I am indigent and couch surfing out of necessity, how can I be less of a burden?
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I am indigent and couch surfing out of necessity, how can I be less of a burden?
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I am indigent and couch surfing out of necessity, how can I be less of a burden?
Before you say it, I spend every day trying to get a job. It has been three weeks here living at my sister and brother in law's house. They feel that I "don't respect" them and don't appreciate what they are doing for me. This is untrue. My brother in law has millions of rules, and I try my best to do everything he says, but there is always something that I am doing that bugs him: honestly I think its just because he doesn't like me being here, although he will never admit it. I would leave but I have nowhere to go, and I am too much of a coward to live in my car or kill myself, although I think about doing both. I try and tell them how thankful I am, but he never believes me. I think of suicide on a daily basis. If I had any balls I would have done it already. And I have a bachelors degree, but I can't get a job yet. I try though, every day. Anyway what are some ways I can be happier, perhaps ease the burden of me being here (trust me, I keep to myself and I am very very clean, I even wash their dishes and take out the trash, my brother in law always has a reason to believe I am indignant)?
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f you dobiz. seriously.
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Anya D
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first of all, things happen. i have been out of work for over 7 months and i have a masters. there are things you can do though. i do a lot of blogging for pay and freelance work. it brings in some money. if you got yourself into doing that, you could offer to buy dinner one night or something. maybe your brother-in-laws big problem is money.
second of all, suicide is not an option because you have a good education and just need to get into the job market. you will. but in the mean time, i'd start working. if anything, offer to clean out garages for neighbors or do painting. put up some flyers around where you live. you'd be surprised how many people need help and are willing to pay for it. like i said i do tons of freelance stuff and it's helping a lot. |
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bahjij6
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Have you tried applying to any and all positions from retail to office work to whatever will get you some money (i.e. B. King, Walmart, etc.). Don't just look in your field and you need to humble yourself until you're back on your feet. No need to pity yourself, just focus on getting yourself back on track. Many people are going through the same thing at this time. Things will get better. |
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