I am not "in love with "you, what does she mean?

St.Jeb

I have heard this line, it is nice way of telling him it is over...

pura_rosa

It means that the woman is not longer interested in her husband, that the marriage has come to it's end

wegg the scouser

she has someone else

glamour04111

that is the oldest line of sh** in the book. She is having an affair!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lee

it means she's cheating or thinking about cheating or watching to much dr phil/oprah/jerry springer

AuroraLn, LMT

You didn't mention how long they have been married.

Usually the 'I love you but I'm not in love with you' line leads to something along the lines of the woman no longer feeling that mad, passionate rush of desire when she felt when they first fell in love, but she still cares for him, still wants him to be happy, and doesn't want to hurt him.

If they have children, it could be along the lines of loving the man who gave her her children, whom she loves very much, but she no longer desires him personally.

I'd advise you friend to try to have his wife see her doctor, she may be depressed.

stefanieiam

It means she still loves and cares for him but that he's not "the one" anymore. She no longer has the passion for him, no butterflies, etc.

Ya, my girlfriend told me that she dumped me. It's basically just a polite way of saying I don't want to see your face again.

jay k

She does not love him. That's all that statement is, she cares about him but doesn't love him.

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MiMi Sugar

Apparentl;y she went into the marriage thinking it would always be roses. It is work on the part of both! Does she really know what love is ! would say no!!! If there are no children I suggest he get out now before ther are children. I love you but am not in love with you. I think she was in lust for him but now doesn't lust!!! There is really no good answer for this situation

jimmi g

the marriage is over!! time for that guy to pack it up and hit the road!! thats what she wants.

snowman

she loves him as a friend, she has another man that is messing with her emotions that she has falling in love with let her go she will find out the grass is not greener on the other side,this is what my ex-wife told me. its call cheating

ferochira

what it means is she cares cause they had a past and she does not wish to hurt him. But she no longer loves him, has no more intimate feelings for him, she wants her freedom......And with that being said, she should have a place ready to move too, and one foot already out the door, as that is a feeling one does not just "wake up with", it is a feeling one takes time to be sure of before, expressing. Now if there are marital or relationship possessions to be dealt with, then the partner in transit should be doing so from another location. Not trying to force the one being left out of the residence where the relationship to place. But this is not what most women do. So tell your friend to hold his ground, meaning to stay if his home, see a lawyer and get all further announcements and requests on record, till things are settled. Tell him to let her go, as hard as it may be, he can't keep what he does not have. Then be the best friend you know how to be.

rhiannon0913

The only one that can truly answer this question is her.

Generally speaking. She "likes" him but doesn't "love" him.

Bobby T

you can love and care about some one like a friend or family member .
but to be in-love that is to give your hole heart,and soul to only one man/women there is a big diff-rent's there
to be married to some one you should be in-love or it is not going to work
there is some one made for every man and women.
and he will haft to move on and find that person for him I know it is hard to do but it will happen

lonewolf

Rose M. Well there are different levels of love !We can love about anything, being "in love"brings about a sence of passion that the other fails to do. We want to breath their air or touch their hair and willing to stand before God,marry and say I swear !

You can love a sister or brother but to be in love is much different.

unionjackess

isn't that like...."its me, not you"

áƒ¦Krissyáƒ¦

She loves him as a friend but there is no passion for him anymore that sux I would stay out of it

tiuliucci

When someone says this, it means that the feelings that go along with a romantic relationship are not there. Usually they were never really there. Sometimes people think they are "in love" romantically with someone only to discover that they really feel like super close friends.

His wife loves him as she would a close friend, but not romantically as she would her husband. The marriage is over and your friend has no reason to wait. He should tell her that he would like her to file the divorce papers or he will. If he files the papers he can choose the reason for the divorce. If she files, she will choose the reason.

Take care,
Troy

csiders30

It means all women dont know what love is. Period.

she means she still cares about her husband but the spark has gone. she may care for him more like a friend rather than a lover. they need to talk and work through their problems, hopefully they can overcome it and get the spark back.

BabeHeart

She's no longer got romantic feelings for him. When the "in love" ends, typically the relationship does also...things run their course and perhaps it's just time for these two to part ways.

Your friend and his wife need to discuss the situation more, and what will be best for them to do.

Darby

It means he wants to have an affair with you. He's just paving the way by saying is marriage is on the rocks so it won't hurt for you and him to have a little fun. Watch out. If you like him, and he makes a move, say, no, not until you are divorced.

The Lost Elf

she loves some one else

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