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Gold Digger
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u got it all backwards, sweetie... ur sposed to be his boss an hes sposed to be scared of u... not the other way around... id never be slave to a pig either... instead its his job to do as i want... |
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Ken
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Umm yeah...I'm sure you speak for everybody. By the way, where is the best place to get a good deal on some combat boots? |
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Big Red
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Don't worry Wendy no man would find you attractive.
So your safe. oink....oink.. |
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*cAn'T hOLd ME dOwn*
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wtf? |
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bbq
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sweetheart i dont know what kind of marital relationships you have been witness to but most are not abusive. you have obviously been exposed to some people who are in a relationship and should not be. please do not assume it is the norm because it is not. |
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james_stailey@sbcglobal.net
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ok good for you not all of the guys are rude and abusive. heck i work for the state as a Correctional Officer at the State Prison and i take care of my wonderful wife of 6 years and our adorable 4 year old son. i help out when i can around the house and clean up things my wife needs me to clean up and wow lo and behold i even do the laundry and cook too wow! hope that helps change your mind on most of us guys |
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Trash Cat
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You make my day. |
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friendlyadvice
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This is true for some married women, but, honestly, not all men are pigs. You must have run across some pretty horrible men to feel that they all are abusive.
Each man is an individual with different qualities, just as women are. |
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BikerChick
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I feel sorry for insecure uninformed paranoid psychos who stereotype entire groups of humans - - they will live very lonely very unhappy lives. Ignorance is NOT bliss. |
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tahoeskiin
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Have you been abused? |
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momofsix
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I am married and my husband and I share responsibility of the house and children. He has never called me anything but baby and he is a hard worker. I am a stay at home mom by my choice. I am not his slave and he isnt mine. I have never heard him raise his voice nor curse. There are still good old school guys out there and u shouldnt catergize them in one pot. There are abusive men out there but remember that are also women who abuse their spouses. |
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Kassie
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Well ... I feel sorry for YOU.
Oh and my husband is not a pig. He's a human. |
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Meg
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Yeah...see, most people who are married actually trust their partner...we're not all psychopaths like you. |
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Єlmer♣Fuddstien™
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*winks*
I'm sorry you're so broke inside. But at least you're up front about it and not tricky and deceptive. That way you'll never marry some guy, make a baby, treat him like crap to divorce him and garnish his wages...I've seen that happen more than once with bitter women like you. Keep your knees together and stay up front about your man issues and everything is good. |
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MJ
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Maybe you need to reassess the type of guys you have chosen to associate with. Maybe you just swing the other way but don't be bringing your man hate and cover every one of them like that cause for the most part they are not all pigs |
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pinniethewooh
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I'd be afraid to live with somebody who's afraid to live with somebody like you. You are either very sheltered or very young. You will probably be very lonely in your old age. |
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*~*I love cupcakes*~*
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Are you spamming or got a question you forgot to post?
I am married but not afraid, what is there to be afraid of? Did you see this abuse happen at your house is that why your saying all this?
i agree with bbq, you need counseling. You probably went through this at a young age. Get help for you and your mother. I am also reporting you for spam.
Whatever traumas you do have settle them with a psychiatrist, not here posting offensive blogs for people to read. You obviously do have issues with men.
Find a girlfriend and post a blog!! No, your not smart. You honestly need help, find a female psychiatrist. and a girlfriend. |
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charitydowling
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you have got to be joking or have had some very bad experience with men. I have been married for 12 years and wouldn't change anything. He has never mad me feel uneasy or scared about anything. He is not abusive and if a man really loves you he wouldn't hurt you. Everyone has the capabity of being abusive it's rather choose to be or not even a woman |
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sillerious
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Kitikat
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For your information I have been happily married for close to 14 years. I don't know where you've gotten your insight into marriage, but 95% of the time it is not how you're describing. Sure there are those few cases where the guy is ruling and evil.
I feel sorry for you that you'll never get to experiece the awesome feeling of standing in the entry way of a church in your dream dress, your heart racing with excitement then the doors opening and you see the man that just the sound of his voice makes your heart flutter looking at you and you knowing that the simple beauty of you takes his breath away.
To never experience the awesomeness of telling that guy that you're pregnant and him being there with you at the birth...
you're truly missing out on an amazing expereince..like I said I'm so sorry for whatever it was that caused you to feel this way about marriage. |
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T Tyme
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Honey, I'm worried about you. At some point in your life you grew up in an abusive household. You have filled your head with ideas and thoughts that are sometimes true, but often not!
I wish you'd seek Jesus. If you did then you'd see the light. There are some abusive marriages out there. But there are some that are never abusive. It's about finding the right man and reading all of the signs before marriage. Marriage can be a beautiful thing if we include Jesus. My mother is married to my step-father and he's never laid a hand on her! Give love a try and by love I mean Jesus! I'm sorry you've been exposed to so much pain. ;) |
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Taz
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You sound like a very bitter person. I am sorry you feel the way you do. However not all guys are like that. I will pray for your happiness. |
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gypsy g
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Not all men are pigs...and if thats the way you feel then you should stay single forever. |
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ShineOn
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I feel badly for women who are abused too, but that certainly isn't everyone. Some women are more prone to being abused because they have seen it in their household and have never had a positive role model for a father. This keeps them from knowing what is "respectful and right" in a relationship. However, even they can get their self-esteem back. So, when you say that you feel sorry for married women, you simply aren't speaking for all of us.
And, you never know. Someday you may find someone special that you can trust and love. I hope you find that someday. Good luck to you. |
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Wondering
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Are you a little bitter about something?Sounds like you have some issues with men.Maybe you should try the gay thing for a change. |
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reyals999
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so sorry that you havent found a real man and that you are not a real woman cause a real woman wouldnt put up w/ that and a real man wouldnt do that |
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roseandron57
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I am a married woman who has a wonderful husband. All men are not abusive pigs. Mine is a decent, hardworking man who lets me know in so many ways each day how much I mean to him. No, I am not a newlywed. We have been married for 18 years and I don't regret it one bit. I think if people really mean it when they say "I do" instead of jumping into marriage, they might learn about the person they are marrying instead of learning about them after the wedding. |
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Smarty Pants
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Find a girlfriend! You need to "release some stress" |
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lavendergrl
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I think that you have some "daddy" issues that you need to work thru, first, and I don't even think that you like yourself. Have you ever been abused? How sad for you sweetie. Get help. Good Luck....Hope it works itself out |
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MarineWife
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I DONT FEEL SCARED? I FEEL SAFER HAVING A MAN BY MY SIDE.I AGREE WITH THE OTHER WOMEN WHAT REALATIONSHIPS HAVE YOU SEEN? AND YOU MIGHT WANT TO INVEST IN SOME COUNSELING.. |
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