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the_witch108
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it is bad.not because the man u like is black!!!coz u cheat on ur husband!!!dont bring race into this matter |
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jason d
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U disgust me. Don't get married b4 u know this is truly the one u want to be with. W H O R E !!! |
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Babs
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Depends on whether you have an exclusive monogamous marriage. If so, you are not living up to your part of the bargain. If you don't, then work it out with your spouse and potential lover. |
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DF
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be careful sweetie - once you go black you can never go back!! |
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Mr. M
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Dang some folks on here got very harsh and they are going through the same thing. But u already know it's a sin, and i know somethings things just happen unexpectedly, but you have to make sure you love this guy and it's not just infuatutation or lust because you want to go where your heart is, and don't ever want this to happen again. Good Luck |
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cub6ib9
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Noooooo not a black man!!!!!!! dang and ur serious too, I'd have to say it's bad....does the black man love you back??? you r definitely in a bind......torn between 2 races tsk, tsk, tsk |
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bumblebee
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its bad that you are inlove with someone other than your husband. now you just have to decide what you are gonna do. |
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Harry Cat
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Are you out of your mind?
Must be. |
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marks3kids
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Sticky question. I guess it depends on what you want to do with your marriage. If you want to keep it going, then either your husband has to agree to let you see the black man, or you have to stop seeing him. You would be violating the trust your husband has for you if you sneak around with anyone else. The color of the other guy isn't the issue, it's the fact that you are married to another guy. If I had an open relationship with my wife, I wouldn't care about her choice of men and their color. It would be up to her. That's why it's called an open marriage. If you don't have that arrangement with your husband, then you need to either get that arrangement made, or dump all other guys, until you divorce your husband. Good Luck |
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Kelsey P
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its bad that you dont love him and that you leading him on and letting you hubby thinks there is something there the race issue is fine does not matter on color as long as you love the person and if you really love the balck guy end it with your husband before you have any doubts and dont worry life will take itself on so sit back and relax |
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NVHSChemGuy
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uh.....yes that is terrible but mostly because you are in love with someone that is not your husband and really has nothing to do with his color. Time to try the thing we tell kids to do......tell the truth. |
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Kini
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that whole black and white thing doesn't matter at all. But I would say lusting after a man when you've already got one it bad. |
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lady t
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no its not bad follow your heart if you love the black man go with him |
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Princess
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It doesn't matter what color the guy is....you are in love with someone beside your husband. Why? Work on that issue. Color has absolutely no bearing on your dilemma. |
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paoakalani
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which part you loving someone other than your husband or you loving someone other than your husband? the race thing shouldn't be the worst of your worries. |
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Carmen
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who doesn't love a black man but then again their your husband and you know he loves U and U might not know it but maybe the black guy doesn't like U but who know hope everything works out good luck |
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peterpan
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its all goood |
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ajai
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being unfaithful is more serious than black and white. |
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dragonfire
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that he is black.. no
that your married yes... |
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ohlayd
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It's not bad the color, it's the fact that you are in love with one man while still married to another. |
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jaimestar64cross
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you know it is ---
Tell your husband what's going on and the two of you need to work on your marriage |
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toobadfaya
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It is bad that you are in love with another man, I don't see what his race has to do with it. Are you confused because you never loved a black man. I promise you the love is no different! I have dated white men and black men, it depends more on the man's character than his skin color |
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bluemidnightbeach
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frankly the color of the man is not the bad part. The bad part is that you allowed yourself to fall for temptation and giving this second guy the attention you should be giving your marrage and your husband.
Its people like you that screw up the good guys left out there. |
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LadyRebecca
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It is not bad that you love a black man
It is bad that you are married |
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zether
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yes its bad, because you are married and in love with someone else, i guess you didn't really take your wedding vows seriously
just another liar |
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N2JESUS
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What's color got to do with it? You're married. You're an adultress. Repent. |
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dogriver
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YOU are bad |
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Pina Colada
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it's bad only cuz you're cheating on your husband...if you didn't love him, you shouldn't have married him. or you shouldn't have let yourself get so close to a man other than your husband. for the record, in a relationship, the guy should never allow himself to get too close to a female friend, nor should the girl let herself get too close to a male friend...you just don't do it. but you need to nip something in the bud, and either way you do it, it's not gonna be pretty. |
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mobi
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Ofcourse... |
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aquarian
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Loving anybody is not bad.But being in a committed relationship,u are being unfair to both the men. |
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