I believe divorce is a sin !! dont you ?

â™«kanis.lupusâ™«

Why even bother posting a question if it is simply a platform to preach & flame from? Before posting on this topic you may want to switch the brain into gear. I personally stayed in a marriage for 7 yrs, even though I was my ex-wifes punching bag (a fact my former pastor new about but NOTHING about) - os am I a sinner for finally divorcing her then???

Consider yourself reported bud!

finalfrontier1976

So when a relative of mine was being used as a punchbag by her husband I should have said "no don't divorce him, stick with it and work it out, he'll change".

Fat chance, if divorce is called for then go and be happy somewhere else. You've one life, live it don't stay in a marriage where you're both or one of you is very unhappy its not worth it and you'll regret it if you leave it too long before you go.

profanitypeaches

wait until your spouse batters you into within an inch of your life, keeps you prisoner in your own home, insults you day and night and physically abuses your children. Then ask that same question, you absolute loser. If your reasons are based on religion then thats a slightly different tack.

don't be judgemental. At the end of the day we all make mistakes, and unless you are God you have no right to cast these narrow minded views.

Eyes of Green

no why be miserable until death.

colin050659

Well thats 5 sins to take with me

Fader's Girl

no i dont, if a couple aint happy and are bringing each other down and also no longer love eachother i belive divorce should be considered so they can find someone and live a happy loving life with them.

Royalhinney

No, I don't. I cannot believe for one second that God would want anyone to live in an abusive situation, or one that is unhealthy for children, or living with a spouse that uses drugs.

Need_to_know

absolutely not, and i guess you will never know why till it happens to you really, so i cant even begin to explain why.

Lotus

I believe wasting your life in an abusive or unhappy marriage is a sin.

bagmouss

It's sad how religion rules peoples lifes.

csm

if your being abused, no its not.

kik

i don't think so.

divorce is a personal's right. it's not a sin.

but cheating on,is a sin,if u are divorce because u are cheating on your couple,so that's a sin.

noambition

No, I believe getting married to someone you are not totally sure about is a "sin". Actually I think the whole institution of marriage is archaic and lame.

cfalways

Are you serious? then you need to be a woman in an abusive relationship. your views on divorce will change dramatically. you need to do more research (i.e. the bible) before you go stating things like that. by the way...thanks for the points.

eagledreams

Oh dear oh dear......oh dear,,,,,,,,

zifi1957

I think it's a sin that you and people like you think you have a right to judge another's life and decisions ..... you seem to think that by holding the bible in one hand you have the right to weald the sword of damoclese in the other ..... last time I heard - only God (if you believe in him) has that right ......
Oh and by the way, if there really is a God - how come he allows all the nasty people who do all the nasty things to other people that make people want to escape a marriage - get divorced - to carry on?

Linden W

Do you know anything of marriage, or do just REALLY dislike married people? Divorce isn't a sin, it's what people do when their partner is cheating on them, or abusing them or thing like that. So, I suggest you learn more about marriage and divorce before you criticize them.

ebonycubed

i dont think so

Rissa

I personally don't think divorce is a sin because everyone deserves to be happy and if your not happy with that person anymore then you shouldn't be with them!!!

Lalalala

I'm not so sure that it is a sin...but I do believe divorce is wrong!

Too many people don't stick things out nowadays and think the quick solution is just to get a divorce. My parents have been married 31 years and I would like to follow their example and have a long happy marriage.

I do however think divorce is okay in cases of domestic violence, adultery etc...when one partner has broken their marriage vows and something unforeseen by the other partner before they got married.

goldlust74

has your wife divorced you? is that why you are so bitter?

ligsy

no! why ruin your life by being unhappy and making someone else unhappy!! what a sh@t situation to be stuck in!!

becca_2

LETS SEE YOU BROUGHT UP ABUSIVE PARTNERS..... WOULD YOU RATHER THE WOMAN LEAVE HER HUSBAND ALIVE OR DEAD? I WOULD RATHER SEE HER ALIVE.
AND IT IS A SIN TO CHEAT ON YOUR SPOUSE TO BEAT YOUR SPOUSE AND IF YOUR NOT HAPPY IN THAT RELATIONSHIP YOU WILL GO ELSE WHERE... SO WHAT IS WORSE COMMITTING ONE SIN OR A FEW?

zxcpoi

I dont.

serenity113001

I think that staying in a bad marriage when you could both be better off without each is a sin.

no I dont x

adnama_n_werd

i dont really think it is a sin but i believe it is wrong. my man and i talk all the time about how once we are married no matter wat that is it. to us there is no such thing as divorce.

Valentina P

No ... you should be able to choose the way you live. If you're not happy with your marriage, then your spouse probably isn't either. Don't you think it's better to get a divorce and give you both a second chance?

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