I fell in love with a married woman, she decided to go back to her husband. What should I do ?

blue eyes

You should respect her decision and her marriage by leaving her alone. She obviously wants to work on her marriage and things would be too confusing if you remain in the picture. She needs to figure out where things went wrong with her husband and see if they can fix things.

If you stay in the picture, it will complicate things and she could end up going home in the end. You may think that she will chang her mind, but she already made her choice by going home. Don't drag this on any longer because it will just end up being a waste of time and you will end up stressed and broken hearted (if she stays married).

Give her the space and chance to work things out with her husband. Then if they don't, you will know that she didn't leave just because of you.

Armless Joe, Bipedal Foe

Quit going for married women?

ideally_rational

quotes the other guy because it was the right answer. "move on"

caldude1010101

Find another woman or get used to Rosie Palm and her 5 friends.

Ying

Leave her alone and find someone whose not married.

LeanyBean

Move on with your life, dude.

Tweety

Try to find another woman who isn't married this time.

Brutally Honest

You let her have her life back. Remember, you would be screwing up much more than a marriage if there are kids involved.

Move on sport....there are plenty of other women out there.

jeeperamyjo

move on

~ jus like me ~

move on
she had her husband way before you
dont mess up there relationship

PureLuv

You have to let her go. Stick to single girls next time.

Schwinn

Leave her alone.

mrsknowitall

Respect her marriage and if you really loved her let her go if she comes back again then she's yours and worth fighting for.

Modest

Find another woman, preferably single this time, if you are single. If you are married return to your wife.

Jeremy

Doesn't sound like she's on the market. Since she's married, you should move on (not fun, but reality). If her husband has run around on her and has blown their vows, and she wants to divorce, then you might be in business. She'll be available and you'll be in love!!! For now though - move on. Sorry.

denniscsh

then let her go,she dont love you

Move on you should have known better than to be messing around with someone that is married. I guess that's a lesson learned!!!

sweetgurl

you should do nothing leave her alone and let her be b/c if you really love her then you will want the best for her and her happiness let her enjoy her marriage w/o you trying to step in and do something remember there is always someone for everyone and she is not it for you obviously so wait for yours to come you will love her much more...TRUST ME!~~~let nature take its course...you'll find it much more simpler and you'll be much happier :) Good Luck

eolson2003

Move on with your life. There are more fish in the sea!

juda75

Let her go and try to find an unmarried woman of your own

jellybean

let her go obviously you meant nothing to her because she's back with her husband. Move on and find someone single next time.

sugarBear

a co-worker of mine fell in love & had an affair with a married woman who was also working in the same department as him. Her husband found out, he came down & waited for the guy outside with a baseball bat. It was almost midnight & we were all getting off work, he left before us & when he got to his car, the husband started beating him up with the baseball bat. It was bad, the guy ended up in the hospital with shattered knees & elbows. He's in a wheelchair now & is permanently disabled.

grjpbeatles2

I dont think you really LOVED her to begin with dude.
You THOUGHT you did.
If you KNOW a womans married, and you willingly pursue her and not even think about what that will do to her, her family, and her life; you obviously didnt care that much about her.

If you loved someone that was married, you would leave them alone, because you would end up ruining her marriage and hurting her.

You were just infatuated man... Get over her and find someone whose not married.

jlonva

let her go. She would have ended up doing the same thing to you.

Adina B

i say you start dating other people. it might be hard a t first but you have to start some where.
she probably wanted to get back with her husband to save whatever was left of her marriage and really there is nothing you can do about that. but the next person you date make sure she is not married that why you know she is all yours. well good luck.

emtb9

Move on and let her go.

That Deal

She made the choice for you. Move on.

butterfly

well I see there are alot of heartless people out there!!! anyway I can't say that I'm a married but seprated woman with kids and dating another guy who says he can't handle my life as crazy as it is, I will not go back to their father I just want him in the kids life till they are old enough to visit him on their own if they choose to my parents slipt and it got to a point I never saw my dad again then he passed away before I have my first son, and he never knew, if you want to talk to some one who is not going to give you stupid answers IM me

markus

Nothing... Let her go... forget about her.....go out meet new people (single woman). Look she my have been confused and didn't know what she wanted for a bit, now she has realized on what she wants and made her choice. Therefore leave her alone. Don't be a fool, so many single woman out there. Stay away and don't piss off the hubby

taurus_lynne

My best advice to you is to leave her alone! I am a woman who has went back to her ex not once but 3 times, yes I have made a few men mad! I would say she does not know what she wants. I have finally decided after 3 years I don't want my ex. It's to late now, I should have married someone else then and my chance has passed. If you let her go and she comes back she is yours and if she doesn't she never was.

Casey

leave her alone. find someone else.
dont fall inlove with married women

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