAPPEN TO YOU, SO DON'T BE A HOMEWRECKER!!! IF HE DIDN'T WANT TO BE WITH HIS WIFE HE WOULD OF ALREADY LEFT.

Sandy

Why go for a married man and break up someone elses life just because you got a divorce,there is plenty of singles out there so why bother with the ones that are all ready married,you got your divorce now go out and have some real fun.
This guy may say that he will leave his wife for you but don't bet money on it, because if he loves his wife any at all he will not leave her he hasn't yet has he and to it sounds like all he wants is to get in your pants and if your that easy then why leave his wife just to be with you and then have thoughts that you might go for someone else I don't think so.
best thing to do is find you someone that isn't married or has been divoced and don't put your self so cheep like that.
Just because you and your mate had problems why try to split someone else up for just because you weren't happy with who you was with that don't make since at all I bet if the tables was turned on you like that and it might have been but two wrongs don't make a right.

Hollynfaith

Must you really ask? Cmon' honey, don't be that niave. You were both having an affair and you obviously proved you are both capable of lying and betrayal. Can you really trust someone like that?

shaqmommabballstar344

Its fine that you're divorced, but your lover isn't. Thinking that he'll leave his wife for you and everything will be fine is like thinking that pigs fly. You would be destroying 2 peoples relationship and possibly destroy his poor wife. Having an affair is never OK. Your lover has proved he is a cheater; you obviously don't care who you hurt; your relationship would be built on lies. End it now and you'll save everyone a lot of heartache.

JoJoBa

No do not believe him cause the end results will not be good.

Miss Momma

Chris

No, do not believe it.

Joy

nope...dont' believe it. If her cheated on her, he'll cheat on you and it would only be a matter of time...Besides, you should respect yourself more than that!

Wiser1

I don't know if he is telling you a lie or not. I do know, that if he is cheating on his wife with you, the chances are really good that he'll then cheat on you with another woman someday. You are helping to break up a marriage. Are you proud of yourself?

Melda R

girl what are you thinking. i am not try to sound rude or anything. but leave his ***. you dont need to be like that. he never going to leave his wife. what make you think if he cheating on his wife. what if he sleeping with other girls too. telling them the same thing. you dont want to get aids or anything else. so be careful ok. just put your self in his wife shoes. how would you like it if you were still marry and that happen to you. i dont think you would like it. so i would say leave his *** ok. you need better then that and can do better too. good luck

Miss Tree

NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

unknowngurl

don't believe him. he might do the same with you once he marries you.

Attorney Search

All I can say is Kharma, you get back 10 times worse with what you decide to put out!

A5150Ylee

Even if he did leave his wife for you, what makes you think he won't leave you for the next best thing that comes along? People are creatures of habbit.

SENSES

us men know it cheaper to keep her. and if he has a wife and young kids he will be paying them throw collage. a lot of money to them and not much for you and him. if i was you i would start frash a men with out baggage.

Is this not the oldest line in the book??? Of course he'll leave his wife dear, right after the children have graduated, the mortgage is paid off, his wifes health is better, his kids college is paid off, insert whatever other lie you're going to believe here...

Hope you experience as much pain and misery as you're causing his wife and kids when he does the same to you.

ironman

he might ,but you can bet the farm he will leave you next,kick him to the curb,find a man you can respect

dumpster

The only way he would leave her for you, is if you have enough money or wealth to make it worth giving up everything he has now. Otherwise you are something to help him tolerate the unhappiness he lives with, and will continue because as the saying goes, "it's cheaper to keep her." I know how true that is. What I didn't know, is if she is as unhappy as you, you're screwed. the longer you stay, the more scewed you will be.

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