I dont know why..?

insenergy

you need someone to listen to you and most times he dosent..... you feel the things he has said in the past will still be the same as the things he says now..... its all the same emotions you feel usually no matter what comes out of his mouth, try holding your tongue and count to 10 next time you have something negative to say and replace it with something positive instead (even if you have to pretend or be sarcastic and humorous) smile and hold your head up high, he will soon notice this kind of change in you and react positively to it also..... ( it is a two way thing remember )

cawecm

Maybe you are bored and missing out on something in your relationship. Do you talk about anything? Are the two of you growing distant?

Angel sent from heaven

Hun find someone who cares about you.it sounds like hes not the one for you.i say get out while you still can. good luck

marckendrick1975

female gene, it happens

Rabbit Ritto

Learn to keep your mouth shut. As you get older and have been in a long relationship you learn what you want to expend your energy on. Just let stuff go.

locolady98

Only you can answer that question. When you catch yourself about to make a petty comment, take a deep breath, count to ten, and think about why. Try to stop it before it comes out. If necessary, walk out of the room, and come back in a few minutes after you've calmed yourself down. Maybe go for a walk around the block.

nahimana34

Maybe it is your way of avoiding what is really bothering you about the relationship. A way to distract yourself from dealing what you are really thinking or feeling or something he is doing is making you suspiscious......just a thought.

purplepeople8ers

You don't love this partner. You are just used to each other. You are with the wrong person. End it now before it is too late.

latina311204

Maybe you were raised with family that argued all the time and this maybe a way to show you care by being passive-aggressive. Maybe you want his attention and feel the only way to get it is by having drama in your relationship.

queen sheba

you sound like your self esteem is low .and by arguing it might make you feel just abit better if you can knock his ego down .chin up and smile & .smile.try finding out why you self esteem is so down.all the best

terry j

stop acting your SHOE SIZE.

seeking

you are probably upset about something unhappy about a past situation, argument, etc,. subconsciously we may feel a way about something or the person and we tend to act on it sometimes, not know why until you think for a minute and remeber how this person affected us before or something they did or said in the past or something you are blaming him for?. another reason could be PMSing (LOL)

or

your own insecurities sometime even jealously or envy of a person. not say you do !!! but, however you look at this matter all of your behavior comes from you. You have to figure out,why?
and look at your history.

silhouette

Don't know, must be your personality. Too bad as you're wasting a lot of valuable time. Life is short and if you really love him, you'd stop doing this as you're cheating yourself and him of quality time in a sad world............

Danette

B/c sometime we women test our men to see how much they loves us so we start for no reason but beware b/c one day you may start and he may get tired of it and leave!

teeth hoover

Give the guy a break - stop and think before you pick a fight with him the next time. I went out with a guy years ago and he constantly did the same with me and it destroyed me. It was awful. Maybe you and him need to break up??

special1

because you are unhappy about certain things in your relationship but are afraid to tell him what is really bothering you in a straight honest way.

stargirllll4311

You are dissatisfied with some other aspect of your relationship. You have yet to come to a satisfactory conclusion about that other issue, so you subconsciously find other things to voice your irritation about. You need to get to the bottom of the real issue.

bluez

hormone imbalance.

shae

your insecure, pay attention to when you normally start arguments look for a pattern. Once you identify the pattern you can focus on fixing it.

BabeHeart

There's an underlying reason and you need to discover what it is...it'll having nothing to do (probably) with the topic of the fights, but the reason you pick them in the first place...do it quick, before he gets tired of arguing and seeks out someone who's more enjoyable to be around...

berry

He's not for you.

CreoleGirl

you have some issues that you have not resolved. talk to a therapist and find out why you are self-destructing your relationship. good luck

~Gate~

Because something is causing this personality to come out and instead of facing and fixing the problem your channeling your frustration into just being crabby all the time.
Figure out what it is that's bothering you and fix it.

minerva

you have low self-esteem and are pushing his buttons to see how far you can go and him still love and want you. everyone has a limit and this little girl game has more to do with your childhood than your relationship. try EFT www.eft-talk.com

Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse

you have a anger problem and need to control it somehow.get some help..

SuperJenn

Sounds like you might be insecure about something, though what, I can't tell you since I don't know you. Look within yourself and hopefully you will see the answer.

American Werewolf

You both need some space and time for yourselves.

bertleeboy

People say if you argue with someone you really care about them, arguing is healthy debate, dont try to let people tell you its bad. Obviously there can be bad arguments such as when fighting starts, but you'll know the difference

superf

you have a low self esteem and want to be reassured that he likes you . you will drive him away if you really like him..he will be confused and think that your picking fights means the opposite to how you really feel.Just relax a little and enjoy his company and remember why you liked him in the first place. dont let past experiences ruin your chance of a good relationship with this man

cutegorgy

You sound like my woman...

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