I am hurting so much and need genuine advise please..?

jude

i take it that it was an arranged marriage, and even if he took her back he may not be able to easily get out of the marriage, u need to wait and see, i feel sorry for these people whose parents force them into arranged marriages, and then there unhappy. normally i would say not to wait but he is also a victim here, being forced to marry someone his parents chose. it is probably true that he has no feelings for her but getting out of one of those marriages is difficult i hear. just don't get your hopes up wait and see what happens and if he has lied to u i would end the relationship.

kelsieeee.

move on and do better than that, you dont deserve that

mrs_G

Forget him and move on. You could never trust someone like this.

Angel P.

His excuse for marrying that woman sounds very suspicious, even if he was crying and apologizing.

I think you should move on.

BBL

i dint think so, get some one who loves you

Paco

The whole thing sounds shady to me he might just be lying to you. plus every time he goes back to his family he may just be going to see her. One year may seem long but i would just forget it and find someone else more trusting cause now you will always have doubts about the relationship and never really feel completely at ease about it.

mack

And you BELIEVE that crap??? WOW!! Will U marry me?? I can tell you anything and make you believe it if you are that gullible. Wake Up babe!!! Please. God I hate to see good women being treated like such crap but then again; no one wants to give a Good man a chance so I am not sorry.

livelifesmiling

I would just move on.

Jazzy x33

Wow well honestly this is one of these problems where you have to choose for yourself if you want him back. This sounds hurtful and bad. But I wish you all the luck. Be careful what you do because he is still married to her. You don't want to be caught in between.

Green Thumb

I'm having a hard time believing this guy. Although you are hurt over this guys behavior, you still seem to have your head on straight. Sounds to me she may have dumped him and he wants his "cushion" back. Maureen, you are sensible and will find the right person who can appreciate you and share mutual trust. Take a little time out for yourself and tell this character to move on and grow up.

Sophiesmom

I would move on...No need to wait for him.

CindyLu

Honey how much more pain are you willing to accept from this man. He is worse than a liar. He married another woman and expects you to be his thing on the side.

Do not wait one more second or waste one more though on this man. YES he is lying again and he will continue to lie for as long as you believe the lies. You might love him but he does not love you. He is using your love to use you and you must put a stop to it. HE Feels Nothing For You. Get out of this mess of a relationship. As long as you stick with this guy the less chance you have to notice Mr Right when you come by him. He is out there waiting for you. Dump this zero and go find your hero. Really, you are never going to have what you dream of, not with this man but there is one where you can have all that and more. Stay or go is up to you but you will be so much happier if you end this NOW. I won't lie, it is gonna be hard and it is gonna hurt and hurt bad for a little while. Then it will get better and better and you will be on your way to a new life and a new love and a new happiness, one that will last. If you want your dream come true, you must go through the fire.

Captain J

MOVE ON...plenty of fishes in the sea...this guy has MENTAL ISSUES, a manipulator, LOSER, and his stench (bs) can be smelled a mile away...get as far way from him as possible...and HE WILL LIE AGAIN...if you love yourself at all, stay away from him...he's BAD NEWS! change your email, address, and phone #...and take a vacation and pamper yourself...YOU DESERVE GREAT THINGS in life and not a loser like him. Mr. Right is out there for you...great and wonderful things are worth the wait.

Jayne Savage

I know this hurts, but you have to end this. How can a grown man be 'forced' into leaving the country, going to another country, getting married then taking the woman back to the other country? If he was forced, why would they let him 'take her back'? This makes NO sense and he sounds like a big liar who wants to have his cake and eat it too. You'll be hurt A LOT worse if you don't ditch him for good. You know deep down he's lying, you just want to believe him so badly that you're trying to find a reason to justify his behavior, that's normal, but do the right thing for yourself.

Jan C

When he returns, first make sure he is divorced. The take it easy and be very skeptical as I feel you are. In the mean while try making friends and maybe you would find someone worthy of you and who won't run away again. Good luck.

Kenzie

You're in a tough position. I would give it a month or so. But if he never shows, move on. There is no point waiting for someone who isn't good on their word. But, don't give up quite yet. This is his last chance.

TopgunNanotech

you would be better off being neutral in this situation. What iam saying is , you dont trust him now. nor do u dont trust him. Just stay neutral. Be prepared to leave him if he proves to be lying again. On the other hand, he is already married. Is he going to divorce that woman? U need to find these things out. If he doesnt, you'll only be fooled in the end again. But just wait till you find out the details of his marriage.

John M

You are asking for advice? LOL! Are you high on stupid or you are not from this planet.

LEAVE HIM and HE LEAVE YOU ALONE.

The trust is gone. You just don't get up and marry anyone. He moved out of YOUR house, where he was staying, and got a place for HIS WIFE. He didn't get a place for you.

I would tell his poop butt to beat walking.

littleGYRO

I believe that you should trust him, because he still chooses you, and he will not decide to pick anyone else ever again.

amare

You should move on. Trust is an essential aspect of a relationship. Can you trust someone who lies to you? If he really loved you he would have been honest right from the start. Move on and find yourself a man who loves you enough to be honest and up front with you.

Trent

I think you should tread softly with this one.

fallgrl01

You really need to move on

grannysue

Trust your instincts. He lied about the relatives coming to visit. If he was forced into the marriage, then how can he just get out of it now? Why wasn't he able to dodge the whole thing?
Listen to yourself, you already know what to do. Just stop taking calls and find another hobby.

jay-bee

ok listen. if someone lied to you be4. dont count on it. youll just feel bad and breakdown once u find out he lied again. this is something that will really hurt you real bad. Thing happen for a reason and that is GOD giving us another path to be happy and find the one that we deserve and deserve the same as we do. gets??? just try not to count on it. just go ahead and ejoy your life. things will be better. if both of you really meant for each other, that time will come. the one that u least expected is the one that comes.

Bell Winters

woooow ,wat a story,
one, u shouldnt of lived w/ him, it takes the point out of getting married

two, i dont know wat to tell u ?

Daniel

Definitely get rid. life's to short to waste on those who lie.

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