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FRANKFUSS
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Dude, it's already done. Wake Up! |
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bgee2001ca
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It is ruined, believe me. |
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Israel's Angel
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I don't think I would want 2 be with him either.....it takes 2,u can't just blame her 4 what both of them did> |
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tgrx
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uhhhh?!! what? your relationship is ruined. Your fiance cheated on you.. Not you on them. what part of that don't you understand. |
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Shawneese W
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to be honest there is no way to patch that up. i'd leave obviously you can't trust him. so why even bother with trying to marry him. there is too many guys out there to pout over one. |
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The bitter wife
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He cheated its already ruined. Dump him & move on. |
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USA
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Dump them both |
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Joe C
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Do you really think it isn't ruined? Why would you consider going on with him? |
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Brandie H
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WHAT?!? You want to make sure you can still get it on...picture this...next time you are doing it...he could be picturing her! |
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Legandivori
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It's already ruined. He'll do it in marriage, so don't go there, Lots of good fish in the sea. tough on him! |
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Turtle
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WHAT?! |
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SuZy-Q
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I'm pretty sure your romantic relationship is ruined already. That totally bluws your trust for him, and without trust, you can't have a good relationship. |
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Kay
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Frankly, I don't think there is anything you can do. You didn't do the cheating, but you may have very well lost a good friend. Your fiance was the one engaged, not your best friend.
If you stay, make sure you know why you're staying. If it is because you don't want to be embarrassed, that's not a good enough reason.
Good luck. |
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cristine d
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Be thankful if she cheated you as early you are not yet marriage. How do you think how painful it is if she does it when you got marriage already?
It's up to you when you love her more and ready to forgive her, go for her and then fight for your love.
But if you can not? Junk her find another new? |
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moonchild
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It already is. When you are engaged to be married that means that I am promising to be true to you and only you. Your best friend doesn't think of you as a best friend, sad. I don't see how you can trust either one of them ever again : ( |
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blondgirl324
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Ask her why she cheated. |
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Ol' Sasquatch
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I would let it go and find another. You will never be able to trust them again, ever! Dump your lover and your best fiend. Neither are worth your time. Unless you both like threesomes! Personally, I cannot do that!
These are the thoughts of a 700+ year old Sasquatch.
TOS Ü
Good luck! |
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Bert
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I am so sorry, but if he cheated on you, chances are, he will do it again, it's best to get out of this relationship before you marry him, look to God for your strenght.....Jesus loves you |
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deebo
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you left the wrong person. if she can cheat you with your best mate, what about the next regular dude?
If you want to work on it, it will take time son...a relationship is nothing without trust, unless you just wanna shag her, but still you best dude popped that cherry.... |
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nursecracker
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OMG.. you are kidding? you're actually going to take him back? it was NOT any less his fault than your friend's fault.
he's a cheater.. run!!!! |
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love
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since trust was broken the relationship is as well. I know it hurts I am going through something similar and you can bet trust is the hardest thing to get back once it is gone. remember if the other person is not willing to end the other relationship or is not truly sorry then don't stay. Sometimes it wasn't meant to be, but that doesn't mean that someone isn't waiting for you to be there one and only love of their life, who will love honor, trust, and commit to fully with every part of them. Love is the hardest most wonderful thing a person will ever experience, but like will hurt and make you cry. just think what do you want and need? sometimes what your heart wants isn't what is needs. Good Luck
If you would like to let me know how things go Dgirlx0x0@yahoo.com |
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epic2515
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Well, i'm sorry to hear the your fiance did that to you. For starters you we're right to end things with your so called best friend. She will only do it again and if she was your friend she woudn't have done that to you in the first place. As for your fiance, I feel once someone cheats on you it kind of breaks that trust, I know for me, and it happened before, I didn't feel the same way about that person and everything went down hill after that and I ended it.
I would said break it off with your fiance as hard as it maybe, but if he's doing that to you now, he will do it again in the future and then it will be harder for you to leave. As much as you like to think you could forgive(and it might be true) you will never forget and in the back of your mind you will always wonder if and when he would do it again.
At least don't rush to get married and let him gain your trust back, cause if you do take him back, he will think your a push over and that if he did it again, you'll take him back. Think about it, you deserve to be happy now and in the future. |
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Goodspeed
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to late...she already cheated...its been compramised...she is sloppy seconds from here on out... |
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Howie
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Are you a masochist? Do you LIKE pain? If so, get married to this bum before he changes his mind; and while you are at it, kiss and make up with your best friend...letting him know it is totally cool to screw around with the man you intended to spend the rest of your life with--no problem!
Where do you find friends like these? Is your self-esteem THAT low, where you put up with this kind of evil from people who are supposed to be there for you, and have a level of trust that you would not expect from others in the world?
Check out some of the other answers to your question, and get a clue! Your fiance HAS ALREADY ruined the romance in your relationship, and if it WERE to be brought back, it would be up to HIM to figure out a way to make that happen! Stop blaming yourself for the sins of others.
But most of all, just know that if you were ever to forgive either one of these "friends & lovers", they will most assuredly do something like this to you again, given the chance. And the chances are always there.
As much as you may love him, come to know that you diserve better than this from a life partner. Then go find him. |
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TABBY
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Sounds to me like your husband and your best friend already ruined it for you. Move on |
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David B
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if that didnt ruin it nothing will. |
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April
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And you wish to go on ahead and marry this guy, why???? See a shrink, sweetie... But then this is one of those joke questions. Thanks for the laugh. |
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Farnsy
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get rid of the fiance |
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wrensnest
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you didn't say if you are male or female but if you caught your fiance cheating before the wedding better to find out now than later. if he/she did it now what makes you think he/she won't do it after you are married? RUN DON'T WALK away from that loser. if you get married you are in for a lot of heartbreak. DON'T marry this one. |
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IKnowStuff
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Well, FIRST you have to OPEN YOUR EYES!
C'mon!
Let me Get the Question Straight, OK?..
You caught the person you were suppossed to Marry,Trust, Love and Respect, For the Rest of your (and their) natural Lives, CHEATING with your BEST FRIEND (?), and you want to Know HOW to MAKE SURE your "Romantic" Relationship ISN'T OVER?????
Well, I guess the ONLY way to DO that, is to LIE to Yourself!
The Romance (and Marriage) are over Baby!
Oh! And your "Best Friend"? Maybe you ought to make Best Friends with something more prone to be "Loyal"...Like a Snake perhaps?
"WHATEVER DOSEN'T KILL YA, MAKES YA STRONGER!"
(Sorry for the Reality...But you'll Survive, Honest!) |
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kat1977
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please please please don't marry this guy...find someone who truly vlues you...if he is cheating now and you accpet that behaviour he will alwways do it...forget about that girl too bc she's not a friend.believe me I've been a situation like this before and the results are never good...a mans behaviour before he gets married is just a preview of what he will be like when you are married...a man should be on his best behaviour before you get married and showing you that you can trust him...true love never lies or cheats |
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