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kja63
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You and this woman at work are both lying cheaters. You should be ashamed of yourselves for wrecking 4 lives and 2 marriages. |
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Littlemissy
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You are in lust, and so is your lady. You either need to come clean about all this with your wife, or leave her. Don't put someone else through this kind of crap. Why does your wife deserve to be treated like that? She probably doesn't. The problem isn't your age, the problem is that you are both lying. PERIOD. How do you know that she wouldn't do it to you? |
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BlackLikeATar
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Leave the mistress. If you have to find another job then do so. Nothing good ever comes from these type of situations.Trust me. |
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Badkitty
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Either end the affair or end the marriage. You really can't have both! It's not fair to anyone involved. |
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TropicalSun
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This will only end badly. |
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SxyPR
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You want a future with your mistress yet she says she won't leave her husband cause of their financial situation - are you kidding me? I often wonder this - when two people are in a committed relationship and one strays away and cheats and ends up loving the new person and wanting to build a life with the new person - wouldn't that thought always be in your mind of hmm she cheated with me while I was married and she was married what makes me think she won't do it to me if one day we got married? Cheaters are the worst - if you wanted to have an affair leave your wife - its not fair. And if you want a future with a woman who also cheated thats even worse - atleast go for someone who was interested in you but not willing to go that route unless you were divorced!!!! |
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soccer babe 24/7
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end it dude!!!!! you r in totally over your head! |
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muffinplattsie
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ah messy, if you have asked her and she says she wont leave her husband then end it, coz you obviously want different things. ask her if she wasnt tied to her husband would she start a life with you, make sure she tells the truth. unless she will eventually leave her husband then there is no point in it carrying on, are you sure she isn't just looking for a bit of fun with you and your getting to seroius. |
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♥Juicy Couture♥
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Wow 20 years apart.. :S
You both have to decide whats more important, and end it before it gets worst. |
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Viola Shumski
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From the way you spell, I'd say you were probably... around 12 years old... |
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teeth hoover
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You both really need to sit down and talk about the future seriously. You can't really love your wife if you're having an affair and if everything was fine between you and her you wouldn't be in this situation in the first place. If the girl at work truely loves you, then she'd find ways of leaving her husband as i can't understand why she's financially tied to him. Maybe you can both start from fresh and have a future together, but you'd really need to be sure its what you both want. |
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the_secrets_keeper
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You don't love her, otherwise you would not have typed the "I think"....live what you have now... Enjoy the moment. ask yourself it it's love or just the heat of the moment. She can't leave him, you don't want to leave yours... why even bother thinking about that? Do your VERY BEST to ensure NO ONE finds out about this and prepare yourself for the worst scenario because sooner or latter someone will find out. I am pretty sure someone at work probably knows about it already. |
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princess74
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Sorry buddy i'm afraid you can't be with both of em. Pick one and quick otherwise you'll end up with one bitter ex partner or wife. If it's a scorned women you want then remain undecided. Or maybe the partner is just saying she's financially tied cause to her this thing is less serious???!! Good luck mate xx |
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me
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u sound like a disgusting pig caught up in lust. have a romantic night with ur WIFE, and keep remembering why u married her and y u love her, and why u should remain faithful |
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alwaysperfec237
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It might just be lust and if u are in love with this girl and want a future with her u need to tell ur wife. If u love ur wife u wouldnt want to hurt her. And if she found out by someone else that this is going on it is just going to get worse...... You cant have both in reality something is going to come out in the open sooner or later. And ur wife would prob want to know instead of u going behind her back. That is sneeking. Goodluck and follow your heart! |
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Diamond
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you need to let it go really because its not going to work and if your wife finds out all hell is going to break lose trust me i know you need to just tell her its over no matter how much you love her |
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jpcbbc
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You cannot have your cake and eat it too.Either leave your wife or leave the mistress |
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shclapitz
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You're playing with a time bomb Pal, suggest you leave your zipper intact. |
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dwnaz1
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U da man! |
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JAZY
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havent u seen that movie"derailed" i am going to bea laughing when that happens to u |
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Add Man
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Go with it but don't expect an emotional commitment from her and you'd be better off just thinking of it as a booty call because it sounds as if that's her view of it as well. |
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Lilly K
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Grow up and start acting like a man loser. |
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Cher B
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Double dippen is so wrong on so many levels!!Finish one before u start a second...ok so u leave your wife...whats to say this other women isn't gonna cheat on u...or u arent gonna cheat on her...what goes around comes around...u both deserve each other....once a cheater always a cheater!! |
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WANDERER
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If you will not leave your wife for her, then you don't love your mistress. You just love what you can get from her. The best thing to do is to make up in your mind where you want to be. Sounds to me that you want to be with your wife. Leave the other party alone. And start your new life. If you decide to leave your wife, just know because you love her, it would not work out with your mistress.
Stay with your wife, make things right and end it with the mistress. I know you are in quite a mess right now but that is the best thing to do. |
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larry h
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have you heard fornication?it is not in good interest of you and her to go on because what goes around comes around. |
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coleman_debby
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I would realy like to talk to you one on one, the thing is i cant judge you, i dont know you but, you havent mentioned your wife much is she good to you, do you love her, do you have kids?
these are things you need to think about, you must try to save your marriage dont trow it away on afling! |
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