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Muffin Ann
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This is not good, and I believe that You know that, You would just like to have it validated. So I am validating it for You. You teach People how to treat You. You have to sit Him down and tell Him that You believe in Your vows, but You need him to honor them as well. It is like drawing a line in the sand, and saying if You cross this, it is over. And He crosses it. So you draw another line, knowing that there is no way that He would cross that one, but He does. So You just keep drawing them, and He just keeps crossing it. Tell Him that You want to get Counseling, You will find out real quick what His intentions are. Demand More for Yourself. If You are afraid of His reaction, have Someone there with You, but possibly in another room, just in case.
Be Strong, and Follow Through. God Bless |
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Mindee
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Your husband never came home one night? I wonder where he slept. He sounds like a despicable human being. You wouldn't want a friend with his qualities, so why tolerate a husband with these habits and dispositions?
Get a divorce. |
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countrykarebare
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If your not happy in the relationship with the liar,cheater,drunken
stayingout all night.Just leave him. |
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cowboy
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Divorced and happy is better than miserable |
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demon_hunter_ illidan
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do the same to him. don't go home for about a day. when asked you why and where did you go, answer the way he did ( if you have the guts) but if you can't do all of that then you should talk to him in a light conversation the matter. if the conversation end up to nothing then you should find someone who's willing to love you back the way you can love. You have the choice, you only need the guts. a lot of persons are willing to love you and take good care of you. Just make a stand ok honey! God bless! |
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♫†☼☼♥Natasha♥☼☼†♫
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You should talk to him and hope that he get his self together and not just for that moment. If you have tried to talk to him and he says he is going to change and he does just for a short while then you already know what to expect then you should just separate. |
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closed
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Once someone starts lying to ya it's hard to have a bond with that person... Everyone is guilty of twisting things to their advantage when their wrong, but you need the whole package to make it work...I think you know the answer.... Sometimes the relationships we choose in our lives are not the ones we should have.... Life is just too short to be unhappy.... Good luck.... |
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debbob
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who cares if you are divorced again he sounds like a control freak ditch him |
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Esa
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I think divorce is the answer even though you don't wanna go through with it. You shouldn't have to suffer because of his stupid
choices and decisions. A relationship is 50/50 and I'm sure you know that. My boyfriend is lazy too but is also considerate and appreciative and he still chooses to be helpful in ways. I say toss him!! |
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DENISE
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NO MAN IS WORTH THE TRUBLE YOUR GOING THROUGH, YOUR BETTER THEN THIS,AND PLEASE DON'T LET THE WORD DIVORCE STOP YOU FROM FINDING SOMEONE WHO WILL DO BETTER FOR YOU, SO WHAT IF YOU DO IT AGAIN, WHERE SOMEONE WHAT IS WAITING FOR YOU OUT THERE.
GOOD LUCK IN WHAT EVER YOU DO. |
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Cindy C
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if he doesn't want to do counseling, leave him. Sorry but if you are unhappy, and he's not willing to fix that, then there's no need of him to be around. |
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citizen ex
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Go back to school and get a life. Stop living through men. Grow up! |
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misydoll
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Leave him and wait for Mr. Right. You don't deserve to be treated like that. Good luck. |
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jamie p
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i know what you mean my hubby does the same thing so when he dose that to me i tell him no it is all of you then i go have a drink with the girls or the moves |
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PRINCEZZ
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It's not uncommon to have multiple divorces now a days... If it doesn't work out move on w/ your life |
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helping_hand_only_4_u
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C'MON GROW UP...........DIVORCE ME AND FIND A GOOD HUBBY THIS TIME..WHEN YOU KNOW HE IS LAZY, A LIER, AND MAKES FALSE PROMISES, THEN WHY ON EARTH YOU DONT WANT TO DIVORCE HIM? |
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Mt.Dew
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Don't do his laundry, don't cook his meals, don't give him any loving, then ask him if he likes being single. He's already gone. Take a close look at yourself and start making better choices. |
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cmac
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life is too short. but if you want to make it work than do the work. also you did not say that you did not love him. |
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oregonerin
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Have you considered talking to a counselor? Not for both of you, just you. I am sorry to be opinionated, but I would want someone to give it to me straight, he's abusive towards you. It will only get worse. Get help and if necessary, get out. |
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Ole Whoopsie Daisy
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Stop nagging him and let him live his life. Learn to be a good wife. |
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Dragon_Queen
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You may not want to be divorced twice but you don't deserve a guy who lies to you and treats you that way. If he makes you miserable why deal with that. You need to tell him the truth and kick his butt to the curb. You don't deserve a guy who treats you like his slave and is really lazy, go out and find a guy who loves you for who you are and enjoys spending time with you doing things you like to do!!!!! |
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flippinn2003
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Honey use your head and do yourself a favor leave the losser. you have to beleive in yourself and go find you a real men that will treat you like a lady!! |
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freebird
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Get divorced twice.
You'd stay in a bad marriage just so you won't have to admit you made a mistake?
If you decide to stay, DON"T HAVE KIDS!!!! Don't drag a baby into your mistake.
Next time, marry a man, not a child. |
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xTekixNickolex
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Well if u are not happy then leave........so what if u have a 2nd divorce.......u can't be upset the rest of ur life!!! Find person who loves and really cares about u!!!! |
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He is a manipulator. You don't want your happiness to be based on not wanting to be divorce twice. You got married because you wanted to be close to someone, love them, trust them and be treated right by them. Do what is going to make you happy and it sounds like this guy is doing what is making him happy in spite of your feelings. Remember he is treating you this way because you are allowing it. Let him know how you feel and then make a plan on how to fix it and include consequences if nothing has changed in the time that you both agreed on. If he chooses not to adhere to those plans then follow through with what ever consequences you decide to do if he is not willing. So you need three things. 1. Sit down and tell him how you feel and suggest going to marriage counseling. If he says yes go on to the next thing. If he says no, then separate yourself from him because he is not worth your happiness. 2. Tell him that if he decide to stop going to counseling, before your issues are worked out, then you are leaving him. 3. If he does not respect you enough to try to work it out, then he does not love you the way you desire to be love. Leave him and don't look back!!! Don't make the relationship in your head what you think it ought to be. Woman do this a lot and stay in bad relationships way too long. The relationship should be between two people and worked on by both with 100% effort. I hope I was helpful. |
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kaiofhawaii
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You are going to have no choice and the sooner you put your bad experience with him behind you the better you will be for the next relationship.
Because it normally takes a year to heal and not carry (talk) about him to your potential boyfriend. So my recommendation is cut your losses. I think your key word here is I am MISERABLE. Love yourself enough to get out otherwise you will have no one to blame but you. Unless you need him to survive and I do not think none of us women need a man for that. Good Luck and Smile you have your best Friend right by your side.... YOU.... |
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Nickname
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I smell divorce just around the corner. DO NOT let him treat you this way. If you stay, it's because lack of self esteem. Move on. You don't need a man to make you happy. |
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RuneMage
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Honsetly, if he knows you dont want to be divoriced again, he has a lot of leeway to treat you badly, he is waiting to see how far he can go before you pop. By that time, you will be a mean and bitter woman, so bust his chops before he busts yours. Develope that backbone and stand up for yourself, hell, have a friend help you. You need to not be treated like this. |
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sassy_sexy_honey
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Do you want to spend the rest of your life with this man or do you want to get out of the relationship? Can you get things to work? Please see a counsellor, I am sure there is a background to this problem and only communication can fix it. |
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