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spadezgurl22
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if u didnt fufill him why would he put a ring on your finger? stop being so insecure he obivously loves y ou. |
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We Done Yet?
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I'm sorry, but that has nothing to do with it. My fiance is very beautiful, but even I am guilty of looking. But that's all it is, looking.
Best of luck to you |
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racermom
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If he is your fiance then he loves you. That does not however stop him from being human and humans look at other humans. |
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Tom A
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We all cannot be drop dead gorgeous, but if a person really loves you, they would not be interested in anyone else. To just look is human, whether male or female ... but should not be anything more than that. I really doubt that you are not attractive, just over critical of yourself .... send me a pic and I will tell you....smile |
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Like being a DINK
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Men look at women. It doesn't matter what they look like or what you look like. It's just their nature. |
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Alize J
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No that is not the reason your man might look at you when you dont notice especially in your sleep. People look the other way sometimes don't take it personal you have to be something that he's engaged to u and not the woman he looking at. Then sometimes men can be dogs!!! Just confront him with your problem and if he reallly loves you he will try to stop it |
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dorothea_swann
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A couple of points, honey. One, get it out of your head that you're not attractive. Unless your fiance is a masochist of the first order, why on earth did he ask you to marry him if he doesn't find you physically attractive?
Secondly, all straight men look at women. It's like a dog chasing a stick; pure reflex. I doubt he's even fully aware he's doing it.
Now stop worrying yourself sick, okay? |
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bluelitttt
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save yourself a lot of time and anger, get use to it, men will look at other women walk by every time, its a normal male thing |
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Khalil
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that's disrespectful but if you don't love yourself, I doubt he can. Make an avatar that looks like you so we can see what you look like |
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Anne C
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he could just be horny. |
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abbyjay
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well you got a fiance, he stick around cause he loves you, don't worry every men look a t every girl, some are just more discreat at it..And as if you don't peak a t hotter men....That is the law of nature. We all love to look....no harm there...cheer up honey your man loves you i'm sure... |
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abercrombie_babe_0788
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no, men look at women all the time. and women do it, too. its normal. just because he looks at others doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't think you are attractive anymore. if he wasn't attracted to you, you two wouldn't be engaged. |
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lawmom
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Even if you were Cindy Crawford, he'd look at other women. Men do that. They are dogs. |
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RCD
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All men look at women...regardless of age, looks..u r not alone in this world dear..some show it n some dont..not because they want to ...they just do it by natute.its as good as breathing for u. |
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henryredwons
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if you see him do this and it bothers you tell him it bothers you and that he should not do that in your face he is acting very cold |
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ever_amused
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Men look, it's the way they are. But he chose you.
Just a tip tho, they also find confidence attractive and hate feeling leashed. So relax and enjoy what you have! :) |
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lovely
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your man should make you feel like the most beautiful girl in the room, talk to him about it, you want to marry this man you should feel more secure. |
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insomniak32
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probably. plus he's most likely a wigger. |
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Suthern R
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It is a warning sign, he is still shopping. We look first, but when looking is not enough, we want to touch, then we want to hold and then we have to have. We being people not just guys like lawmom said. If he lusts with his eyes now, soon that will not be enough. As for lawmom, my wife blows Cindy away and neither her or you could get my eyes off of her. Nice try honey, but if all guys are dogs, I guess that would make you a female dog, huh? |
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basketcase88
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Like my husband says...
Just because I've already ordered doesn't mean I can't still glance at the menu!!!
Your fiance is attracted to you, and you obviously fulfill him, or he wouldn't have asked you to marry him. Guys look at women.....that's what they do. If they don't look, they're gay.
I'm more concerned about how you see yourself. It's hard to love someone who doesn't love themselves. Please do some work on your self-image, there's obviously something about you that your fiance finds very attractive. Very few of us are super models, however that doesn't make us less worthy of our husbands love and respect. |
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superbad~honeydip
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Attractive or not, It is very disrespectful of him. Everyone is beautiful in their own way, and whether you or him think you are attractive or not, someone does. You need to think about this- he is supposed to be the one you spend the rest of your life with- he should be more considerate of your feelings. Also, do you think you can put up with this the rest of your life?????? |
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elaeblue
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Nope he's just a dawg! |
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mandy
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I think we all look at others, some look more, some less. But it is very rude when one does that constantly while he/she with the significant one. Especially if he/she start drooling! No one, both guys and girls, like the boyfriend/girlfriend drooling at others. In your case, it depends on how he made you feel and it also depends on your personality. Are you an insecure person, over jealous? Is he a womanizer? How does he look at others? Did he do things in the past that would made you feel insecure?...etc All this has to take into account then you can start to figure out if what he did is wrong for you. |
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NONAME
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If he looks at every woman that walks by he sounds like a disrespectful person, and a dog. |
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Nicki
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No there is nothing wrong with you, I have never seen any man no matter who they are with, they check ever female that passes. Just a man that is all, don't you do a little looking at all of them, I do. If you don't look you might miss the best looking man in the world or it may make you proud of the one you have chosen. There is no harm looking if that is all he does, he's just like everyone else , when you have to worry is when he stops looking , he guilty of doing. |
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utob
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Sounds like he needs to be taught to respect You. Next time You catch him ogling some bimbo, when You get home, tease him and don't give him anything. If he keeps on disrespecting You, he may need some discipline... |
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Point
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Nah, just being human... Can look in the window, but dont touch the glass....
Dont tell me youve never sneaked a peak at other men before.. ---------, I wont tell.... ;-) |
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Kim
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He finds you attractive, but also finds the beauty in others. Nothing wrong with that as long as he isn't getting fulfilled anywhere else. |
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db14
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Try not to be insecure. It is natural to look and it has nothing to do with you. He loves you. Your insecurities could lead to pushing him away.
You know that communication is one of the keys to a good marriage. You can develop healthy communication by telling him how you feel. Remember that when you do, be NICE and non-judgemental. So he feels safe talking to you. |
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