I am happy in my marriage love my wife very much..but find myself flirting more and more..?

zenkitty27

As long as your flirting doesn't lead to "other" things. And if it truly bothers your wife, then don't do it. But a lot of people harmlessly flirt.

daview1234

well my girl says.find out what makes you attracted to the people you are flirting with and ask your slef if your wife has that if its thar body then your wrong to think that way cause every one gets older and thar body changes but if its
her attitude ask your slef why she is that way maybe your not treating her the way she wants you to.
then try lovingley talking to her about how you feal.
and(I say you dont know what you got tell its gone! so try to think about all the good in your marriage and think about every thing you would miss about her if you left her.

sarah

you probably just like the attention. nothing to worry about as long as you don't advance beyond flirting. i am a married woman myself . if you ever wanna chat. feel free to im me.

colorist

You and me both, buddy. I wouldn't ever want to leave my hubby or the fabulous marriage we share, but I too find myself needing to flirt. I think that when you have been in a safe relationship for long enough you can't help but wonder if anyone is still attracted to you other than your spouse. I on the other hand don't feel like my husband is at all atracted to me anymore. I lost alot of weight during the last year and it seems like he liked me better heavier. I am still not a bean pole, but 100 lbs less is still less. Anyhow, I find myself needing for someone to get hard thinking of me, like he used to. I guess so long as nothing physical comes of it it's all in good fun, right. Best wishes

Azzy

Flirting doesn;t harm anyone except dont make it go to far

Uncle John

Then you're not really happy, you just think you are.

Student

As long as you have an open-honest relationship with your wife, you are OK. We are happily married for 10+ years..if at all my husband flirt..he tell me all the details and we laugh about it, and I do the same with him..or we do 'harmless flirting' when we are together in the same party/event. Honesty and a good sense of humor can keep flirting healthy and exciting.
PS: Never for once put your wife down in any way

nancieke

if you're flirting with someone else you're not happy in your marriage anymore.If you are happy as you say, then you don't flirt.

and,or,nand,nor

Flirting isn't cheating!

I'm also happily married, but I'm not dead. It's human nature I think.

*Abby*

Flirting is good for self esteem. If you are flirting and it makes you want to do more, than stop it!! My husband and I have come to a decision. It is ok to flirt with people as long as we are both around and that we do it with strangers. Never flirt with someone you will see on a normal basis because that just has trouble written all over it.

scooby.doo

l think you are trying to prove you can still pull.

zaki1968

Don't do it again, you are asking because you know it is wrong and you are feeling guilty, its usually one thing that leads to another, so be careful, don't spoil your happy marriage.

can_yew_hear_me_now

i am not married but if yew love yo wife i dont think yew need to do that because she might get really mad
good luck

mimismom

flirting is just a healthy way of letting yourself know you still got it, just don't act on the feelings from flirting and you will be ok

kja63

Flirting is playful and makes you feel a little bit dangerous and available. Reminds you of your youth and your past days of freedom!

In and of itself, flirting is harmless. But it can lead to problems and get quickly out of hand. Why not figure out why you feel the need to flirt when you have a loving wife. Then refocus your attentions where they belong -- on your wife!

Simply Lovely

I flirt and I love my husband. As long as you don't go to far, but flirting makes people feel good and there is no harm in that.

AsianPersuasion :)

I think you flirt for the attention. I think everyone needs to feel attractive from time to time and to be told that you are by someone other than your spouse. I got hit on today at a clothing store by a gorgeous man and it really made my day. I told him I was married and when I got to my car immediately called my husband and told him (we tell each other everything). It just made me feel good that after 10 years of marriage and 2 kids that someone else besides my hubby finds me compliment worthy!

fajita

Maybe you are going through a mid life crisis.

lorenmff79

Your flirting because your marriage is missing something, find out what it is and I am sure wife can fill that void :)

Flirting is a form of cheating no matter how you look at it.

~Gate~

We've been very happily married for 15yrs now and we flirt. Playful flirtations don't hurt anything, as long as it isn't being hidden from your spouse. Is your flirting just playing around or are you trying to make it lead somewhere, is the question.

lil_one_penny

well i been with my man 7 years and i flirted till like 2 months ago i cheated on him so if i was you i would stop now cause it going to lead to cheating i know!

POISON IVY#1

there is nothing wrong with flirting you find yourself in need of attention and go for it. as long as your know in your heart your a happy married man your ok and i think that all men flirt so do women its just a normal thing that happens everyday my boss and male co-workers flirt with me as long as they don't touch and keep the flirting in a normal manner

tear streaked angel

I am married and love my husband, but I love attention... As long as it's just flirting!

daniel a

It sounds like you have some boredom or dissatisfaction in general, not specific to your wife, look at that and be careful as it is easy to make a mistake you will regret and screw up what you have.

Geltrude

i'm sorry but if i knew my husband was flirting but not doing anything else, i would not be happy. he married me for a reason, why flirt. besides, the other person that you flirt with might take it one step further, and then who knows what. it's different if you flirt with the lady at the dry cleaners to get you dry cleaning for free. but to do it all the time means that you still would like to see what's it's like to be desired and if you desire someone. you have no reason to flirt.

Chad D

You may be lacking some spark or something in your relationship and flirting fills that. This isnt bad but not good either as it shows a symptom of a deeper problem of what are you missing from your partner.

jeff7241

I think most people do to some extent, just be careful how much you want to. Maybe you want more than just to flirt? Be careful what you wish for you might get it.

Mr. October

We all want to feel like we've still "got it." Also, there's a thrill factor involved.

I sympathize.

Lady Hewitt

Stop doing this as it may lead to more... You need to love your wife and stop doing this.... This will only hurt and destrpy your marriage....

bortiepie

I guess my question for you would be--what do you hope to achieve with your flirting? If its positive attention then perhaps you and your wife need to have some fun and playful conversations. If you are trying to get connected with someone, then if what you said, "I am happy in my marriage..." isn't true and you need to stop flirting and pay attention to what you have before you decide to drop it. Maybe you do need to drop your marriage, that I don't know but if you continue to flirt without knowing the consequences you desire you are going to hurt someone-you, your wife, or even the person who you are flirting with. None of which are acceptable if you're doing it on a whim.

miss-g-xxx

im gettin married soon to my partner of 10 years, i flirt when im out cause thats just me enjoying myself, honestly its harmless just dont let it get out of hand.

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