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I am now in a deep affair with the married woman I met at the Oreck Vacuum cleaner store. Should I cut & run?
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I am now in a deep affair with the married woman I met at the Oreck Vacuum cleaner store. Should I cut & run?

We are both married, very much into each other and actually can't get enough of each other.

What I am asking is should I stop this right now and keep this a life secret? Go on like nothing ever happened? What I am thinking is that the damage is already done so why stop now. What do you think?

This is my first affair and not sure how to handle this situation. She is not that unhappy in her marriage but has fallen in love with me.

What now? HELP!!!!!!!!!
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pennylanegal
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If you love and value your marriage you should stop the affair immediately. In some cases honesty is not the best policy. Telling your wife would only lead to more trouble. Perhaps you and your wife should enter counseling and find out why you entered into this illicit affair in the first place. I would never end all the years and hard work I put into a marriage for an affair that will probably lead nowhere.


Priek
Why not ask your wife or her husband?

I'm sure they could give you a better answer than any of us, I mean, we don't actually know you.


jungljn
So were you buying your wife a vacuum? Your a moron. And really? Do you actually think your in love with your real partners?


Marina
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Do your spouses a favor and get divorced. You don't love your wife, she doesn't love her husband. Maybe you two deserve one another.


JackO07
obviously Oreck Vaccum's fault. sue them..they ruined your perfect marriage...but really, this is bad news. face the music and let the chips fall where they may...better now than later. it won't be fun


questioning
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affairs never last. i say found out what your really missing from your marrigae. Get counseling


♥
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You are scum and she is a slooooot. You deserve each other. I hope you two end up together and cheat on each other!


immagirlygirl
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Your right the damage IS done. You obviously do not love your wife or else you would not have cheated. I say you should do your wife a favor and get a divorce. She definitely deserves to have husband who loves and respects her. Don't you agree that she deserves better treatment than what your giving her? Do the right thing and tell your wife of the affair.


ladywetherell23
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I would stop it before your wife cheats on you and that is if she isnt doing it now.


BFFE♥
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Okay well your in deep deep deep quick sand and i think you should do the right thing and tell your wife. Your wife will probably be mad and you'll probably regret telling her, but you'll feel better knowing that you told her.

Answer this question before you decide what to do ... do you love your wife enough to leave the other women?
Or do you love the other women more than or wife ?

Well Good luck in whatever you decide!


hushnowjustplayit
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Leah
You both may want to divorce your spouses, because if and when it is found out it'll be disasterous. You both obviously don't value your spouses you may want to just end your marriages because even if you end this affair, until it is resolved in the marriage why you stepped out it'll happen again.


Shorty84
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You're asking, but you already know what you should do. If you don't want to be with your wife, be honest about it. If you do want to be with your wife, be with her and only her. It's eating you up inside and will just be a constant stress and worry until you make a move.


7 of 9
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I think you should make a clean sweep of things and dust that women out of your hair. This could only lead to more deception, and more cob webs that need to be removed with a duster. Oh what webs we weave, when we practise to decieve. Vaccume her out of your life, before things get too dusty.


Kay
Stop now, and if you believe that you wil never do this again, don't tell her. It will hurt more to know the truth.

If you feel that you are not ashamed of your actions and could do this again, you need to leave her. She deserves to be in a loving marriage, and you obviously aren't being satified and need something different as well.


Elizabeth
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Most of the time in affairs when you think you are in love with the other person most of the time you are actualy in love with the trill of getting away with it. I can tell you from experience if you keep flirting with this thrill you will get cought even if you are slick enough to lie your way out of it with your wife you will still get cought. You have had your fun now you should end it unless you want this woman over your wife. It is a lot easier then most people are willing to admit to have an affair and then end it and never really think about it again. Most people are scared to admit that its that easy to just leave it in the past and you probably wont ever kiss your wife and find your self in a guilt stricken moment and confess everything. Write it off in your mind as a mistake that will never happen again and forgive your self. Honestly you havent hurt your wife yet because she doesnt know. Make sure that you end it and end it for good or you will. No harm done untill the other knows about it... Seriously ... Email me if you want to talk about the situation I dont mind sharing my experiences with someone else to help them better there relationship :) >...


momoftwo
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Tell your wife you want to go to counceling. You and your wife make appointments to go together as husband and wife and then to go separate.

Never go back to the vacuum store again and never call, e-mail, etc the other woman again.


BabeHeart
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What goes around, comes around...I wouldn't want your or her karma. Enjoy yourself...chances are down the road you're not going to feel it was worth it.


hazel_chica
CUT AND RUN!!!! THIS IS ONLY GOING TO CAUSE ALOT OF PAIN AND DRAMA!!!


kandi
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Larry. Why were you at the vacume cleaner store instead of your wife? Do you stay home and do all the housework while your wife works? It seems to me that you have alot of time on your hands. Also, why did you find it imporatant to let us readers know it was at a oreck store? Very interesting......Your wife will more than likely kick your ***, divorce you or both when she finds out! She WILL find out, they always do. You are messin' with fire larry, but you already know that. You know the right thing to do so do it!! You better stop being such a bad, bad, bad boy Larry! Darn you Larry. Get back to work!! Kandice


loving girl
well i don wanna hurt ur feelings
but seriously if both of u get much in this affair then the result will be WHAT?
both of u r married and well-settled with ur families
and by doing this will be of NO USE
as u cant get marry even
then why to fall in love
why to see a dream that can never be ever get fulfilled....
so better u just leave that
and enjoy the life as much as u can with ur family..........


queenb357
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Get out NOW before both your spouses find out - and they will!!


KJ
hey, i need a vacuum cleaner. i dropped and broke the last one. any decent one for sale?


Bird
I was going to answer this, but then thought I really don't care... you sound kind of arrogant. Good luck.


mollosaurausxxx
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You obviously sem uncertain that you are doing the right thing and that is a good sign. It means you know you are doing wrong but hey love doesn't always work the way you want it to. To settle your worries I suggest you propose this to your woman:
You leave him or I leave you.
Because you are obviously worried and nervous. You just need them to be over so you two can be a couple so get on with it. Tell her she needs to break up with her man. She will and then you guys can be a couple in the open. I'm not going to tell you to break up with her because I know that you lvoe her and why break up true love?

So hurry up and call her now because otherwise your going to do something you regret.

Hope this Helps!!


Zac
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The vacuum store huh? Thanks for the tip.


I think too much? ....Maybe!
you either want to be together or not. you cantplay with your families like that. you should have a serious talk. decide if its worth being together or not. decide if you both want divorces. if not, let it go. or you will end up with nothing in the end when they find out.





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