I cheated on my girlfriend and i want to marrie her should i tell her r act like it never happend?

Zombie Lust

If I were you I would tell her about it and be honest. Because what if she finds out from the person you cheated on her with that would make it worse. When you go into a marriage you have to be honest. Then you can see if you can work from there dont marry if you have these horrible secrets that you have to lie about. You owe it to her to be truthful

SabriJ

I think that you should tell her even though everything between you too wont be the same.You should tell her anyways because its better that she finds out from you than somebody else. And if you purpose maybe 2 days later after you tell her this will help to let it sink in then you might get a better reaction from her maybe even her forgiving you for what you did. But answer this question wouldnt you want your girlfriend to be totally honest with you?

Tiffany

If you get married and do not give her the chance to react to you cheating....it will HAUNT you forever!! Imagine how she will feels when she finds out on her own....WHICH she will!! Women always do....be honest...tell the truth!!

writerboy69

The question you need to ask yourself is this: "What do I accomplish by telling her?" If you are doing it to clear your conscience at the expense of hurting her, I'm not sure that's the best course of action. As it stands now, she's ignorant of the situation and, as they say, ignorance is bliss. Telling her would only hurt her. The bigger issue here, though, is why you cheated. I'd look into that before you decide to marry her.

Happyone

You should tell her to let her know what you did to keep it real with her and go from there.

gigglez

i think u should tell her, ur gonna marry her soon or later she going to find out and if yall love is strong then yall get over it!! B HONEST

Milton Egbert

tell her, its not fair for you or her,the guilt will eat you alive and you wil become sick.

angib18

You'd better tell her and hope she still wants you. If she finds out after you are married, it's going to be a LOT worse.

Weirded Out

If you're even asking this question, deep down you feel like you should tell her.

BACKSEAT R

Tell her the truth then let her go cheat on you... at least then she has the chance of meeting a real man.

I would answer but I would first like to know did you cheat once, twice, one girl, several etc.

If you cheated more than once and/or with more than one gal then I would not even marry at this point your not ready!

If it was only once and you have hated yourself since then, then yes tell her but don't ask her to marry you until several weeks later. She will need to process this news and deal with it. you could lose her over this but I can tell you as a happily married man honesty is key!

jt51502004

I hope she dumps your illiterate azz

wickedwayz

You cheated on your girlfriend. Clearly, you are not ready for a lifetime commitment to her....yet anyway. If you are truly sorry for what you did, just let it go. Don't tell her and never do it again. No good can come from her knowing that you cheated. It will only hurt her and you can't change it. If there is a possibility that she will find out on her own, then you're screwed and being up front is probably best, otherwise leave it alone.

Kyle Hall

your going to have to tell her eventually, you might as well tell her now

davionmw

ok, if the person you cheated with can tell on you, you should tell right away, if not just forget it and live and love your girl, don't cheat again, ok

rebeccadoylered

if u feel like it is the right thing to do u should tell her

browneyes27

why do you want to marry her? there is no excuse for cheating. well you have to tell her if you want to marry her. she would be living a lie if she didn't know what you did. if you love her enough to marry her then you should tell her. frankly she probably won't trust you now. you shattered that trust. trust is a very fragile thing. once it has been broken its hard to get back but not impossible. trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship. i see you don't have respect for her. where was your consideration for her when you cheated?

dappersmom

you should do her a favor and not marry her if you cant even be faithful before the wedding. but since its too late for that you should tell her because if somehow she finds out later she will feel like her entire life is a lie and thats even more wrong than what you already did. plus you are asking her to make a life changing decision without giving her all the facts and thats wrong too. fess up and take your chances its the only right thing to do.

hunter

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NO

NO

NO

You get it off your chest, then what? How could telling help?

Do you want to spend the rest of your life with her, forsaking all others?

Are you ready to make a serious commitment?

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suprmodl5

Tell her...and if she forgives you and trusts you enough to marry you, marry her. If she denies you....your fault

zzzzz

she cheated on you too. don't tell her until she tells you first..

alter_tygo

if you want to marry her, don't tell her. carry the guilt all by yourself, and DON'T do it again.

not sure why you want to get married, though. doesn't sound like YOU are ready.

Lucinda

if it was a while ago forget it dont hurt her now but if it was recenetly I dont think you should marry her youre not ready

John G

Tell her, from expirience it will eat at you until you do eventualy anyway, so do it now. If she can't forgive you, then she never loved you to begin with.

Dolphin lover

Never start a marriage with lies. Fess up then give her space, because if she finds out after, she will never be able to trust you again.

Honesty is always the best policy.

Mickey

No!!!! U need to talk to ur girlfriend and tell her the truth.
Thats just crap.

ksjazzguitar

If there is ANY chance of her EVER finding out then you HAVE to tell her.

If there is no chance of her ever finding out, and you have matured enough to where you will never cheat again, then you can probably forget about it.

If you haven't addressed the reason why you cheated, then you need to work on that.

Constantina Crespighi

Tell her. She will hate you if you don't. She might still marry you, but she might not be able to marry someone who cheated on her.

lori b

well if you cheated on her then no dont get married because you dont really love her if you did you wouldnt have cheated.why did you?thats not right.you did wrong big time.go tell her what you did.

victor e

If u want a happy marige always be honest with her.

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