I am in love with a married man who keeps telling me he ll leave his wife and marry me Do you think he will?

Incognito

Don't force him doing anything!
If he will do it that means he cannot live without you!
Wish you my best!

Rachel

One of two things will happen.

1) He'll never leave his wife.

2) He'll leave his wife for you, then leave you for someone else.

Move on.

Janet's Mac

It is very rare that a man will leave his wife for the woman with whom he is having and affair. I am not saying it won't happen but it is very unlikely. Face it; in his mind he has the best of both worlds, a wife and the mother of his children and all the stability inherent in that and you with whom he can indulge his carnal desires.Quite frankly that is the oldest line in the book and you fell for it hook, line, and sinker.
Get some self-respect and find your own man, not someone else's.
Two more things that you should consider:
1. If he does leave his wife you two should date for at least a YEAR before thinking of marriage.
2. The very best revenge for his wife to have on you is to let you have him.

bluesingroove

you're completely delusional. no, he won't. and if he does: WORSE for you.

move on.

Daisy

I'm sure that all those years he told his wife that he LOVED her, he was just playing! Of course he has never loved anyone until he met you! And he would NEVER lie to you the way that he lied to HER, because he loves you so much, he is going to leave her because he can't be without you!!

HERE IS YOUR CLUE: Married men that are going to leave their wives don't talk about it-they just do it! They don't say they are going to, they don't have to keep telling their mistress-I'll leave her soon-they just do it. Men are different than women, and when its over that's it-no "I need closure" no "Its complicated" no, nada, zip zilch. If he were really going to leave his wife, he would have told HER that, not you.

Be smarter next time, stay away from another woman's man, and have enough self esteem to recognize that you are worth more than being used!

kim t

My guess is no you are being used, wake up here !!!

huckleberryjoe

Normally they don't. He's probably just enjoying it for what it is... a piece of ***.

airjarrod

Not a chance.

rita_hiemy

I just broke up with a married guy a year ago and he never told me he was going to leave her, and I never asked him to but I fell in love with him and felt it was best to let it go because it was a dead end relationship! Plus he started lying to me just as he did her!!!!!!!!!!! (Sounds familar) Sweetheart take a page out my book, analyze the situation, and think of everytime he left you and how you felt when he went home to her, if they have kids think of the kids first, if they don't think of her and all the lies he told her to be with you. Then sit and think if it's real love between you and him right, would you have to ask him to leave her, and would he keep telling you he going to leave her, or would he just be honest with her and leave, that's if he really loves you! You follow me! Meaning it don't take real love anytime to commit! You don't have to ask for real love to commit to you it would belong to you no questions asked, real love wouldn't have you waiting for him sweetheart! He would know what he want, mean what he say, and say what he mean! Real love would be honest! Respect for you is what he would have if he knew and trust he knows the emotional tie that it takes you through with or without him! So real love wouldn't hurt like that! So no it's not even worth all that to even waste your time, because your worth more, and nine times out of ten, he'll start lying to you and you have to stop lying to yourself.....................

jstagirl1969

why not ask the wife what she thinks of all this. im sure she doesnt even know about you yet. just to see how he'll react- tell him youre going to tell his wife of you'lls plans. i bet then he wont marry you. you should know better next time.

Tammy L

if he is cheating on his wife what makes you think he wont cheat on you after a while. He will not leave his wife. He will stay with you until his wife catches ya. then he will dump you and try to repair his relationship with the wife.

Holly

Do you really want him to? Let's say he does and then a couple years down the road when he's bored with you just like he's bored with his wife, he starts seeing some other woman who doesn't understand the importance of leaving married or unavailable men alone. I know, you're thinking - but this is me, I'm special, I'm different. I'll never do to him what his wife is doing and he'll never want to cheat on me. Honey, this isn't about you. It's about him. He'll do the same to you that he's doing to her.

You are indeed special though you're not acting like it right now. You're not respecting yourself enough to know that what you're doing is wrong and what he's doing is wrong.
I know you're human and you need someone. But, honey, leave the married men alone. Find someone who is available, you're far more likely to end up happy in the end.

nik

ok for a moment he is going to marry u after leaving his wife, then what is the guarantee that he will not leave you.......

John

If he leaves her for you ... what stops him from leaving you for another her?

Toni A

If you believe he will leave his wife for you then sweey you need to grow up 99% never leave their wives. All you are to him is a..ss and think about it who is he going home to. And your so wrong for sleeping with amarried man in the first place.. If he cheats on his wife he will cheat on you get yourself out of the relationship and find yourself a man who don't have wife.

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NEVER

free_angel

No. If he really wanted to, he would of done it by now.

Gayle L

Chances are he will not, why should he ? Men really would rather not break up their family and home, they normally like thier life the way it is. Lets say he did leave his wife, would you want someone who cheats, I know I wouldn't. You can tell yourself that it was differant when he fell for you, but face it he is cheating to be with you, and chances are he would cheat again. It's easy to tell you to forget him and move on, and it sounds so cliche but that really is what you need to do.

babydolly

he is lying to you just like he did to his wife, you should know by now that that married men are not the best lovers.They make you a second fiddle, you can not be seen in public together, the whole affair is secretive and that is how you what to spend your life.Better run

dust s

WAKE UP DEAR

KingDavid

Maxy,,,He would have done it the first week he met you if he was so unhappy where he is at. Love is powerful, and sometimes we can't control certain things. But we also have to be realistic. I know a lot of people will judge you in this forum. I won't. The only thing I will tell you is that he is married. End of that story. Now you have to distance yourself from that situation because you are worth so much more than that. You do not want to start a relationship with a person that cheated on his spouse. It's not going to work. But for you there's still plenty of hope of a recovery from this experience and in due time find that this was all a mistake and that life have better choices for you in the future!

Rachel

The truth is, he probably won't leave his wife. What are you doing with a married man in the first place? Their are sooo many single guys out there! Move on! He's cheating on his wife! Even if he were to leave his wife for you, you could never trust him! If he'd cheat on his wife, he'd cheat on you just as easily!

cooter726

No, your just his booty call.

sweetgirl

no!its a big lie!

Mrs. Jack Sparrow â™¥

Nights of wine could not have said it best.

oracleofohio

A good man would have left her before he started seeing you.

minootoo

In the absence of few more details.

He is just interested in double dipping.

Put a distance if you want more then what you are enjoying now.

It is not very good situation. Lots of people have paid it with their life.

A friend of Bill W

Girl, yes... He'll leave his wife and family, marry you and be true to you. Are you stupid? He is stringing you along for as long as you will stand for it. Even if he leaves his wife, do you want a cheater for yours? This guy is not a good person. Dump him and run. Seek counseling with a pastor or professional. God bless

core helps

If you don't believe him now - better dont go ahead.

Nnena

OH how can i stop having affair with this man, he is my exguy , but now married. he told me he would leave his wife. put he has been decieving me.

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