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I am married?

i have a bad narriage,he sleeps with who ever.......should i?or should i do it to make a apoint or just for get it,and be married?what would u do?
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we sleep in different beds & in different rooms also..we havent did any thing in also 7 years.


    




David
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Leave. He will eventually get one or more of those terrible diseases, and then give them to you.


bluechick
Just because your husband is sleeping around doesn't mean that you should as well. Just dump the dead weight and get a divorce. Then you will be free to get into real relationships and you can find someone faithful.


j'sbabygirl
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Divorce the scum....just remember...you are sleeping with who he sleeps with in a sense. Whatever they might have, you could get...and remember, even nice looking, healthy people can have diseases. Who knows what he is bringing home to you that you won't know about for a while. Why would you want to be with someone who wants other people?


MJ
See a marriage counselor if you want to stay in the marriage. If not, see a lawyer, you both need help.


Lonewolf
Sounds like you two have some serious issues that need immediate attention. I've said it before, I'll say it again. I don't condone divorce. Get some professional counseling or a mediator. Use divorcce only as a last option. Hopefully you don't have any children involved in the situation.


jpet
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Pack up and move on, so you can find who you and be happy again. Life is too short and we only get one!!!! Good Luck!


cairnlvr
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Forget the " making a point ". By so doing you would only lower yourself to his standards. You deserve better treatment. Have you had a conversation with him about his sleeping around? Tell the bum that you won't tolerate that sort of thing any longer, if he keeps doing the same thing, leave and don't look back.


Henrietta L
Come on people.....Marriage is a sacrate thing and just because your husband is a cheat, don't disrespect yourself like that by "doing unto others,as they do to you", you'll regret that if you do. Just let him know that you know what he's doing and that either he stops or you leave. It's really your choice.


virgo1
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2 wroomgs do not make a right. seems like u r in marriage of convenience. let him do his thing & u find another love. just stay as room mates. u both can keep things 2grther if no jealousy rears it's ugly head.


lisa7777
how can you take this sort of treatment from your so called husband, when you marry its ment to be a commitment to each other.

if i were you i would of walked out the door with my middle finger up at him.

you deserve better than that.


Jacqueline
Don't be messy. Finish one thing before you start another. Get a divorce. That's no marriage!


trumpet.girl
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DEVORCE HIS BUTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...


Le'Le
I say move on with your life. Get the divorce. find a man who will love and respect you.


Nancy A.K.A. Sweet Shorty
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There is no way I would be with a man who was a cheater. Point blank! Somewhere down the line you allowed him to treat you like a doormat. If you really dont like it, then yes, bail out and get a divorce. You will need some serious counceling if you really want to change, otherwise it will be the same thing all over again with just a different man. Open your eyes from the beginning and state what you will and will not accept! Stick to it. YOU are the problem, not him.


jenna
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cheating always comes to no good-unless you have an open marriage-if you don't go for that arrangement- then it won't work and divorce or separate for awhile and see how things go! good luck


justthinkin
adultry is grounds for divorce. Leave him.

And You do not need to sleep around to prove a point.


?
Been there, done that, doesn't do anything except cause heartache. Just divorce this DOG!


suhpisis
WELL YOU JUST TALK TOO WHOEVER ON THE INTERNET
SHOULD YOU SLEEP WITH EM OR FORGET IT, SHOULD YOU SLEEP WITH EM OR YOUR HUSBAND ,,,,,,,,,,,.........................HA HA


flowerspirit2000
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...................................DDDDD...


black_caspa69
ditch tht mother fudger get you a man who loves you for who you are and wants to be close to you and is faithful


Spaghetti MY
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yes !!!

and

leave !!!


darkluke
divorce


Tatorbug
Well it sounds like you do need to just forget it; where is your self esteem girl!? I would just leave him (before he gives you AIDS or some other STD)

I would not advise you to just stay, your marriage evidently doesn't mean much to your husband or he wouldn't treat you like this.

There is a man out in the world that would treat you with love and respect; you'll never find him if you're still in this disfunctional relationship.

You need to love yourself before someone else can love you. So take a little time and get to know yourself again then pamper yourself because you deserve that

Then start your life down a new and better road


kmk2
marriage is all about love... and if you love someone then you wouldn't hurt them... and thats exactly what he's doing. That seems more of a high school relationship. Anyone who is cheated on is so much better than the cheater. DIVORCE! It may be hard at first because yall have been there together but it'll get better and easier!


david w
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If u r positive he cheated....Divorce him!


sharven777
never commit such mistake knowingly.


crownvic64
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Leave him and don't look back.no one should be treated like that ...........dude needs a bruisin'...........


cheesedog
tell him to stop cheating if you catch him anymore than divorce

remeber cheaters should never win





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