I am in a relationship with a woman who may go back to her husband after a years separation. what should I do?

Andre

Stay away from her and let her decide what she wants. There's just too much drama in a relationship that involves an ex husband.

momrfg2003

Let her go. It's very dangerous to get involved with a woman who is not entirely free. I wish I had better news for you.

zoee_d

You can't make her stay with you

She doesn't love you. Move on.

Maalru3

You need to put your foot down and have some dignaty and self respect. Tell her if that's what she wants to do, do it, but you won't be there if it doesn't work. You also aren't going to sit around while she makes up her mind. Clearly she has been talking to him, and that's also disrespectful to you.

holeeycow

Find you a single woman.

jonathanjay743

I don't think she should be in another relationship unless she is divorced. Thats my opinion.

Neescousin

Back up!!!! Did you actually EXPECT commitment from a married woman??????

Marc M

she is lying to you she dont love you or she would be with you

Badkitty

Sounds like she loves keeping you just in case. Stop being used tell her to go back now and stay there.

teekster88

find another one and get over it

Allison, aka Nice Lady

Leave her alone. Next time know better than getting mixed up with a married woman.

littleme836

that what happens when you get involve with a woman that isn't officially divorced. Find someone with less baggage.

Rinkidink

She is trying to keep her options open. You need to do what is right for you. I would say that staying in a relationship with the threat of the partner walking out after a year - is not the right thing. The world won't end without her - promise. Find you a nice girl that wants you.

Yeppers!

Yah she played you man.

Loews 48

You must not waste your time any further. She has clearly made a decision to go back to him. She chose him over you so you need to move on and not let her walk over you. If she wanted to be with you, she would have chosen you. Sorry : (

kaylasmommyrocks

u should have never gotten involved with a married woman--sorry, but its ur problem to deal with

Michaelsgyrl

Let her go. You're only wasting your time and energy. There could be someone come along that will love you the same way, and you will miss them, because you are w/her. You will find someone who loves you unconditionally and will be there for you. I know it is easy for me to say, because I am on the outside, but I promise you you will see the same thing when you are out of the situation. It will hurt. I won't lie, but it will be worth it in the long run.

alal

let her be with who she wants. if u loved her enough 2 b in a relationship with her, then u shoud love her enough to let her b with who she wants

Little One

unfortunately, you need to forget about her and move on with your life. She does not love you if she can leave you at the drop of a dime. It honestly sounds like a really long rebound relationship. I am sorry she put you through this, that is horrible. Its best to look forward and move on. You will find someone who will truly love you for you, someone who will devote their life to you and make you number 1.

Good luck to you.

jeanniep

there are 1000's and you pick this one.
granted she was separated, but if she is telling you she might go back to him, that means she has probably been seeing him all along. so she has been playing both of you.

it's the holidays there are lots of wonderful un attached women waiting for you. Go now!

Good Luck

Erik A

Back off the relationship and tell her that if she wants to got back that you may not like it but you will respect it

rolling stones gather no moss.

April

The first one one meets out of a marriage is called "the bridge" by counselors, and it is rarely the one they end up with. You're probably the bridge, and she is now having second thoughts about her husband.... problem for her is that unless they seek counseling the fix what originally was their problem, the marriage will fail-------------again.

Hope this helps

angelr1790

Let her go, so the right woman for you can come into your life.. it sounds like she needs you more than she loves you. you should help her pack...good luck!

Blueberryflowers

People do things like this for moral reasons and not for love reasons many times and if she goes back it probably will not work. I myself would not take her back if she went with me and then left me and tried to come back to me it would have to be very heavy love for me to put up with a man doing that to me. I think people don't have common sense that go back to someone because they were married even when they don't love each other and they have already started up with someone else.

Pretty

Try talking to her and if she insist going back to her husband, live her alone and move on with your life

Daisey Duck

It should have set off a bell when in a year she had not gotten the divorce with no children involved in most states it can be done in 30 days. Evidently she was still seeing him throughout this time or she wouldn't be just running back to him. You need to tell her that she has to make a choise and make it now. Then you need to go on with your life.

Lost

It sounds like she is insecure and that is all. And she does not know what she wants she wants you but she wants her ex to.

Wayner

Stop dating her because she's still married.

Jessica C

There is not much you can do. Does not matter what she says, if she wants to go back, you can't stop her. So cool it for a while and give her to decide what she wants to do. Don't call her or see her. Let her know if she wants to see you, it has to be for good.

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