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I am in love with a woman but not sure what to do with my wife?

My wife and are married for 5 years, she is 26 and I am 47. I loved her a lot but our relationships didn't work out and I fell out of love with her. I provided her with everything up until now amazing lifestyle, she doesn't know what it means to work or make money and is fully dependant on me. In return she always took it all for often rejected me, called me old and bold etc.
Recently I meat amazing girl , loving caring and beautiful and I fell in love.She is 22, from Russia. She wants to marry me and have twp children.I introduced the girl to the wife and explained that this is serios. She didn't take it easily, she started crying and said she doesn't want a divorce.
I would like her to stay living with me in our family residence for the time being and not to disrupt our son's life. I said she is free to date other people. However yesterday I found out she is talking to the lawyer.
Let her take me to court? If yes, how can I ensure that I have the custody of our son?


    




Clints_wench
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You are a pig. Bringing another woman into your wife's house...


Sarah M
Dude....your sooo wrong to do that to her and your son. Think of the example your setting for your son. simply wrong.


angel
You are sick old man. The 22 year old wants your money you fool, not you. She will bleed you dry, and i hope your wife will divorce you and take at least half of what you have got, just for the fact that you let her use you for your money too.

Wake up and smell the coffee, stop being taken for a fool.


joshybear
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you are sick, you should not have you son, and I hope your wife takes you for everthing you have, looser


suzyQ
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You don't deserve anything. You are the one cheating on her. Shame on you. You are old enough to know better. Check your wedding vows-you said for better or worse. Deal with it. Make an effort to make it better in a way that would make your wife happy. Stop just thinking about you. What are you trying to teach your son? To cheat on his wife and trade her in for a younger model? You should not have custody of him. He needs a moral upbringing from his mother.


PvteFrazer
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What feckin' planet are you from?


♀Mañana♥^¥ ♪☺↕♫©⢠size=
You made your bed...and boy are you going to burn in it!


tearsofthemoon00
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You need therapy.In love with someone you just met is called lust.Eastern European women can be very dishonest when it comes to monetary matters.Does it sound right to you to throw away your marriage over someone you just met?Try to think as a adult.You sound very child like.Dont be afraid to be a grown up.Honestly,you need counseling not another child wife.


Veston Pants
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You cant. The courts will favour the mother and you will have to pay for it. Simple. Really simple. You will also lose your house.


bull
don't russian into anything


Barbara Doll to you
All a bit unsubtle. I wouldn't give you custody of your son.
Did you fall out of love with your wife or into lust with the 22 year old Russian?


akelaamy
Good luck as you were unfaithful to her - you need to talk to a lawyer and prove that she is unable to provide a stable environment for your son. But if you have been supporting her in a lavish lifestyle be prepared to pay out the nose. Remember you are the one who started it by bringing home a young woman young enough to be your daughter -- I HAD an Uncle like that - and now his own kids HATE him - his current wife is 8 years younger than his youngest son (who is 34)


andromeda512
Your big mistakes were 1) not seeking counseling for your present marriage 2) dishonoring the sanctity of marriage and having an affair, and 3) having the two women meet. Now you will never get custody, no matter how many people you pay. Just because you're male and rich does NOT mean you will get anything you want, and I hope you don't. I hope your wife divorces you, gets half of what's yours, and gets full custody.

And I hope your new wife, who's barely old enough to read, turns out to be a huge pain in your ***.


samm5683
you need to grow up start trying to save your marriage and not cause heart ach for any one instead of trying to find another young girl to marry and hurt if your marriage dont work then try finding someone your own age your using these women and its not right


cassiepiehoney
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if you dont want to lose your son STOP SLEEPING WITH WOMEN WHO COULD BE HIS BIG SIS


moluvsmark
whether or not she has been cold to you, she has all the legal rights as the wife and mother of your son. it does not suprize me that she has contacted a lawyer..you should do the same.


Anne K T
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First of all you were happy to let your wife stay at home obviously or it wouldn't have happened now you are feeling guilty for deskilling her and making her useless in the job market. You have a responsibility to look after your family, what kind of man picks up young girls half their age every couple of years then tires of them and wants rid.
You grow up mr 47 year old you have the morals of a teenage boy.


Ima F
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dude you definitely won't get custody.
and you two are how far apart in age?!?!?!


mayihelpyou
Why are these women so much younger than you. You might have more in common with someone your own age. It's shocking to hear that you introduced these two women to each other. I am not sure the courts will like to here you have done this so custody of your son will be determined on the relationship you each have with him. I have heard lots of stories about men with women from other countries, have you thought that maybe this new 22 yr. old will be the same at the 26 yr. old. This one will be totally dependent on you also.


Annie M
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You are evil. You wont get custody of your son, the father rarely does.


Caroline
You are nearly 50 years old. What have you learnt in that time?

You have changed the status quo by allowing yourself to fall in love with a new girl - someone young enough to be your daughter.

Now, you dont like it that your wife has decided to see a lawyer. I think she is being sensible and protecting her rights and her son's rights.

You have only been married for five years - goodness what a mess!


kyle g
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Younger model huh? You are a pig. She should take you to court, get custody of your child, child support and alimony. If you want to be free to marry a mail order bride, pay for it.


alone again
So there is a 22 yr old Russian woman fancying a man of 47, who says she loves you and wants 2 children by you.
You of course believe her, but remember the old old saying, love is blind, and you are very blind.
The 26 yr old was a gamble that didn't pay off, what do you really think they want, you, or want you can give them, have a look in the mirror, a real look. Then find someone closer to your age who will bring you happiness.
PS been there got the tee shirt!
Of course this question could be a wind up!


dancingfool229
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You can't insure anything when it comes to the custody of a child. Why don't you look for a more mature woman like maybe your age.


K G
Stay away from the young chicks. You are too old to be palying with these ladies lives talking about falling in and out of love. you need to get a woman close to your own age who can actually identify with you on the age thing and provide a life together. Anytime when you are the only one providing the money, you at some point are going to feel like things aren't the way they should be.

My advice, get a 30 or 40 year old lady pimpin.


jones w
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u have many options. go to dr. phil, jerry springer, maury, or oprah





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