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Tourang B
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It's normal for men to flirt (even ladies do that sometimes). Go ahead and flirt. When you feel like you are crossing the line, think what if!!!! what if your wife was doing that...what if your wife met a guy and she started to flirt and eventually cross the line?....
I think your problem is that you don't think about your kid who will be hurt for the rest of his or her life because his daddy couldn't control himself. And you don't think about your wife who has put so much of her life and has sacrificed so much to be the mother of your children. If you can think all that then you won't cheat.
I am a man and I know sometimes it's hard to think about all that but always keep your morals high and stick to high standards and you will never regret it. If you let yourself get low and get into the gutters, you will never be able to raise your head again. Your choice. |
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gypsyveg
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You like to be the center of attention. It strokes your ego and makes you feel better about yourself. But it's such a 'short term' fix that you have to repeat the behavior often. |
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Anne
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You're insecure. Go to therapy before your destroy your family. |
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Allison
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if you know you will cheat... then why do you stay married? let your wife go and let her find a real man. |
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fanella
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at a guess i would say you let your balls rule your brain |
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BigMomma2
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What is it with you men cant you be happy with the wife you have got. A lot of it is the thrill of the chase once you get the other woman your not that bothered.
Go get yourself a useful hobby or something start showing your wife a bit of loving attention and get into the real world not this fantasy you are setting yourself up for. |
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Violet Pearl
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You're immature |
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tattylashes
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your a self centered lying sneak....that's what you are...i hope she finds out.....oh and by the way...if you going out getting laid....think about what the missus is doing while your not there, I'm sure she wont get bored for too long....she could be doing the same as you....lying and cheating...lets hope it's not with one of your Best mates...haaaa that should be funny....loser, don't think for one minute that she's bothered....coz she ain't.........what goes round...comes round.... |
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KeysGirl
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Dunno what your problem is but let me help you with your spelling.
Ladies
Cheat |
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RedRabbit
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Go seek some help and start taking cold showers. |
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billyssexysingle
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Your a pig and your on here looking for someone to go ohhh poor baby and let you know that its ok. WELL its not. If your not happy with the woman you are with then leave her but pls wake up and smell the roses. Does she really deserve to be with someone like you who is waiting for someone to say that its ok? I think the best thing you can do for her is to tell her the truth and then walk away. |
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LYNDA M
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the problem is you,why dont you grow up and start thinking about youre wife and kids,cmon its not that hard is it. |
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Rocky
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What is your problem? Flirting is no big deal. But if you know that you would cheat if given the chance then your problem is simple: little or no morals. |
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gary j
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You r like a dog with two *****! say no more. |
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wolf14771
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Perhaps you should try marriage counseling. Maybe you are looking at other women because you are not happy in your own marriage. |
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deniseywalker
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What is your problem; man you sound like you just want be out there as a "player" and getting tired of the "husband" role. Look, at this point in your life; if you know you will cheat; please give your wife the truth and let the relationship go before you really break her heart which she doesn't deserve. She deserve to know the truth much as you being a man and telling her. I can't stand a cheat nor a liar. You have kids but you sure aren't thinking of anyone but yourself and that is your problem. You're selfish and you need to grow up and take responsibility.
Remember an old saying "If you can't stand the heat; stay out of the kitchen"? Well, if you can't stand being a father and husband then get a divorce! Either you grow up and be a man and take care of your responsibility or get out but give your wife the respect of getting a divorce before you go out and do something stupid!
When you got married and had kids; you have to realize that the marriage isn't about you anymore. It is about your wife and kids. It has stopped being about you the day you said "I DO". So be a man and either take care of your responsibility or get out and let someone else do the job you should have done.
It's your choice now! |
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Specialkid
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You are sooooooo stupid Terrance grow up and stop being so damn immature. You never should have gotten married if you wasn't going to be a good husband. Keep disrespect my sister and she is going to leave you for Kell |
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Lulu
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Have you ever done a thorough and searching moral inventory? Have you gotten down to causes and conditions? Have you thought about what would you do/feel if your wife were doing the same things that you are doing? How would it feel if your children were to get married and one day your child came to you and said "dad, my spouse constantly flirts with other people and I think/know they might be/are cheating on me?" Maybe time has come to do a self-evaluation and look at the basic principle of why you got "married" and started a family to begin with.......alot of people have told me they know what "love" is.....alot of peole have told me they don't know what a "family" is......personally I kinda know about both but the kind of love "love" between a man and a woman that you decide to spend the rest of your life together and take vows before "God and Man" those kind of feelings and actions I have yet to experience.
A number of times I have experienced feelings that could have been eventually developed to that situation but eventually I realized there was a lot that I simply wasn't looking at or didn't know. I know what it is to be alone and unhappy. I know what it is to be alone and happy. I now know what it is to just be me...
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Deep Thought
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Plow all of that lustful energy back into your wife. Two things happen:
1. You'll burn that energy off, keeping you from cheating
2. You're wife will thank you. |
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sun s
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any problems at home...whats going on in your bedroom at home...be truthful with yourself |
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dawnb
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Well then whatever your age, you haven't grown up enough to understand the commitment you have made. A real man takes the appropriate steps to insure he keeps his family intact unless there is abuse. |
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renishaweeden
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your problem is your wife needs to beat you! and your a dog! |
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snowchickmn
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If you were a good looking guy that maybe a problem, if Lady's around you likes to flirt with you...but think about your family! Remember, it is OK to look but do not touch, it will destroy your family. don't let that happened...be matured enough to stay away through the temptations... |
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want2b_wthu
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maybe your wife isnt giving you the attention you need ..
i dont know the situation but ...i know that sometimes women
forget about whats more important "THE HUSBAND"..i know
because i have been married for 20 yrs and the kids are first
and so my husband has cheated and i have too but all in all here we are still hanging on but the problem is comunication so talk to your wife and let her know that you have needs and the kids are always going to need something if she dont respond then well i give you permission to "cheat" lol and jk |
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!~!~Edward~!~!
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Before you know it, your wife and kids will be gone and you will be completely alone. You are risking your relationship and your family. As that really what you want? You need to look at what is important and how much it means to you. Good luck man. You are your own worst enemy. |
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kc
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i dont see a problem |
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Ellie
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I would say you have very little love or respect for your wife or for yourself. |
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I like it hardcore!
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im just the same...its crap....aint found what my problem is...but wish i wasnt like this |
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