I am in love with a married man!!?

SuzyQ

What you're doing is wrong, at least in my view. Find someone you can be with that doesn't have to sneak around. He's a snake. I am certain that if and when you find your "perfect match" you would be upset if he were acting with someone else the way this guy is acting with you. He's a player and wants to have his cake and eat it too. Why are you indulging him? There's really nothing in it for you. No where for this to go. Even if he left her for you, your relationship was built on sneaking around and deception. He can't be trusted but neither can you. You know he's married. Do what's right. Find a man of your own.

Edit: If you do decide to end it, change your number. Quit texting him, if he doesn't leave you alone, threaten to tell his wife that he's harrassing you.

Seriously?

You are an idiot. You got yourself into it - now get yourself out of it.

Mr. Morality Â©

He's using you......and you think it's love

likittyslit

If there were less women helping them, there'd be less men cheating...

Really Billy

Just remember, a man who will cheat on his wife, will cheat on his wife.

?!?!?!?

Having feelings for someone make it okay. If you're looking for someone to feel bad for you and make it okay for you to help this guy ruin his marriage it's so not going to happen. Selfish cow.

niclala

his poor wife. just stop it now its so unfair on her and its not like it will work out with you and even if it did would you trust a cheater?

Dr. KIA GCG, 101â„¢

You're not going to find anybody whos going to say not to end it.
Divorce is all over the place and infedility is one of the main reason. He's not yours, get your own man, you could get seriously hurt. Biiitches be crazy these days, i honestly think if I caught a man cheating ever again (i went thru it once), I'd probably kill both him and her.

Patty M

You text message for 7 or 8 hours. How juvenile. Real adults would be talking on the phone. This isn't anything but puppy love. You will will get over it or spend your life as a Peterless Pan.

Sophia Petrillo

I think you should def. end it. He is getting to have his cake and eat it to. Meaning, he has the wife to fulfill his fantasies and you to make the fantasies, if that makes sense. I don't think if he was happy in his marriage, like you say, that he would be talking to you. Obviously he is missing something that you are giving him. That's not healthy for you to be a part of though. Not to mention, your karma is going to keep getting worse and worse if you continue this. Good Luck!

maryannmccarthy2003

Change your phone number. Stop talking to this man at once. He's married & you know it's wrong so now you have to do the right thing! Don't put yourself or his wife through this! Good luck!

Mary in Camden, MI

Blue Eyed Angel

Be wary of married men who flirt with you. Go after a man who is not married or who is divorced. You will only get yourself hurt because most married men are filling a void outside of their marriage and will most likely never leave their wife. You deserve better.

DANNIE M

change you cell phone number stop emailing if you recieve some from him press delete
think of his wife and kids if he has any and put yourself in there shoes how would you feel if anotner women tried to steal your man
This will end up with lots of heartache and pain for you and all involved do the right thing

Debbie P

GROW UP. He is MARRIED. He is using you. Tell him not to contact you anymore.

adijoshc

HOMEWRECKER

Abhijit C

don't destroy a family.

len b

You have a choice. Stay there and be prepared to live a life of regret or take the right road. Simple isn't it. But then you already knew since you asked the question.

ichelle j

first of all its crazy for u guys to have a crush on each other its wrong to like a married man cuz it plus its alright to talk too him as a freind but u dnt want it to escalaed into somthing elese cuz it can cause a fight yes i think u should let it go pluse if u jst talk as freinds talk every now and then nt everyday becuz u dnt want to be pulled in drama

You need to end it immediately. He's a married man ... he's not available. Don't text, don't call, and don't respond. He'll get the picture. There's no future for you two as he's described himself as "happily married." He's not going to leave his wife for you and all you're doing is setting yourself up for heartache and trouble. Walk away!

<--A-<<<

i think you should just end all connections with this man. If he is so happily married then why does he hide the fact that he talks to you all the time? i would be very upset if my husband was connecting on this kind of level with another woman, especially behind my back. If you have any sort of conscience you will end this relationship. It will only get worse and then three people will be hurt. you really need to stop the relationship with this man.

Devin K

You have the backbone of a squid and the morals of a snake. Knock it off and find someone AVAILABLE!

ally'smom

i think you should drop the texting and lose his number fast. he told YOU upfront he is happily married he is not seeking a life with you he already has one with his wife. You should have respect for their marriage even if he is showing his lack of respect be a big girl leave him alone

igmaniii

If you knew that he was married, you should have never started to like him, or to continue liking him.

You should just be friends, keep talking to him, just not as much.

Find out what you like about him and find someone else like him that is not married.

Kate

You should end all communication with him immediately. That is just disgusting that you would do that to another woman. How would you feel if you were his wife!? There are MILLIONS of men in America, are you really SO flawed that you can't go find one who isn't already MARRIED!? You are both dirt bags, and his wife deserves to know what's going on. At least you know if she finds out and they get a divorce, and he comes running to you, you can expect him to have someone on the side, just like you are a side dish to him! Absolutely disgusting. It makes me sick to think that there are women like you out there.

silly_duck96

Yes you need to end it. What if you were married and found text messages from another woman on your husband's phone? You would be crushed. End this for the sake of his wife.

StrongSilentType

STOP all contacts with him. He's off limits. Respect his wife and respect marriage!

Mrs. Damsel Lesmad

you better end this one early honey because your fancy feeling will deepen and before you know it there is nothing you can do to end this one..

change your chat id and mobile number..believe me its for your own good and you will be glad you end this one early.

silina b

only i could advice its too hard to be a mistress lots of people wouldnt understand us.Us?because we have the same situation also so i guess u must to let it go.coz many people will gonna hurt including yourself as long as u could better let it go before his wife knew.
what happen to me is that his wife knew already and shes been attacking me through txt message--painful messages.i cant fight back coz i dont have the right im just a mistress and shes the legal wife so now i left brokenhearted and decided to let it go before its getting worst.i know its too late i hurt already hurt her.but at least we must to do the right thing and im also thinking his children i dont want them to feel hatred to their father so i must to let go.i know its been hard to do it but just face the fact. that the guy we love its not really meant for us....

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